Very important question..

[Lestat]

For those of you that are married or have a steady girlfriend.. how many of you let them look at this site and your postings?

 

[Citruscide]

I did... but I believe they have removed their account.

It's not too cool... unless they were already a member of EF, I wouldn't even tell my SO about this site... it is my salvation... as pathetic as it sounds.

C

 

[Star]

My Ex when he was current would read up on me and to tell ya the truth I felt violated. He then used the site when we broke up to stalk me........now he just uses it to find out what's going on in my life. I know this because he has mentioned things to mutual friends.

 

[vixenbabe]

Yes, he'll read my Elite postings once in awhile.

Does it ever cause problems? Nope. He knows how I am and he still married me!








Thank God he has a short attention span 99.5% of the time.....

 

[grlpwrd]

I told my hubby about this place and I'm sure he checks up on me. He wonders when I am going to change my avatar to something more revealing... which I will never do.

 

[Lestat]

I think I agre with C Diddy... if the person was already on here.. then cool..

But if I am dating someone and she comes on here and reads past sex stories.... talking about maybe wanting to try illegal substances... who knows if they would be ok with that... If I was to get super serious then maybe eventually I'd talk about it.. but still I don't think I'd like someone checking up on everything.

 

[gettinlarger]

My Ex when he was current would read up on me and to tell ya the truth I felt violated. He then used the site when we broke up to stalk me........now he just uses it to find out what's going on in my life. I know this because he has mentioned things to mutual friends.

Wow. What an immature little girl wuss fag.

 

[vixenbabe]

He wonders when I am going to change my avatar to something more revealing... which I will never do.

Huh? What does that have to do wuth the price of beans in China? As long as he approves what you use for an avatar it should not matter! peace

 

[BronzedGoddess]

The hubby used to check up on me A LOT but he eventually got over it.

 

[Ceebs]

Yup. I gave him my login and pass, as a matter of fact. I've asked that he not methodically search for my posts, but I doubt he has time to stalk me like that. I wouldn't say anything on EF that I wouldn't say in person anyway.

So fess up, Brian. Who's the chick.

 

[HumorMe]

My wife has no interest whatsoever.

Besides, like Vix said, she knows I am and she is still married to me.

 

[-SD-]

About a year ago, happened to be sept. 11, I suggested this site to the girl I was seeing at the time for fitness/health purposes, totally slipping my mind all of the things over the years Ive posted. So she does a full search of my username for some reason and the shit hit the fan so she wanted to leave me while we were on YM chatting about it (sort of cowardly if you ask me). Sure Ive said some bad things but the way I look at it this is almost like a diary where things are vented/said/expressed that arent said in person to people you know in real life. I should have left her that day but in my stupidity I convinced her I wouldnt go to the site anymore, etc. Very stupid of me to compromise like that, I know. In my stupidity I also decided to drag it out for another 9 months. So from now on what I do is tell women as soon as the subject is brought up "This is a discussion board Im on, I have been on it for multiple years, I have said a lot of studid things, but its the internet and its mostly for entertainment, so if you dont like it then dont let the fucking door hit you in the ass."

 

[Star]

That reminds me of when my Ex actually "forbid" me to go to this site any longer........lol. He didn't like the flirting that went on here or some crap like that. What a joke!

 

[Pink Space Biscuit]

Yep my bf is a member.

 

[Lestat]

Yup. I gave him my login and pass, as a matter of fact. I've asked that he not methodically search for my posts, but I doubt he has time to stalk me like that. I wouldn't say anything on EF that I wouldn't say in person anyway.

So fess up, Brian. Who's the chick.

No chick yet Ceebs! I'm not through with you yet

 

[sermon_of_mockery]

I don't think my girl would appreciate the pics I've posted here.

 

[Shak]

my boyfriend could care less...he's just glad i have something to do at work.

i wouldn't mind if he joined elite - maybe it would inspire him to get his butt in the gym more.

 

[juiceddreadlocks]

For those of you that are married or have a steady girlfriend.. how many of you let them look at this site and your postings?

my gf posts under buffy beffy.

 

[sermon_of_mockery]

Re: Re: Very important question..

my gf posts under big_bad_buff.

 

[Devastation]

Re: Re: Re: Very important question..

my wife don't give two craps what i post on here

 

[biteme]

My Ex when he was current would read up on me and to tell ya the truth I felt violated. He then used the site when we broke up to stalk me........now he just uses it to find out what's going on in my life. I know this because he has mentioned things to mutual friends.

Oh the drama. Don't need it anymore. Why do people waste their energy on such nonsense?

 

[Buffy Beffy]

Re: Re: Re: Very important question..

Hey now.