Telling your girl about using the gear

[badazzwhitedude]

Here is something that I do to see how a girl reacts to the use of AAS. With the last girl I was seeing, I told her that I used to do it. She took it lightly, and didn't seem to care. I would then mention the stuff very casually from time to time in a conversation and she didn't give a shit. I was then able to tell her, and she didn't mind. But we just broke up over some other problems.

On the flip side, I have been talking to another girl lately, as I saw this coming between me and my last girl. As we got to know each other, I started to tell her I used to do the gear, but haven't in a long time. She gasped, and said "You don't do that anymore, do you?" Of course, by her reaction, I said no, and I don't do it anymore. She was glad, and said she wouldn't go out with me if I did.

I am just telling you guys this as a way to test the waters so to speak. I have done this with pretty good success. Hope this will give some of you bro's out there some ideas, that is if you were deciding wether or not to tell your chick. There would be nothing better than a good chick who will support you. Hope this helps.

 

[Nimrod25]

Never tell a girl shit, they will use it against u the second they get the chance, it's their nature.

 

[badazzwhitedude]

Not always. I have read on here about many g/f's and wives giving their guys shots, and wanting some gear for themselves. It just depends on the chick. But there are some that should never know, I agree.

 

[PITBULL_187]

I am with Nimrod, dont tell her shit.

 

[badazzwhitedude]

Another thing to think about is if you didn't tell your chick about it and she found it. Then there could be some big problems, including her flushing your stash. It's all in how you look at it, and your personal opinion.

 

[luv2lift!]

I would never tell my girl. I have done it twice and it always causes problems. Like when we would fight, she would always blame it on me because I was juicing. It is just much easier to hide it, and not listen to them bitch about it.

 

[william2000]

I would be more worried about her turning you in AFTER you break up, especially if its not a good break-up. I remember two cases off hand not involving AAS but other ilegal activites where the girl turned the guy in after their break-up.

Hell hath no fury as a woman scorned . . . I think thats the right quote.

 

[3Vandoo]

I remember a friend of mine, his girl found out a bottle of Winny, so when she asked about it, he claimed he was hidding it for me. When I was in the same situation I claimed the amp of sust was his

I think it just depend on the girl, I mean Ive dated one, and I never told her, but she had doubts,
when I chatted with her two months ago I told her the truth and she replied saying she already knew it.

As for another one, I mentionned it in a politically correct way, while we were discussing the drugs we used
( her has a teen , ( weed hash ), I said I never used recrea drugs only sports enchancing products, she got it
and we never talk about it again

 

[Xalthus]

I told my girl all about steroids first. how it worx what it does and everything i knew. After she accepted it was "OK" i told her i do it.. then i taught her how to do injections..I had my girlfriend do my last injection (she was terrified). After my injection i fucked her so hard she was happy i used roids.

 

[Squat]

There are pros and cons to each side, but personaly i wouldn't say shit.

what she doesn't know, won't hurt her

 

[dirty]

i gotta tell my girl soon.I'm starting the fourth week of my course and the growth is starting to become obvious.
She went overseas for a week last wed and I have put on almost 2kgs since then, so by the time she gets back I think it will be time to 'fess up.
It's not her knowing that I use drugs that's the problem( we've done a fair amount of recreational drugs and partying together).It's just that if we have an arguement she will blame it on the gear( any thing apart from it being her fault.....lol).
But if I don't tell her, she will eventually find out and spew at me for keeping secrets.
aaaaaaarrrrrrrrggggghhhhh!!!!! I think it's time to bite the bullet

dirty

 

[Jeff_rys]

don't tell anything, don't give an inch

"Never tell a girl shit, they will use it against u the second they get the chance, it's their nature"

you are ho so right Nimrod

Think of it like this:
you maybe using roids longer then be together with the same girl. So don't tell her. If you see a lot of girls and tell it to everyone, why not where a T-shirt that says
"i am on roids".
I think some guys tell it because they can't keep their mouth shut.

