Most strippers are VERY fucked up... think about it. They are not paid to dance. They only make money doing "private dances" (not saying sex... but depending on the laws where they are dancing it could just be getting naked NO TOUCHING or full-in dry-fucking.
It is EXTREMELY DIFFICULT for any woman to maintain her sense of self-worth feeling like the only thing she is valued for is her ass and the *promise* of sex.... BUT - NOT IMPOSSIBLE.
I danced GOGO (clothing on - no private dancing) for two years. Most amount of money for the least amount of time... spent the rest of my time taking care of my kids - NO SUPPORT FROM MY EX and figuring out what I would do with the rest of my life to support us.
I worked over a year to produce and develop of very unique style of art - wrote and illustrated books for children.... am now in the process of acquiring publication and pursuing other avenues for my art.
I paid a heavy price for the short period of time that I did strip... HATED EVERY SINGLE SECOND OF IT so I quit. I dated a lot of men but NEVER EVER had a second date and NEVER EVER let them touch me because I couldn't get over the notion that they only wanted me for one thing - sex. I became cold and distant, totally unlike ME.
I now tend bar while building contacts, putting my work out there, etc. Make about the same amount of money WITH MY CLOTHING ON and am happier than a pig in shit.... finally feel ready to have a relationship if it should come my way.
My advice about dating a stripper or a dancer.... be very careful. NOT ALL are fucked up hoes.... but then again, not all school teachers are saints either. Did you all know that I encountered MANY teachers (early childhood ed up to college professors) who danced/stripped?
As with anything in life, think before you act. There are no guarantees in life. Do as you wish but really get to know someone before you give them your heart.
I think this applies to ANYONE...
