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HighIntensity
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your a young man 17, are you really sure you are gay?
FreakMonster
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LOL, Remember he was BORN that way. He has that thing called the gay "gene".
AAP said:
Not necessarily.
There's a couple of gays at my uni who are quite dumb.
Which is why I found them strange.
Gays are normally very driven to succeed. Assumming of course they're not alcoholics or druggies(Which a lot are unfortunately)(I'm talking crack etc... btw).
Fonz
hellorhih2o
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HighIntensity said:
Were you really sure you were straight when you were 17?
hellorhih2o
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I bet ya that the vast, vast majority of kids who think of themselves as gay when they're 17 do that when they're 27 as well. Sure, there are exceptions and he just might wake up one day and say "phuck it, i'm straight as an arrow" but so what? He seems pretty together to me and also seems like a good guy and he's certainly not hurting anyone else so why not let him be whatever he thinks he is here and now and not question him on it?
Straight, gay, jewish, black, blah, blah, there's no fucking difference at the end of the day if you ask me.
Straight, gay, jewish, black, blah, blah, there's no fucking difference at the end of the day if you ask me.
Lift Chief
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Fonz said:
Perhaps gays are so driven to succeed because they feel as though they need to make up for their "inadequacy", whether real or merely perceived, due to their homosexuality.
Lift Chief
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AAP said:
They're not.
But maybe some gays feel as though they are because of the social stigma surrounding homosexuality.
It makes little sense that gay people get the "best genes" that allow them to be much smarter, more muscular, and generally more successful than the average person.
hellorhih2o
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Tiervexx said:
Lift Chief said:
Good point.
An analogy one could use albeit a bit rough around the edges is the stigma associated with AAS use and the stigma associated with being gay.
In one case(AAS), you have to strive to be completely in control of your emotions or any outburst will undubtedly be blamed on the AAS.
With gay people, I think its more family stigma. Unless your family has accepted your gayness(Most don't, specially if religious), you want to show them that you can succeed at much more than they can.
Gays are more vain simply because the gay pool is rather small. Survival of the fittest.
Still, haven't really seen a fat gay man.....(I'm talking obese here)...w/ a paunch yes....but FAT...no.
Fonz
Fonz said:
Good point.
An analogy one could use albeit a bit rough around the edges is the stigma associated with AAS use and the stigma associated with being gay.
In one case(AAS), you have to strive to be completely in control of your emotions or any outburst will undubtedly be blamed on the AAS.
With gay people, I think its more family stigma. Unless your family has accepted your gayness(Most don't, specially if religious), you want to show them that you can succeed at much more than they can.
Gays are more vain simply because the gay pool is rather small. Survival of the fittest.
Still, haven't really seen a fat gay man.....(I'm talking obese here)...w/ a paunch yes....but FAT...no.
Fonz
You should know. Gay boy. J/K man.
Testosterone boy
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Feelings of inadequacy motivate.
Deal with it.
Deal with it.
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