 

[PURE EXTRACT]

If the b**ch can't accept it, then forget her! Simple as that. Why be with someone that's not going to be understanding about your personal beliefs/goals in life. I tell the girls I see that I'm using right now, some of them care and some of them don't. The ones that care get the boot, the ones that don't will get to hump!!!! lol

 

[NinjaX]

girls are retards about gear, they stereo type

 

[dienbig]

THE only girl I've ever told anything to was my wife, after we got married. They are all nuts and love to say things like "don't say I said anything but," and "you have to promise you won't tell anyone O.K?" and then its all over and sooner or later someone that you don't want to know anything, knows everything.. Just my two cents bro

 

[harddtime]

if you can hide it, then hide it. I told my girl and now all i hear is "roid rage" or "calm down steroid boy" when i get into arguments. Whenever she does anything that pisses me off she can blame me getting pissed on the juice. So yea, if you can hide it then do. There was no way i was gonna be able to hide it, 21lbs 6 weeks? "yea baby, i've been working REALLY hard" hehe

 

[serge]

if its a serious relationship then you have to tell her, but if its just a lay then no no no.

 

[Bar Room Hero]

girls and AS

Andro and tribulus give me raging hard-ons. While I was dating this one girl, she refused to be with me sexually while I was on that stuff because she said my attraction to her "wasn't sincere" and that it was "chemically induced." There's some fucked up feminine logic for you. Then I just started lying about being on it and tearing her up in a raging hard-on, chemically induced kind of way.

 

[gtaman]

There's an easy way around having her blame steroids every time you get in an argument. Don't get in so many arguments.

 

[Powerchord]

I guess it's different when talking about wife vs. GF
I told my wife this cycle and showed her the board, research, etc., and she's comfortable with it...got her on some clen, in addition to eca she was already running. Depends on the situation though, I guess...
(still can't get her to do my glute shots, though


PWER
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"Stand for something or you'll fall for anything"

 

[poohbear]

to tell or not to tell

dirty,

Don't tell your girl until she asks. Try not to get upset during the time when she gets back and until you're done on the gear.

I'm a girl, so I would blame it all on the juice and the lack of competence that you had taking it, if I were ever to get into a fight with you (my man).

However, I do hold a bias for it because I want to try it, but not where it is illegal to do so. I'm currently out of country (US) right now.

take care

 

[ragin']

dont tell them shit unless you know they'll accept it. otherwise your looking for ammunition for arguments.

 

[John Woe]

Don't tell a girl shit!! LIE TILL YOU DIE!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[ripped103]

i was with my now fiance for over 3 years before i told her.she thought i was natural he he.i felt obligated to tell her because we are getting married.at first she almost left me, but then i convinced her otherwise.she does not bother me anymore about it and i feel much better that i told her.

 

[vinman]

It all depends on the woman, if she makes negative comments about bodybuilders being"gross" when she reads your magazines or sees a show on ESPN. Then odds are she's against it. If she works out herself and likes your big muscles, she'd probably help with your shots.

I think the girls who are the most against it smoke and drink like fish but then call gear "drugs" and dangerous. Their hypocrisy is quite funny.

 

[waterboy]

I would never tell my girl. I have done it twice and it always causes problems. Like when we would fight, she would always blame it on me because I was juicing. It is just much easier to hide it, and not listen to them bitch about it.

On the flip side If your a ass like me then you can blame it on the juice ...and if your girl is cool like mine shell give u shots and rub your booty when shes done

 

[solidspine]

telling a chick about gear??????-not in this life time.

 

[Wyllis]

My girlfriend actually buys me the stuff.

Im a student so I cant really afford it myself. She also gives me my shots.

She is shit hot.

 

[Furious1]

During my first cycle, I kind of jokingly told my wife I was on roids when she asked how I was getting big so fast. She said you better not be or she would leave me. So I said I was just kidding. Then a couple months later we got in a big fight and I told her remember when I was joking about being on roids, well I really was, and I'm going to do it again in a few weeks. After the fight, she said she only said she would leave me because she was concerned about my health and felt it was the only way to make sure I didn't use gear. So I explained to her I was well educated and knew not to abuse the gear. Now she supports me all the way. Now if I could only get her to give me glute injections cause I can't reach my ass anymore

 

[badazzwhitedude]

Damn. I need a sugar mama like Wyllis.