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Frisky

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please someone... give them all they want, desire?

I found my self in a relationship where I worked 3 jobs at time to give him what he wanted. I don't regret it at all, cause I love to provide for people.

I bought him a few race cars, a harley, a boat.. the list goes on. you want I got it.

I was very loving, giving, a great provider and I even cooked and cleaned :verygood:

I guess you can actually give too much.
 
I would never do that for anyone. And anyone that would allow you to is a schmuck.
 
Not stuff that's never been much of an issue, maybe I've been lucky, or maybe I'm just sort of poor ;)

I've given my heart and trust absolutely and completely. Having that sh*t abused hurts like a mofo ... I'd rather go bankrupt. Money you can always rebuild, trust .... you get that screwed over one too many times you end up trusting nobody.
 
MuscleMom said:
Not stuff that's never been much of an issue, maybe I've been lucky, or maybe I'm just sort of poor ;)

I've given my heart and trust absolutely and completely. Having that sh*t abused hurts like a mofo ... I'd rather go bankrupt. Money you can always rebuild, trust .... you get that screwed over one too many times you end up trusting nobody.


believe me i never tried to buy the love.. I had it but i would just give him everything because of it. I never wanted him to do without.

I'd do it all again though cause thats just me. I give alot, family friends etc.. but when my trust is lost, its gone... no getting that back.
 
Erzulie said:
believe me i never tried to buy the love.. I had it but i would just give him everything because of it. I never wanted him to do without.

I'd do it all again though cause thats just me. I give alot, family friends etc.. but when my trust is lost, its gone... no getting that back.
Oh I'll do the exact thing right now with my husband. I've reached the point in my life where I realize a) we're probably going to be in debt until we're deceased, and b) life's too short. I'm the banker of the house, if he says he'd like to get such and such, I tell him go ahead (it's usually reasonable), kind of cute to watch him talk himself out of buying it ;)
 
There's a point where when you give too much in the form of things that the other person should really be more responsible for, you often get taken for granted. I love being generous, but I've discovered that my level of generosity has to match only my expectation of the satisfaction it will give ME - not anything I can expect from the person I give to. Sometimes it deosnt' work like that and then you feel like you are getting used.

I guess I have very high expectations of myself & I've finally started having those same expectations of the people I bring into my life.
 
MuscleMom said:
Oh I'll do the exact thing right now with my husband. I've reached the point in my life where I realize a) we're probably going to be in debt until we're deceased, and b) life's too short. I'm the banker of the house, if he says he'd like to get such and such, I tell him go ahead (it's usually reasonable), kind of cute to watch him talk himself out of buying it ;)


did the same thing suga, never said no.. would find my self taking on more house plans or another job just to not get to far into debt. Funny NOW, that we aren't together he realizes how he had it made.. go figure, when its too late.
 
mightymouse69 said:
racecars, now damn your talking...I would keep you - I wrecked about 10


don't even get me started.. lol

I bought about 5k of parts that stayed in storage for a bit to go in a race car that was set up only for the strip. ended up freaking losing so much damn money on that deal :mad:

lol

then of course bought a 93 mustang and right before we divorced bought an engine for it that cost me 6k.. and the fucker traded the car and the engine for another car not even worth the value

wtf?

LOL
 
In all honesty, based on your first post, you were a great wife...

Erzulie said:
don't even get me started.. lol

I bought about 5k of parts that stayed in storage for a bit to go in a race car that was set up only for the strip. ended up freaking losing so much damn money on that deal :mad:

lol

then of course bought a 93 mustang and right before we divorced bought an engine for it that cost me 6k.. and the fucker traded the car and the engine for another car not even worth the value

wtf?

LOL
 
mightymouse69 said:
In all honesty, based on your first post, you were a great wife...


I'd like to think i was... ;) He had a hard time admitting it then but tells me that every day now.
 
Erzulie said:
please someone... give them all they want, desire?
I found my self in a relationship where I worked 3 jobs at time to give him what he wanted. I don't regret it at all, cause I love to provide for people.
I bought him a few race cars, a harley, a boat.. the list goes on. you want I got it.
I was very loving, giving, a great provider and I even cooked and cleaned :verygood:
I guess you can actually give too much.
Why hello EZ. How are you? :qt: :rose: wait before I get carried away, are you still willing to do all those things (especially the buying the race car part)?
 
Mavafanculo said:
Why hello EZ. How are you? :qt: :rose: wait before I get carried away, are you still willing to do all those things (especially the buying the race car part)?

lol

I'd do it all over again
 
Erzulie said:
lol

I'd do it all over again
Cool. I can be there by Friday. I'll practice drawing the alphabet with my tongue in the meantime. How soon can we order the Maserati? Can I have 2? Do you make ravioli?

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change title to: How Whipped are you? and i'd rather see this turn into a Young Frankenstein Tribute thread.
 
Erzulie said:
please someone... give them all they want, desire?

I found my self in a relationship where I worked 3 jobs at time to give him what he wanted. I don't regret it at all, cause I love to provide for people.

I bought him a few race cars, a harley, a boat.. the list goes on. you want I got it.

I was very loving, giving, a great provider and I even cooked and cleaned :verygood:

I guess you can actually give too much.

so true, you can give too much and it can go unappreciated saddly :(

many people do not return the favour and its not about receiving materialistic things but about the though which counts....
 
Erzulie said:
please someone... give them all they want, desire?

I found my self in a relationship where I worked 3 jobs at time to give him what he wanted. I don't regret it at all, cause I love to provide for people.

