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Tempted to cheat...

Staind

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My fiance is sick again, it seems like she always is. I got sex once today but I dunno if I'm going to again :( right now anyway. I got a really hot black haired girl with C cups I could bang pretty much anytime I want. Might even be able to bang her tonight. She is really fuckin hot and the variety would be nice too...What should I do? I mean I love my fiance but she would never find out. I am kinda drunk now too (to sayt the least) so maybe I should wait till I'm sober. Damn I just want to bang this girl though, I've wanted to for like 6 months now and have had plenty of chances. WHat should I do?
 
Why don't you post a poll.

BTW: Why is she always sick? This could be bullshit as an excuse to not give it up or a cry for attention.
 
My fiance definitely won't allow a threesome...She's not even into 69 for hte love of god. She only likes straight pussy sex, I like that fine and we do lots of diff positions but it still gets old. We are thinking of videotaping it soon but dont have a camera right now. once recently i went 2 days with no sex, i was about to explode and was so pissed.

heh, i could prob bang this girl tonight and come back and bang my fiance, not sure but i might feel too guilty. prob not lol. i got like animal instincts cuz of all the tension with this other girl. id fuck her like a friggin animal lol. i do plan to marry my fiance within like 4 months tho.

my fiance does have like a weak immune system or something. she works out a good bit and is in good shape but eats like SHIT and has recurring bulemia problems. its like half and half, some of it is just bad luck, some of it she brings upon herself

i did catch her bronchitis so i know that is legit
 
what nathan said

it sounds like you're already planning on banging this girl and just want to vent about it

your girl is sick, she slept with you despite the fact that she's sick, and here you are unhappy because she probably isn't going to fuck you again in her sick state so you're considering cheating on her. you sound like a solid dude!
 
Forget the girl or dump your fiance. You don't deserve her if you are wanting to screw another female just because she is sick and only will sleep with you once. That's sad.
 
Night Fly said:
Forget the girl or dump your fiance. You don't deserve her if you are wanting to screw another female just because she is sick and only will sleep with you once. That's sad.

I beg to differ. His fiancee doesn't deserve HIM if he offers 3 somes and she says no. Pfft.
 
Oh comon guys...I know its morally wrong and all that but if she never finds out, like what would you guys do? I mean like id give my fiance a 9 and this other chick a 9.5 ya know? (possibly cuz of boredom, but still). Can anyone at least relate or give me some words of experience? It so friggin tempting. Its 8:25 my time now and id be calling this chick by like 10 so I need to make a decisiion on what to do.
 
I would'nt be able to look at my girl the same if I cheated(not that I don't think about it hourly!)She would know what I've done by my demeanor.
 
All right, listen up buddy, and listen good. Love is not some hole you "fall" into. It's a decision. People are not godamn magnets; they are not fucking puzzle pieces that fit perfectly together. Do you love your fiancée? If not, don't marry her. Leave her alone. If you do love her, be a man - treat her like a lady. Real love requires sacrifice. If you're willing to fuck her over just so you can have another warm wet hole for 5 minutes, you do NOT love her.


Can anyone relate? Hell yeah. I'm getting married in two months. With each day closer, all of the women around me get hotter and hotter. I cannot tell you the agony of not being able to take what I could have, what I spent my entire adolescence dreaming I would have as soon as I was a man. There are days when I just about break down crying because I want to be with another woman so bad. But you know what brother? I AM a man now. If you can't even treat your lady like a lady, you ain't shit.

How does the idea of her playing nightrider with another man strike you? Would you be alright with it as long as you never knew?
 
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i do understand that point, if she cheated on me it would be a big boot in a hurry...hmm. think i am going to workout for awhile and take off some steam and then reflect on it and see how i feel.
 
If you are going to cheat, you might as well leave her now. Cheating is the ultimate low thing to do regardless. It shows that you do not love her at all.

IMHO, you might as well be honest with her, tell her your feelings, and either work on it, or leave. There is no reason to cheat if you love her and are going to marry her, IMO the fact that you are thinking about it shows that you may not really love her.

This is all my opinion, take it for what its worth.
 
Staind said:
My fiance definitely won't allow a threesome...She's not even into 69 for hte love of god.

i wouldnt be so sure of that bro. it may seem impossibly but its definitely not out of reach. simply speed some time subconsiously implant the idea first. start off easy with things like asking her simply questions like, "hey do you think that girl is pretty?". and bring up the idea that most bi-sexual girls are just doing it for the experience or excitement. do this over a long period of time.

then buy vidoes that depict such acts. first just get the ones that have only the two girls going at it. then later introduce ones that have two girls and a guy.

then start implanting the idea of couples sharing thier sexual desires with another person. dont be specific like saying it would be you and two girls. just say it wouldnt matter if it was a girl or guy joining in. but dont be to forward about it, start by calling it just a fantasy. maybe slowly introduce it into the actual sex you guy's have. and be sure to emphasize that there is nothing wrong with having these fantasies and maybe acting out on them. and also try the opposite approach by saying it is exciting to do things that society considers taboo.

when your in public out drinking be sure to bring it up and emphasize the questions to her asking her if she thinmks a particular girl is pretty or maybe even asking if she is hot.

soon you will start to see her come around, basically you have convinced her to rationalize it to herself that it would be ok to do this. it may take a long time but i have seen these techniques work on several girls before by friends of mine.

now on to your cheating delima, what you have to do is basically talk yourself into it. you have justify it with reasons you should. your fiance is sick and you probably wont get any tonight. she will never know about it. she doesnt like kinky sex and you deserve to have some. your not married to her yet. it would actually take pressure off of her since your sex drive is so strong and in that regard you are doing her a favor.

hope i have been helpful.
 
UPDATE: CONSCIOUS PREVAILS!

Thanks for all the advice everyone! Especially Spongebob. I appreciate it.

Aight here is what I did. I downed about 300 mg ephedrine, had a nice hour-long workout, and now feel fine. The ephedrine has given me ephedra-dick, and now I probably couldn't fuck if angelina jolie spread her legs in front of me...

Anyway, I agree with the majority. I think talking about it here really helped because normally I just keep it bottled up and this gave me a way to express my desire without harming anyone. It also made me realize once again how much I truly love my fiance: She is worth MUCH more than 1 night stands. I am going to remember than she will probably be more open once we are married. She is very insecure and the threesome thing is a jealousy/fear issue that I would leave her. I would NEVER leave her even if I cheated (which I won't).

Seriously, I appreciate the advice from everyone and I am going to try some of Spongebob's ideas. Thanks for keeping the snake in the pants.
 
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