When you fall for someone...

[TheProject]

Is it different every time?

In other words, if you look back on the people you've dated, was the way your feelings developed dramatically different with each person?

 

[b fold the truth]

Is it different every time?

In other words, if you look back on the people you've dated, was the way your feelings developed dramatically different with each person?

Yes...after you fall HARD for someone...and get burned...I don't know if you ever just throw your caution to the wind again. Maybe you start to think with your head instead of your heart after a while...

B True

 

[notoriousQQ]

I say yes, different each time. Because as you go through life and continue to grow and progress as a person, you are also changing a little bit emotionally. So, there are a lot of variables and love is such a dynamic thing that I believe each romance comes about and manifests itself in a different way. While the feelings and love and attraction might be the same overall, the intensity of the emotion, how rapidly it onsets, those kind of things are unique for each.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Damn, you all should write a book with some of those responses. Good stuff.

 

[HG Pennypacker]

Yes. When you've been with the wrong people in the past, it will smack you right between the eyes when you find the right one. At least that's what happened to me.

I've heard that bullit can be a heartbreaker, so be careful little buckaroo.

 

[notoriousQQ]

Re: Re: When you fall for someone...

Yes...after you fall HARD for someone...and get burned...I don't know if you ever just throw your caution to the wind again. Maybe you start to think with your head instead of your heart after a while...

B True

Ya know what the bad thing though is B? Whenever somebody does burn you and you are not necessarily jaded but educated, in a way you are losing out on some of the brilliance and passion that uninhibited love has to offer whenever you are hesitant to throw caution to the wind and experience life with someone that you care about deeply. I know I'm definitely guilty of being guarded with my emotions.

 

[TheProject]

Re: Re: When you fall for someone...

Yes...after you fall HARD for someone...and get burned...I don't know if you ever just throw your caution to the wind again. Maybe you start to think with your head instead of your heart after a while...

B True

I don't feel like I've ever really been burned...but what happens when you meet someone that makes you want to throw caution to the wind again?

 

[b fold the truth]

Re: Re: Re: When you fall for someone...

I don't feel like I've ever really been burned...but what happens when you meet someone that makes you want to throw caution to the wind again?

Well...you have seen me...you know. You just take that step and follow it out as best as you can. Have FUN. FUN can hold a relationship together (at many levels) for quite a while.

There are no correct answers...there really aren't. Follow your heart, listen to your mind. The RIGHT one will be the one where your 'heart' is telling you the 'truth'!!!

B True

 

[Necrophagia]

What's falling for someone?

 

[AAP]

Yes. When you've been with the wrong people in the past, it will smack you right between the eyes when you find the right one. At least that's what happened to me.

Good lord ... YES!! When you fall hard for the wrong person... when you discover your "soulmate" is really a walking vat of Satan's poison.

It scars you and it keeps you from fully letting yourself fall for the right person in the future.

 

[Bullit]

OMFG!!!
Has Proj found a lady?

 

[saint808]

Follow your heart... your head will only get you in trouble... and you will know deep inside you are doing the right thing... if you never fail at love you are merely not trying hard enough.

 

[AAP]

Love is like a merry little elf dancing a dainty little jig.... and then turning on you with a submachine gun.

 

[Citruscide]

Re: Re: When you fall for someone...

Yes...after you fall HARD for someone...and get burned...I don't know if you ever just throw your caution to the wind again. Maybe you start to think with your head instead of your heart after a while...

B True

Yes. Dude. I agree.

I don't think you can FULLY appreciate a good relationship, until you've had that burn-job that has fucked you ass end over tea-kettle...

Not that you CAN NOT appreciate them... but I think you appreciate it alot more... Speaking personally, I'm not Rushing into anything like I might have before...

C-ditty

 

[naturally anabolic]

hey cc, not to get personal but what ended up being the final result with your ex? not from the aspect of breaking up cause that obvious but was there a resolution or an understanding made ? or does she still believe that ??

 

[Citruscide]

hey cc, not to get personal but what ended up being the final result with your ex? not from the aspect of breaking up cause that obvious but was there a resolution or an understanding made ? or does she still believe that ??

After seeing her at a hotel, I ran her over with a car 3 times... but since she didn't have a heart... she didn't die, and since the court ruled her to be inhuman, I didn't get charged with any crime.

C-ditty

 

[PHATchik]

That's a good question. I have only really fallen for very few guys in my life. Only one was a BAM! in your face kinda thing. The others developed over time against my will, lol. I still wrestle with those feelings at times. I guess I always will in a way. I don't think that when you care deeply for someone, you can just forget it ever happened. I don't regret them. I think for each person, things are different because each person is different.

 

[dballer]

Re: Re: When you fall for someone...

Yes...after you fall HARD for someone...and get burned...I don't know if you ever just throw your caution to the wind again. Maybe you start to think with your head instead of your heart after a while...

B True

This is VERY true.. once you fall HARD for someone.. and they break you.. it is hard to ever trust like that again.. let alone fall hard for someone again.

 

[Big Johnson]

Good lord ... YES!! When you fall hard for the wrong person... when you discover your "soulmate" is really a walking vat of Satan's poison.

It scars you and it keeps you from fully letting yourself fall for the right person in the future.

Love is great, isn't it? Perhaps castration is the answer...

 

[PHATchik]

Re: Re: Re: When you fall for someone...

This is VERY true.. once you fall HARD for someone.. and they break you.. it is hard to ever trust like that again.. let alone fall hard for someone again.

It's very hard. Sometimes, we allow it to be harder than it should be.

 

[saint808]

Re: Re: Re: When you fall for someone...

This is VERY true.. once you fall HARD for someone.. and they break you.. it is hard to ever trust like that again.. let alone fall hard for someone again.

and that in turn may come back to haunt you because you may fuck up a good thing because you get defensive or scared

 

[skaman607]

ah to be young and not have all the burdens of older folk

 

[vinylgroover]

I haven't changed over the years.

I have fallen for very few girls, and i'm very fussy so when i do i don't hold back.

Anything less to me is simply playing games and i never play games with people.