Have you ever been out or somewhere then all of a sudden your song that was yours and hers plays? The song I'll Stand By You-Pretenders keeps playing everwhere I go it seems. Makes me wish I was with her right now.
It's been a year and I don't really want to try right now. I have dated a couple of times and went out a couple of times. It' really like whatever because I only love her. I know I need to move on but it's to hard for me.
I suggest when this situation occurs from now on, you simply seek out the source of that painful music, grab a large blunt object and pummel it to a paste all while blubbering like a 4 year with a stubbed toe.
No, she left me for an abuser, which makes it worse for me because I told her I would never let anyone harm her in any way. At 21 I don't think I should be going through this stuff but I've always been exposed to many adult situations since I was a young lad anyways. I think I will eventually get over her.
you will definitely get over her in time, dont worry. if she chose an abusive person over you then it sounds like shes got some major issues to work through anyway, so maybe its best left alone. try to keep your mind and heart open and someone will come in