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ItalMonster
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Hey guys,
I was just put into a very sticky situation, and I need some advice.
I have been kinda serious with a girl I met through my girlfriend two years ago, they were volleyball players on the same travel team. Me and gf broke up about 5 months ago, and when we broke up, me and her friend started to get together.
This girl, we'll call her Stacey(name obviously changed) has only had one boyfriend, and has only had sex with him, so I knew she was safe(THOUGHT).... Anyway, me and her have been hooking up for the past 5 months and getting really serious, this morning we're having breakfast at her house, at her request so we can talk. She tells me she tested HIV+. My jaw dropped, and I was wondering why she got tested, etc, etc, etc... Well, her ex cheated on her a couple times and he tested positive and decided to tell her almost 6 months after they broke up, about 2 weeks ago she gets tested, and it comes up positive.
Now, he let her go do whatever she wanted for those 6 months that she didn't date him, not telling her he knew he was HIV+. Me and him WERE friends and he knews me and her were hooking up, so I'm wondering if that's the reason he didn't tell her, just to kinda be a dick to me. Well, I am going to go get tested, and hope for the best, we've never had unprotected sex, but we've done other things that definitely put me at risk.
Thankfully me and my ex, have only been friends and haven't had contact so she doesn't have to worry, but should I tell her or just keep it quiet until I definitely know? Since I know I had relations with someone who is positive, will my doctor put me on meds? Should I stop juicing?? I'm on a cutting cycle right now.
I really don't know what to do, I don't want to tell my parents, but I feel like I should. Should I just wait until I get my tests back? Or should I just come out and tell them???
Thanks in advance,
Ital
I was just put into a very sticky situation, and I need some advice.
I have been kinda serious with a girl I met through my girlfriend two years ago, they were volleyball players on the same travel team. Me and gf broke up about 5 months ago, and when we broke up, me and her friend started to get together.
This girl, we'll call her Stacey(name obviously changed) has only had one boyfriend, and has only had sex with him, so I knew she was safe(THOUGHT).... Anyway, me and her have been hooking up for the past 5 months and getting really serious, this morning we're having breakfast at her house, at her request so we can talk. She tells me she tested HIV+. My jaw dropped, and I was wondering why she got tested, etc, etc, etc... Well, her ex cheated on her a couple times and he tested positive and decided to tell her almost 6 months after they broke up, about 2 weeks ago she gets tested, and it comes up positive.
Now, he let her go do whatever she wanted for those 6 months that she didn't date him, not telling her he knew he was HIV+. Me and him WERE friends and he knews me and her were hooking up, so I'm wondering if that's the reason he didn't tell her, just to kinda be a dick to me. Well, I am going to go get tested, and hope for the best, we've never had unprotected sex, but we've done other things that definitely put me at risk.
Thankfully me and my ex, have only been friends and haven't had contact so she doesn't have to worry, but should I tell her or just keep it quiet until I definitely know? Since I know I had relations with someone who is positive, will my doctor put me on meds? Should I stop juicing?? I'm on a cutting cycle right now.
I really don't know what to do, I don't want to tell my parents, but I feel like I should. Should I just wait until I get my tests back? Or should I just come out and tell them???
Thanks in advance,
Ital
