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fistfullofsteel
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what's it like when you feel a connection with somebody? i need some good answers.
When you feel a connection with somebody?
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Get to know a woman and forget about the magical mystical "connection" thing. Women are master manipulators when it comes to this "connection". It will most likely lead to empty pockets if you let them snow you with this nonsense.
fistfullofsteel
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fucktards, i'm looking for females to tell me what they experience when they feel a connection with a guy. 
fistfullofsteel said:fucktards, i'm looking for females to tell me what they experience when they feel a connection with a guy.
Thats what I'm trying to tell you son, they DONT feel it. They just want you to schmooze them because the dude they are actually fucking is broke.
It's a myth.
It's like you have Spidey sense. You know when they are going to walk in the room before they do. You know before the phone even rings it is them. You know exactly what they are going to say and can finish their sentences for them.
When you are close to them, it even feels like your skin is leaning towards them.
Pitter patter goes the little heart at the sound of their voice.
When you are close to them, it even feels like your skin is leaning towards them.
Pitter patter goes the little heart at the sound of their voice.
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lol @ jackschitt
funny, because it's true!
funny, because it's true!
fistfullofsteel
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blueta2 said:
what's going on inside and outside your mind?
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stilleto said:
i will pimp backhand slap you
vixensghost
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Lust and love connections are like night and day for most people with good heads on their shoulders.Lust takes a few seconds, love takes a long time! If this is what kind of connection you're talking about.
When I first met my hubby I never thought he'd "be the one". He was EVERYTHING I was NOT into. He was blonde with blue eyes and cute. I always dated men who were dark and exotic and striking handsome. He was VERY intense and REAAALY smart(genuis smart) I always dated guys who were not sure of their career goals and had average IQ's. He expected/demanded things to happen in his life. My old BF's only talked about hoping for things to happen in their lives.
However, the more I got to know him, he was very intersting. My curious side turned into love for him once I really got to know what he was alll about.
We are still VERY different. He's still very intense and I'm laid back and mellow. We mesh very well 2-gether. I'm soooo happy that I got to know the real man who did not fit my idea of what I thought was "the perfect" man.
Some connections(even the smallest ones) you must explore....
When I first met my hubby I never thought he'd "be the one". He was EVERYTHING I was NOT into. He was blonde with blue eyes and cute. I always dated men who were dark and exotic and striking handsome. He was VERY intense and REAAALY smart(genuis smart) I always dated guys who were not sure of their career goals and had average IQ's. He expected/demanded things to happen in his life. My old BF's only talked about hoping for things to happen in their lives.
However, the more I got to know him, he was very intersting. My curious side turned into love for him once I really got to know what he was alll about.
We are still VERY different. He's still very intense and I'm laid back and mellow. We mesh very well 2-gether. I'm soooo happy that I got to know the real man who did not fit my idea of what I thought was "the perfect" man.
Some connections(even the smallest ones) you must explore....
fistfullofsteel
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vixensghost said:
ok, so you found him interesting and that got you curious? that helped build a connection?
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fistfullofsteel said:
Yep, for this lady it did.
I must be built in the head different?
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superdave said:
Eat shit and die happy jackass.
I had a career at the time and was not looking to be taken care of.
Next theory?
vixensghost
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superdave said:
Vast majority? I think not. I was not looking for the Donald Trump type since I had the education to take care of myself at the time. So, that theory is clearly out!
It was more like he captured my curious side at first. I found all the other traits out after I got to know him better. All I knew, he was waaay different than anyone I had ever met before. He still is in many aspects.
He could have been the smartest trash man and I would not have cared!
fistfullofsteel
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what about the rest of the freaking lesbians on ef?
It's sort of rare for me. I like plenty of people easily, but for me connecting means letting my walls down even if just a little bit. It means I get distracted easily at work thinking about them or remembering the last time I saw them. It's a little scary for me because I rarely allow myself to be vulnerable with anyone. I tend to have a goofy smile on my face throughout the day. When I really connect with someone I relinquish my need to feel completely in control of myself and my emotions and I decide to just run with it and see where it takes me.
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