To those involved in serious relationship..

[big dog]

How the hell do you manage to stay faithful? I have been with the same girl for almost three years and really love her, but I have been getting so many offers lately its been getting harder and harder for me to turn them down. I have never been a cheater and dont want to become one.

 

[ballablockin]

It's not worth it. Think about the consequences if you get caught. You could possibly lose her forever. I've been there.

 

[The Shadow]

How the hell do you manage to stay faithful? I have been with the same girl for almost three years and really love her, but I have been getting so many offers lately its been getting harder and harder for me to turn them down. I have never been a cheater and dont want to become one.

Bro - I been married for 9 years. Getting hit on is a fact of life. I'm sure your girl gets offers herself. The key is not to place ypourself in a situation where you know there is a possibility that you will be tempted. Try to avoid the potential problems as often as possible.

 

[kunta]

yep thats true cornholio, thats why they really don't workout too often in college

 

[big dog]

Yeah Cornholio, I really dont go out without her because I know what I may do when I start getting loaded.

 

[Iceman121]

How the hell do you manage to stay faithful?

You don't

 

[Night Fly]

I also agree with Corn and Kunta.

Most guys/girls in college could care less if the woman or man they are hitting on has a significant other. They are drunk and they want a piece of ass.

I'm not saying to stay completely away from those situations, because I am sure that you like to go out...just take her with you when you go. That way...you will make known to all of those drunk ass guys and girls (for you) that she and you are taken.

You also need to think of new and exciting things for you all to do so that you can reinforce the relationship and your feelings for one another.

 

[WODIN]

Corholio said it very well...It's a choice you make and deal with.

 

[The Shadow]

Corholio said it very well...It's a choice you make and deal with.

For example when Mrs. WODIN is away he avoids the llama barn at all costs.

 

[WODIN]

For example when Mrs. WODIN is away he avoids the llama barn at all costs.

Those are the times I'm truley frustrated!

 

[May1010]

but I have been getting so many offers lately its been getting harder and harder for me to turn them down...

KAYNE has finally worn down your defenses? Yeah, I knew you'd venture over to the FABULOUS side sooner or later...you've just got a gay look to ya.

 

[rnch]

may,

polite decorum and good taste prohibits any comment on what the hell you look like!

 

[rushx79]

ever heard chris rock's old pussy new pussy bit? words of wisdom.

 

[FrankRizzo]

I am having a similiar bout with myself. Other good people on here told me to steer clear. I'm on cycle and it really makes it tough, but I need to do it (or NOT do it). I am not only in a very serious relationship, I am married, so it is out of the question for me. Just know inside that you are tougher than that and stick to your guns!

It would be at most an hour or so of fun in the hay, then once you bust the nut and realize that you just put the best thing in your life in jeopardy, you will be sorry. Puss is Puss is Puss.

 

[slickdadd]

Exactly. Just go home and beat it. You will not even worry about it. Or in this case, go home and get some from your significant other. Get that evil juice out of your system. Its nothing to worry about.

 

[Big Brother Val]

Just depends on how you view it. I worship my lady. I couldn't force myself to sleep with another gal. I had an opportunity for a two on 1 Saturday... and me and my gal are just about finished... and I still didn't go.

I want no one but her.

Ever.

My issue... is keeping her only wanting me. That's my challenge.

If you entertain the thought of other women... you will always entertain that thought. And your guilty conscience may actually be misplaced on her, causing you not to trust her as much, thinking she may be thinking or acting how you're thinking. I've seen it destroy my friends relationships.

Be careful.

 

[daised]

if it's true love you don't have to "try" to be faithful.

 

[bigschweeler]

It would be at most an hour or so of fun in the hay, then once you bust the nut and realize that you just put the best thing in your life in jeopardy, you will be sorry. Puss is Puss is Puss.

Words to live by. No matter how much you want it leading up to the point of no return, once you're finished you will regret it and feel like complete dogshit.

 

[big dog]

Thanks for the advice. I have decided to try and stay faithful even if I have to lock myself in the house.

 

[BigDogg]

Thanks for the advice. I have decided to try and stay faithful even if I have to lock myself in the house.

good choice man, if u find someone u care that much about, bangin someone else for a night or two aint worth it..

 

[MP5]

I have had a lot of chances too, but I thought about my girl sitting there crying, calling all her friends, her mother, and having her never talk to me again if she found out... that put an end to those wild ideas. You don't want some sweaty dude getting his dick sucked by your girl do you? It goes both ways.

 

[Gilbyag]

Re: Re: To those involved in serious relationship..

Bro - I been married for 9 years. Getting hit on is a fact of life. I'm sure your girl gets offers herself. The key is not to place ypourself in a situation where you know there is a possibility that you will be tempted. Try to avoid the potential problems as often as possible.

wurd...

 

[FrankRizzo]

Man, why did he have to be sweaty? That is another good point though. Put yourself in your woman's position and think how you'd feel.

 

[THeMaCHinE]

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[THeMaCHinE]

You think about what you have to lose (particularly if you have kid(s) -- do you want to become a weekend daddy for a piece of stray? Do you want to explain that to your kids?) and you make a decision each and every time. If it's not in your character, you will always regret it.