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Stupid ex boyfriends!!

LiLady11

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My ex called me today after two months!! I figured it was all said and done with since our last conversation with each other went awful. He had a dream about me last night and wants to hang out with me this weekend. He asked why I haven't called him and I politely reminded him that he hasn't called either.
I hate to admit, but I am still in love with this guy. We were supposed to get engaged this past Christmas, but we had ended things last year on pretty bad terms. Worst part is that I have just begun to date again and have fun after almost a year!! What perfect timing!!

Why do y'all think he's calling me again? What could he possibly want from me? I've been thinking that perhaps he just loves the fact that there is a girl out there who loves him (that would be me) and that he is just stringing me along till he wants to date me again. I don't know at this point whether or not I would date him again. We had a lot of really good times together, but we also had some real problems. This is not what I needed!!
 
what brought about all the problems before?


it could be anything from his just wanting to get laid.. to his hating the idea of your dating other people.. or it could be that he's recognized all the ways he's went wrong.. came to the conclusion that he can't live without you.. and knows that he needs to put forth a greater effort and exactly what effort to put forth..


anyway.. like i said.. we need more details about what went wrong in the first place..
 
decem said:
what brought about all the problems before?


it could be anything from his just wanting to get laid.. to his hating the idea of your dating other people.. or it could be that he's recognized all the ways he's went wrong.. came to the conclusion that he can't live without you.. and knows that he needs to put forth a greater effort and exactly what effort to put forth..


anyway.. like i said.. we need more details about what went wrong in the first place..

He and I had a bunch of probs. The biggest was that he wanted to be grown up and settled and I was a young stupid college girl who wanted to party like a normal gal. He was very controlling and fathered me very much, which was kinda good, kinda bad. We broke up, got back together many times. And two Christmases (sp?) we decided that we wanted to get married and that would wait till the next Christmas to announce it to everyone.
Well anyway, we broke up a year ago... he has since become the party boy, and I have calmed down and have been trying to get my ass back into gear. He now smokes up daily, does drugs every now and again, goes to clubs, dates older women, and whenever we would speak or talk he would just be mean and cold and tell me that I need to get over him and move on. And now I have... and he must have found out through our mutual friends. I don't know what to make of this and its truly annoying me!!
 
Sometimes the toughest thing we have to do in life is let go of someone we have shared the better part of heaven with. There are few human beings on this earth that we will ever know so deeply as a long time lover. That kiss, that taste, the endless hours searching the stars above together in hopes of a sign that our dream together will appear. It all happens so fast and when it’s gone we yearn for it to return. Often this prevents us from searching other opportunities, new loves, those new first kisses that race the heart and carry a smile for days. We are afraid that no one will be able to duplicate that love once known with this supposed “soul mate”.

But sometimes it like an old broken record, we know all the words and the song comforts us to know end, but over time it has become scratched to a point where to words an hard to even comprehend. This is one chapter in your life hun, I know because I still struggle to close my chapter with a certain angle in the sky….but its time to say goodbye, give it one last look in the rearview mirror smile and realize the road ahead is a better path for you….
 
wait so you had a shitty day the last few days and now your ex calls you on top of that? you need to go on vacation fast with your sir mixalot CD...... or tape.
 
LiLady11 said:
Wanna come with me NB?! I could sure use the company!!

I sure would. However you might not be interested if you said "no" to any of the questions below.


can you dance? can you party like a rock star? are you a considerate person? do you have a good sense of humor? have you ever posted the lyrics to Baby Got Back?

geez I'm full of questions today, don't mind me. :D
 
The Nature Boy said:


I sure would. However you might not be interested if you said "no" to any of the questions below.


can you dance? can you party like a rock star? are you a considerate person? do you have a good sense of humor? have you ever posted the lyrics to Baby Got Back?

geez I'm full of questions today, don't mind me. :D


Yes, yes, yes, yes, and HELL YES!!

Now where should we go?
 
If your up for a holiday, head down my way. I'll make you forget your ex pretty quick.......or remind you of him in which case i'm fucked!

You are way too young to think about getting engaged. Besides, i'll have nobody to fantasize about.

Move on Lilady, life is all about exepriencing different people, different situations, different places etc. You haven't even scratched the surface yet.
 
vinylgroover said:
If your up for a holiday, head down my way. I'll make you forget your ex pretty quick.......or remind you of him in which case i'm fucked!

You are way too young to think about getting engaged. Besides, i'll have nobody to fantasize about.

Move on Lilady, life is all about exepriencing different people, different situations, different places etc. You haven't even scratched the surface yet.


You fantasize about moi?! Aw shucks!!
Down your way? What way is that? I'm up for a holiday, we'll make plans for when I come back with Nature Boy!!
 
I'm about 20,000km away in Sydney, Australia. By the way, i've been trying to PM you but your message box is always full. Obviously popular.

How about we meet half way. That's probably Hawaii
 
LiLady11 said:
Well, I'm a east coast gal, but would sure love to be a west coaster!!

To Cali we go!!
I'm not too familair with cali, however I know some peeps in SF and LA that know what's cool.

However before you get too old you need to bring your Long Island booty to europe, espcially the southern part. Spain, italy and greece. The men would be all over you! I guess that would suck for me if Iwas your date but I'd chase them away. Oh man you would have so much fun. Now I'm getting all fired up.

anyway, I hope you feel better, tell the ex that you've had a rough week and you'll get back to him later. he should be able to appreciate that. if he can't tell him to F off.
 
Lets go to Italy NB!!

And vinyl, I cleaned out some PMS so feel free to send away...
and you have made me smile now because I have always loved Australia!! Boys from down under are hotties!!

But it'll still have to wait till I get back with NB!! Thanks for all the kind words as if late sweetie, I really appreciate it.:)
 
cheer up lilady. if you still feel down, wait till your roommate falls asleep and sneak into her room and make a totally annoying noise in her ear and then start jumping on her bed. I promise you you'll feel great after that.
 
vinylgroover said:

NB, don't wear her out bro.

haha, the only thing being worn out is me because I have to be at work early and give a presentation on a subject I know little about. and it's about 02:20AM over here. nice. :rolleyes:

good night everyone!!!
 
LiLady11 said:

Why do y'all think he's calling me again? What could he possibly want from me? I've been thinking that perhaps he just loves the fact that there is a girl out there who loves him (that would be me) and that he is just stringing me along till he wants to date me again.

1.Why do y'all think he's calling me again?
He realizes you are the only one that will put up with him, having no luck with anyone else and he is horny.
2.What could he possibly want from me?
Some Ass.
3.I've been thinking that perhaps he just loves the fact that there is a girl out there who loves him (that would be me) and that he is just stringing me along till he wants to date me again.
No, not really, he is horny and tired of using his hand. peace
 
I was to lazy to type what I wanted to say so I did it in one word. Read Havoc's reply its exactly right.
 
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