whats up with this...?

[cal]

been talking to a girl that was VERY into me a while back...lost touch, bc i moved back east etc...(hopefully not for long).

well weve, been talking about twice a week now...good convos etc...

thing is im the one that does the calling...but when i end the convo...she always says..."call me back soon" etc...

why wouldn't she call? I have a crazy schedule and there is a time difference of three hours...im in graduate school and extremely busy...


her mom was awfully nice the last time i called..."friend" must have told her mom about me...cuz she knew a few things about me...

 

[cal]

forgot to mention that she also ALWAYS says...i hope to hear from you very soon...in emails as well as phone convos...

im wondering if she still is wondering about my seriosusness...since i did blow her off a bit...when...we were in same city and probably lead her on a bit...told her i would call and took forever to do so...

 

[big4life]

Well, since you are real busy she probably doesn't want to disturb you by calling. And if she is still at home maybe she doesn't feel right about charging long distance calls to her parent's phone.

 

[The Shadow]

...she always says..."call me back soon" etc...

...therein lies the answer...if she didn't want to talk to you she wouldn't have said that

 

[PoyeBoy]

Maybe she wants to see if you are interested, like a test to see if you will keep calling her. I hate when Im the one who always calls. I know how ya feel dog. Maybe dont call her for a few days, send her a e-mail, and put in it call me soon or some shit.

Or maybe she likes to hold the power ring

 

[cal]

poyeboy.
yeah i hate feeling like im doing all the work myself.

thing is that she was the one doing all the work before...asking me out several times, asking to meet up when travelling, etc...i never did a damn thing...but tease and flirt with her a bit...

now it seems like its the other way around ...i really do like her though...so well see how it turns out.

 

[Night Fly]

I have never understood that, either. If someone wants to call me...and I enjoy talking to them...then no matter how busy I am, it's always nice to get a phone call from them.

It's when the..."give me a call soon" thing comes up that I think..."Why can't you call me? The phone line goes both ways." Seems like she enjoys having the upper hand...who knows.

 

[solidj55]

Maybe she wants you to shoot your kids on her face so she lick it up...

 

[cal]

well there is no doubt about that...just the distance factor. though shes coming to my neck of the woods in about a month or so...

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