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What do you do when you are nervous?

I tend to clench my teeth if I'm mildly nervous, I pace around cracking everything that will if I'm going nuts.
 
I bite the insides of my cheeks. Some times if it is too much anxiety I scratch my scalp.
Self inflicting pain does not hurt!
LOL
 
I always bite my bottoom lip! Sometimes I squeeze my hands together too.. Weird!
 
GoldenDelicious said:
i only get nervous when im naked...and usually, i just pray ;)

("please dont be a man please dont be a man please dont be a man" ;))


Nervous.. Naked... Oh, because of your inexperience with women.. Get it! ;)
 
Ilk said:
Nervous.. Naked... Oh, because of your inexperience with women.. Get it! ;)
aaaaactually it was a stealth tranny joke :dodgy:...BUT since youre on the topic, i think first time sex is much harder for men (heehee ;)) becasue of all the pressure to perform, be the right size etc

all a woman has to do is be there, and thats it.

total bullshit imo.
 
GoldenDelicious said:
aaaaactually it was a stealth tranny joke :dodgy:...BUT since youre on the topic, i think first time sex is much harder for men (heehee ;)) becasue of all the pressure to perform, be the right size etc

all a woman has to do is be there, and thats it.

total bullshit imo.


I know Delicious..Winding you up.. ;)

First time with a new partner should be fun.. It is harder for men.. Need to touch the right spots.. :p Size.. Seriously, We don't care as long as you know how to pleasure us and that's enough.. Well its enough for me anyway.. ;)

No guy should feel pressured about performance.. Same goes to women too.. ;)
 
Ilk said:
I know Delicious..Winding you up.. ;)

First time with a new partner should be fun.. It is harder for men.. Need to touch the right spots.. :p Size.. Seriously, We don't care as long as you know how to pleasure us and that's enough.. Well its enough for me anyway.. ;)

No guy should feel pressured about performance.. Same goes to women too.. ;)
give me warning when you do that, im not used to dry humour anymore ;)

also, i learned my first lesson about size counting A LOT when one of my (very hot, "best new look of the year" competition winning model) classmates proclaimed that according to cosmo, her boyfriends penis was "below average" (despite him pleasing her otherwise) and that she was going to dump him

then karma struck, she hooked up with this UGLY redheaded fat aussie guy, and her looks went down the gurgler (she was part asian, and her face went really flat all of a sudden...like she copped a frypan to the face ;))

anyway i have no dramas with bedroom nervousness. for some reason, i get all smooth and relaxed, like the fonz - its AFTER when i think "dum dum dum yeah that was nice shes sweet dum dum HOLY SHIT WHAT DID I DO THERES A STRANGE GIRL IN MY BED!!!1!"
 
Angel said:
Any habits?

e.i- nail biting, cheek chewing, lip biting, laugh, etc!
Specifically, all of the above. Constantly really, not just in exceptionally stressful situations. The behaviors do increase when Im notably nervous or anxious. And then when Im really in a bad spot, I'll get the heart palpitations, heat rushing to my face and head and read blotchiness all over my neck, ears, face, etc..confusion, inability to focus or sometimes inability to remember what I was just doing. I think that for many many years (unfortunately) I truly relied heavily on nicotine to calm my nerves and I didnt have nearly such prevelant symptoms as I do now. Good thing for everyone else in the world that I keep it all inside so as not to burden anyone around me.
 
^^^ same here......I break out in those rashed on neck and all. A good glass of wine (or 2) is always good during these times. :)
 
:mix: Oxytocin... if that doesn't work Oxycontin! :mix:
 
GoldenDelicious said:
give me warning when you do that, im not used to dry humour anymore ;)

also, i learned my first lesson about size counting A LOT when one of my (very hot, "best new look of the year" competition winning model) classmates proclaimed that according to cosmo, her boyfriends penis was "below average" (despite him pleasing her otherwise) and that she was going to dump him

then karma struck, she hooked up with this UGLY redheaded fat aussie guy, and her looks went down the gurgler (she was part asian, and her face went really flat all of a sudden...like she copped a frypan to the face ;))

anyway i have no dramas with bedroom nervousness. for some reason, i get all smooth and relaxed, like the fonz - its AFTER when i think "dum dum dum yeah that was nice shes sweet dum dum HOLY SHIT WHAT DID I DO THERES A STRANGE GIRL IN MY BED!!!1!"


People can take my humour quite seriously sometimes.. Will give you a heads up next time..

Size! Nah.. She must've been young and reading cosmo and dumping someone because of that.. Immature.. Many many of my friends would prefer an average size to a huge schlong.. They hurt!!

Anyway smooth and relaxed is good.. LOL at the 'there's a strange girl in my bed' Bet yr a heartbreaker! ;)
 
My heart speeds up real fast and I get heat flashes. When I am mindful enough, I can step outside of the nervousness and watch it until it dies.
 
