The suspense is killing me....

[Deleted member 33117]

....grrr...

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

suspense of what?

 

[Deleted member 33117]

Trying to find out if and when Amber wants to go out again... I got put on hold twice. Once her mother called and was on the phone for an hour, then she got back with me, and got another call. She gives me a good vibe and said positive things... but waiting on an answer.

 

[chrisoh]

is that the biochem major?

 

[Buddy_Christ]

get rid of all your red man-panties and i'm sure you'll hear back from her sooner. those things are scary looking, even to chicks.

 

[Mandy]

She Is Doing It On Purpose. Ya Know... Playing Hard To Get. And It Is Working... Obviously If The Suspense Is Killing You. Sounds Like You Need To Turn The Tables Around On Her.

 

[awittyusername]

Relax, you sound like a chick waiting to see if the quarterback is going to take you to the spring dance.

She is just playing the waiting game. I'm sure you have done it. If you want to help you cause you know the drill. Be to busy to answer the phone. Unfortunately, these games wil make her like you more.

Good luck Flxygel2. Oh, I mean BBF

 

[Deleted member 33117]

is that the biochem major?

bioenvironmental science

Yeah, you guys are right... fuck I'm like the master of this stuff... I jsut hate having to play games with teh nice ones. LoL Guess I'll have to do it though.

 

[Buddy_Christ]

She Is Doing It On Purpose. Ya Know... Playing Hard To Get. And It Is Working... Obviously If The Suspense Is Killing You. Sounds Like You Need To Turn The Tables Around On Her.

either you tried to post in all caps or you like taking the time to hold down the shift button to start off every word. if it's the former, it'll never work (thanks digger )

 

[Deleted member 33117]

Good, I cut off my cell.. she left a voice message... said she was sorry she left me haning... then sent me a yahoo message (my messenger saysI'm alseep) and said sweet dreams... with a little kissy smilie. Anywho I do need some sleep.

 

[jerkbox]

admit it, this is the first date you've had in 3 years

 

[Deleted member 33117]

admit it, this is the first date you've had in 3 years

No, 5th girl I've dated in the last 2 months. First one I really like though.

 

[awittyusername]

bioenvironmental science

Yeah, you guys are right... fuck I'm like the master of this stuff... I jsut hate having to play games with teh nice ones. LoL Guess I'll have to do it though.

Be carefull of the nice ones. I had no problems w/the bad ones. (bc I knew what to expect) But, the nice ones I really liked turned out to be evil manipulating bitches that made my life a living hell. But, thats just me. Good luck Bro

 

[jerseyart]

What a bitch.

"When will she go out with me again" Makes me wanna puke. When you grow some balls.

Someone teach this clown how to handle his shit. I can't even talk to him right now

 

[Robert Jan]

She Is Doing It On Purpose. Ya Know... Playing Hard To Get. And It Is Working... Obviously If The Suspense Is Killing You. Sounds Like You Need To Turn The Tables Around On Her.

Our Official EF Game Girl

 

[SoKlueles]

dating is sooo fun


not

 

[SoKlueles]

dating is sooo fun

 

[The_Ghost]

Good, I cut off my cell.. she left a voice message... said she was sorry she left me haning... then sent me a yahoo message (my messenger saysI'm alseep) and said sweet dreams... with a little kissy smilie. Anywho I do need some sleep.

Games are for kids bro. Seriously, give up that shit if you wanna have a real relationship.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

Games are for kids bro. Seriously, give up that shit if you wanna have a real relationship.

See now I'm gettign mixed advice. I know how to get laid, but serious relationships, I just don't have alot of experience with. My instincts tell me you are right Bigdawg. If I want something worthwhile with this girl, or any other, I better just be upfront, and be myself. If she doesn't like me for who I am (which she seems to so far), then it is not going to work out anyways.

On the other hand, I'm so used to playing games when trying to get ass, or being played by girls who just want dick, that its very easy to fall into playing games. It doesn't help when I have everyone else, including my best friend (he could probably write a book himself on getting ass... he is now happily engaged, and doesn't cheat though) are telling me I need to play games still.

I think I should continue with my origninal game plan here, since my goal is not to get in her panties in the next 48 hours, but to just see if we are compatible and if so, try to have a serious relationship for once. Bigdawg is probably right, I need to avoid games this time.

 

[The_Ghost]

See now I'm gettign mixed advice. I know how to get laid, but serious relationships, I just don't have alot of experience with. My instincts tell me you are right Bigdawg. If I want something worthwhile with this girl, or any other, I better just be upfront, and be myself. If she doesn't like me for who I am (which she seems to so far), then it is not going to work out anyways.

On the other hand, I'm so used to playing games when trying to get ass, or being played by girls who just want dick, that its very easy to fall into playing games. It doesn't help when I have everyone else, including my best friend (he could probably write a book himself on getting ass... he is now happily engaged, and doesn't cheat though) are telling me I need to play games still.

I think I should continue with my origninal game plan here, since my goal is not to get in her panties in the next 48 hours, but to just see if we are compatible and if so, try to have a serious relationship for once. Bigdawg is probably right, I need to avoid games this time.

Seriously dude, at 35 I have played all the games and dealt with all the bullshit over the years when younger. I will not pretend to have all the answers but can only tell you what I have seen and experienced.

I will not say games are ok, but like most when in my mid 20's I was like most other guys and did this as I was not looking for anything serious.

If you are really looking for something solid like you say, be who you are, not who you think she wants you to be. If she doesn't like you for who you are, she is not worth you time. This is somethign you have to believe about yourself.

There is nothing wrong with being nice, the nice guys finish last thing is bullshit, nice guys don't finish last but weak guys do. There is a big difference between being "nice" and being "weak", you can be nice without being weak. Don't let someone walk over you and don't comprimise who you are, this is what weak men do and this is why women lose respect and interest in weak men.

 

[Becoming]

There is nothing wrong with being nice, the nice guys finish last thing is bullshit, nice guys don't finish last but weak guys do. There is a big difference between being "nice" and being "weak", you can be nice without being weak. Don't let someone walk over you and don't comprimise who you are, this is what weak men do and this is why women lose respect and interest in weak men.

Good words... works with more than women...