Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below Okay guys..here is the situation. I have been working at the same company for 2 years...I am 24 and I work with this girl who is also my age. Anyways, we kicked it off pretty good cause we both started working at the same time. I also grew up with one of her roomates but didn't know it until she told me. We both had signifigant others till recently. She broke up with her boyfriend around Jan. and I broke up with my GF around march. Anyways, I always thought this girl was cute and what not.....so last friday I go up to her and I ask her if she would like any "e" for the weekend.....free of charge. She said sure and I asked how many, she said 3 and I told her I would give her 5. I gave them to her and she called Saturday afternoon and told me thanks and what not. So she asked If I had more and I said yes, call me later. She called and said that her and her roomate are going out for her birthday and if I am downtown to give her a call. I was out with one of my buddies, not downtown, and she called and was like, "come out with us, I kind of want to have some fun tonight." So me and my buddy met her and her 2 friends at this bar. As soon as I get to the bar she is all over me...not kissing but hugging and holding my hand and all this shit. I am up at the bar and she asks if I like her....cause people around work say that it looks like I have a crush on her. I tell her "yeah, I like you, I would definitely date you." She said that we work together and she has already gotten involved with someone from work and had to break it off. I told her, jokingly, that I would quit....we both laughed and she said that she likes me too. So the night is going good and we left the bar....she says that we should all go back to her place. We all do...start hanging out and what not. Well, she then gets weird. I have a nexel and my buddy alerts me and I am talking to him. She is drunk and starts telling my friend that she is going to screw me. So all night she is grabbing me and showing me her tits and everything, but when I go into make a move she turns away and says that she doesn't want to hook up. I was like okay. So we all go to sleep around 6 a.m and we are alone in a room, I respect her so I don't try anything...all I do is rub her back so she can go to sleep. She then backs into me and she falls asleep in my arms. We wake up the next day and have breakfast and everything.....she called later that night and she starts saying how she didn't mean a lot of what she said. I got kinda pissed and told her that I feel like a asshole cause I never let my feelings out like that and I did to her and it didn't mean shit to her cause she didn't mean what she said. She said that it is no big deal and to forget about it. So now, at work, she is totally "ignoring" me. She used to come by my desk and bullshit a little. We would go out and get food once and a while..when she would get her she would say hi and shit. Now, nothing, no "hey, you want to go here."Or "will you go downstairs with me while I smoke." I got to tell you, It fucked me up....on top of it,..the dude she was seeing or having "casual sex" with is a complete tool. He looks like a heroin addict.....and I know it was him cause her roomate told me but she won't tell me straight out and lies to me about...she says she doesn't want to tell me cause she "likes" me. I don't know what the fuck to do. If I talk to her...it will make me seem like a lovesick puppy dog...I care about her in a ways and now I fell for her bullshit...what the fuck do I do. Sorry so long...had to vent. Thanls!
What to do about a girl at work....little long.
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FreakMonster
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Dude, Just ignore her bro.
No need to mess with some girl that is confused in the head.
It's only gonna stress you out more by worrying about it.
No need to mess with some girl that is confused in the head.
It's only gonna stress you out more by worrying about it.
Steroid_Virgin
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If you hack her head off her torso with a blunt office instrument, I think she will never ignore you again..
Lord_Suston
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if she ain't mature enough to respect your thoughts or emotions then don't even bother, find another chick, trust me there are plenty air heads out there why pick one at your job to bother you all the time......
slickdadd said:she showed you her boobies?
Yeah....she showed me her tits....all night long....even grabbed my hand and let me lay there with them on her chest. I know that her and I pobably wouldn't be good for each other....the broad wouldn't fucking quit though. I was laying there with her and she was all close to me and she was like "this feels so good, it feels right.....you make me feel like I am at home." she is from michigan and now lives in chicago. I think that she is starving for attention and what not. One of those chicks that wants to know that she is cared about. Just confusing as all hell. Now the girl acts like she doesn't want to be around me at all......fucking head cases. Thanks guys for the comments....keep them coming.
frorider6
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Ignore her. Make no attempt to talk to her. If she talks to you, be pleasant and funny but do not continue the conversation longer than necessary. This will probably cause her to become interested in you and try to bag you again. Be strong my brother. This chick has already shown she'll play you as soon as she gets a chance. Basically, it will never happen with her (nor would you want anything too). Preserve your dignity and politely brush her off.
This chick needs to use you to validate herself. Homie don't play that.
This chick needs to use you to validate herself. Homie don't play that.
polarpixie
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tp8181 said:
Walk away.....walk away now...nonono.....RUN AWAY. Get as far away as you can while you're still able to.