Ilk said:
Size! Nah.. She must've been young and reading cosmo and dumping someone because of that.. Immature.. Many many of my friends would prefer an average size to a huge schlong.. They hurt!!
notice how you say what youre friends would prefer, but make no statements for yourself ;) suspicious lol

Ilk said:
Anyway smooth and relaxed is good.. LOL at the 'there's a strange girl in my bed' Bet yr a heartbreaker! ;)
no really i have a pickup alter-ego...he comes out and talks in this breathy kind of voice and manages to say all the right things...then halfway through sex my geeky normal self comes out, realises that im having sex, throws his hands up in teh air and says "weeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!" ;)

(okay not really ;) but still, sometimes i have no clue how i pull some of this stuff off ;) )
 
GoldenDelicious said:
notice how you say what youre friends would prefer, but make no statements for yourself ;) suspicious lol

no really i have a pickup alter-ego...he comes out and talks in this breathy kind of voice and manages to say all the right things...then halfway through sex my geeky normal self comes out, realises that im having sex, throws his hands up in teh air and says "weeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!" ;)

(okay not really ;) but still, sometimes i have no clue how i pull some of this stuff off ;) )


I get alot of feedback from friends.. I on the other hand.. Don't like the schlooongggggg toooo big.. But if things aren't going MY way in bed.. I slow it down and show what needs to be done.. Then BAM.. Pleasureeeeeeee!!!!

hands up in teh air.. Weeeeeeeee!! Funny.. :FRlol:

Women like what you do in bed.. I just know.. You pull all this off cos its you and yr not fake about it.. I prefer one to be themselves rather than acting through sex.. Big turn off! ;)
 
GoldenDelicious said:
alright how the hell did you give 2 lots of karma in one day? thsi is bullshit. everyone knows all the cool tricks except me :(


You have to spread K around abit before giving it to the same person..

Can't be given to the same thread either.. ;)
 
Ilk said:
You have to spread K around abit before giving it to the same person..

Can't be given to the same thread either.. ;)
not bad, for an alte...ahem. rookie ;) lol

nite ilk, i will get round to some pm's eventually :)
 
nervousness just brings off basic anxiety symptoms, i.e. increased heartrate mostly. I've only had a problem with it ONCE in my life but it was bad lol...
 
GoldenDelicious said:
not bad, for an alte...ahem. rookie ;) lol

nite ilk, i will get round to some pm's eventually :)


Funny! You make yourself laugh huh! (heads up, dry humour)!!

Nite from me too.. Been up since 4am.. PM's eventually... :bigkiss:
 
i bite my freakin nails, ok well i bite them even if im not nervous
but if im sitting down i shake my leg, its a habit i took up from my dad

oh and i ramble and stuff
it sucks
 
GoldenDelicious said:
i only get nervous when im naked...and usually, i just pray ;)

("please dont be a man please dont be a man please dont be a man" ;))


I figured you were praying because you were naked with a priest, you do look kind of young.

Cheers,
Scotsman
 
when i get nervous i always have to take a dump.
 
I either bite my lower lip or my inside of my cheek, I have some serious marks there.
 
Nervous in a situation, I'll start talking really fast, short answers. Nervous in general, self grooming. I'll go home and travel from head to toe doing all trimming, shaving, ect.
 
Smurfy said:
I bleed daily.
in your cheek?
ever see how it gets the white skin over it...I make em bleed.I push so hardo n the outter cheek and plus I am anemic so I bruise.
People must think great things about need2 when we go out in public
 
Angel said:
in your cheek?
ever see how it gets the white skin over it...I make em bleed.I push so hardo n the outter cheek and plus I am anemic so I bruise.
People must think great things about need2 when we go out in public
ditto. especially when Im driving. but i basically do it constantly. and now I have TMJ.
 
Smurfy said:
ditto. especially when Im driving. but i basically do it constantly. and now I have TMJ.
I think I have an onset of athritis(sp) after chewing so long my hands cramp up. I use my index finger to push the skin in so I can chew more and deeper.

God I love you.All this time I thought I was the only one doing it. I thought I was crazy for still doing it. Self inflicting pain is not normal, although it does not seem to hurt. It bleeds and shit and when I eat salt it stings, but while doing it it is almost like numb or whatever.

ever fear of mouth cancer? Need2 dad keeps telling me I will end up with it eventually
 
Angel said:
I think I have an onset of athritis(sp) after chewing so long my hands cramp up. I use my index finger to push the skin in so I can chew more and deeper.

God I love you.All this time I thought I was the only one doing it. I thought I was crazy for still doing it. Self inflicting pain is not normal, although it does not seem to hurt. It bleeds and shit and when I eat salt it stings, but while doing it it is almost like numb or whatever.

ever fear of mouth cancer? Need2 dad keeps telling me I will end up with it eventually
I do the exact same thing you do. Exactly. It looks really silly though. Have you ever watched yourself or glimpsed in the mirror while doing it? I have but it doesnt seem to deter me. Bad habits.
 
Smurfy said:
I do the exact same thing you do. Exactly. It looks really silly though. Have you ever watched yourself or glimpsed in the mirror while doing it? I have but it doesnt seem to deter me. Bad habits.
me either. I actually like the mirror image. That way there I know right where to chew.
Ok sweets needto is stealing my comp..will carry on tomorrow
 
I get really bad anxiety sometimes. When I was a child, I bit my nails until half of my nail bed was exposed, and they would get infected. I bit the insides of my cheeks until I had sores all over them. I had those waking nightmares and had so much anxiety about going to bed that I would try to stay awake night after night.

Now, I sometimes get really bad shivers and my teeth chatter when I'm nervous. It looks like I'm freezing, but it is just nerves.
 
Scotsman said:
LOL No wonder you're popular with sailors.

Cheers,
Scotsman
noooo, sailors usually hate me :D usually because im with a girl, while theyre with their 6 buddies, and im like "so, you gotta go back to the ship in 3 hours, huh? thats gotta suck"

the trick is to say it really offhandedly, so that there not sure if youre giving them shit, and get really depressed about it :lmao:

best time that happened, i was with an american girl, and the sailors were american. i know its cruel, but i loved it :lmao: (she was awesomly hot, btw :p)
 
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