I bought him a few race cars, a harley, a boat.. the list goes on. you want I got it.

I was very loving, giving, a great provider and I even cooked and cleaned :verygood:

I guess you can actually give too much.
I always hear American people talk about working multiple jobs. I don´t get it. Don´t the hours overlap? if its all part time, its not really 3 jobs, is it
 
Hiatussin said:
I always hear American people talk about working multiple jobs. I don´t get it. Don´t the hours overlap? if its all part time, its not really 3 jobs, is it

i never could understand how people give 110%. where the fuck does the extra 10% come from? did they not give a full 100% for a couple of days and saved it for that 110%? i never understood it.
 
I have never gone to some crazy,unthinkable extreme, nor would the men I date let me. As long as I keep doing all the things I do, that is all. I don't think the type of man I date or would spend the rest of my life with would let me go to such an extreme if it did not better me as an individual, us as a couple or family. To be honest, it would be a turnoff; I would be dumped for sure.

I guess it depends on the person and what they want. Also, what the other party considers to be extreme. An extreme for me, would be not touching the thermostat, not using up to 2 rolls of toilet paper a day, and/or not eating up the good protein bars.
 
Erzulie said:
please someone... give them all they want, desire?

I found my self in a relationship where I worked 3 jobs at time to give him what he wanted. I don't regret it at all, cause I love to provide for people.

I bought him a few race cars, a harley, a boat.. the list goes on. you want I got it.

I was very loving, giving, a great provider and I even cooked and cleaned :verygood:

I guess you can actually give too much.
Martyr Syndrome!
You can't please someone who doesn't want to be happy; you can't "make" someone happy. No matter what I did it was never enough for my ex-wife. She was incapable of feeling contentment regardless of the situation. We went to couples counseling and the therapist told her, "Maybe you're too high maintenance for Brian, perhaps you should get divorced." You're not responsible for making someone else happy, just don't make their life worse! :lmao:
 
I have been in a relationship where the man doesn't really give much emotionally and it drove me NUTS....I felt like I was banging my head against the wall.. the only time he opend up was during sex...so the more I wanted sex the more he thought I was a perv lol....but i wanted the intimacy that came with the sex that I couldn't get any other time
 
spongebob said:
i never could understand how people give 110%. where the fuck does the extra 10% come from? did they not give a full 100% for a couple of days and saved it for that 110%? i never understood it.
I suppose the most you can work- theoretically, is about 105 hours a week. that´s 8 hours to wash and sleep, 1 to eat, and 15 to work, 7 days a week.

thats still not 3 office time jobs
 
Erzulie said:
please someone... give them all they want, desire?

I found my self in a relationship where I worked 3 jobs at time to give him what he wanted. I don't regret it at all, cause I love to provide for people.

I bought him a few race cars, a harley, a boat.. the list goes on. you want I got it.

I was very loving, giving, a great provider and I even cooked and cleaned :verygood:

I guess you can actually give too much.

FUCK! And all I fucking want is a damned basket! Is that too much to ask for?

Yep, the Canuck woke up on the wrong side of the bed.
 
Hiatussin said:
I suppose the most you can work- theoretically, is about 105 hours a week. that´s 8 hours to wash and sleep, 1 to eat, and 15 to work, 7 days a week.

thats still not 3 office time jobs


I never said Anything about working 3 office jobs. I also have my own home business, and mixed in working weekends at my aunts business.
 
JavaGuru said:
Bachelor party stripper? :worried:


lol

no, my business was doing blueprints and my aunts was a small deli/store on the waterfront.
 
Mavafanculo said:
I dont care what stick says, you're cool thanks.

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I don't care what he says either...

and I know, I am aren't I :verygood:
 
Mavafanculo said:


I know I never ate that shit... blech!


So ya wanna settle for some down home cajun cookin' ? ;)
 
Erzulie said:
please someone... give them all they want, desire?

I found my self in a relationship where I worked 3 jobs at time to give him what he wanted. I don't regret it at all, cause I love to provide for people.

I bought him a few race cars, a harley, a boat.. the list goes on. you want I got it.

I was very loving, giving, a great provider and I even cooked and cleaned :verygood:

I guess you can actually give too much.

you had me at RACE CARS.... :heart: :heart: :heart:

seriously, however, i could in no way ever take anything from a woman. working towards something together- i could do.
 
Erzulie said:
I bought him a few race cars, a harley, a boat.. the list goes on. you want I got it.

Call me old-fashioned, but any man who would accept all of that from a woman is a loser. Unless she is some super rich person.
 
Gymgurl said:
I have been in a relationship where the man doesn't really give much emotionally and it drove me NUTS....I felt like I was banging my head against the wall.. the only time he opend up was during sex...so the more I wanted sex the more he thought I was a perv lol....but i wanted the intimacy that came with the sex that I couldn't get any other time

Did anyone else get a boner after reading this?
 
Gymgurl said:
I have been in a relationship where the man doesn't really give much emotionally and it drove me NUTS....I felt like I was banging my head against the wall.. the only time he opend up was during sex...so the more I wanted sex the more he thought I was a perv lol....but i wanted the intimacy that came with the sex that I couldn't get any other time

well said....
 
gg said it very well:)

and frisky, your a doll for trying and being a good wife
sometimes it sucks but its not enough
 
Erzulie said:
I know I never ate that shit... blech!

So ya wanna settle for some down home cajun cookin' ? ;)
whats that, possum ravioli? As long as I'm not tasting anything that can taste me back. p.s. you ordered the maserati in silver right?

actually I love spicey stuff - lots of red pepper, hot sauce etc
 
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