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Someone gave me some advice to take a personality test after my "Why do women" thread in the hopes of learning a little more about what "vibe" I may be giving off. Here are the results for those who care and I learned some valuable things.
Your Personality Type:Leader
Guiding people toward a vision
You are a visionary Leader—strong, self-reliant, and driven to make an impact on the world. People describe you as courageous and a "force to be reckoned with." Indeed, with your imagination, persistence, and versatility, you can do almost anything. You can start a company, run a household, or wage a war (and all at one time if necessary!).Like all true Leaders, you're not afraid to take risks. You thrive on intensity and excitement and gravitate toward other strong-willed people. Your friends, family, and co-workers always look to you to lead the way.You're willing to make unpopular decisions and to go against everyone's advice if you believe it's the right thing to do. You're tough skinned and don't have to please everyone. In the end, you'd rather be respected than liked.Still, most people appreciate your honesty and directness. They always know where they stand with you. Indeed, you're a loyal friend and would do anything to protect the ones you love.
What Sets You Apart?
You enjoy being around other people. Time spent with your friends and family energizes and strengthens you. You have a sophisticated way about you. You're witty and savvy about how the world works. You're overly modest at times and tend to sell yourself short. You're a very stable and secure person.
Your Love Style:
Romantic
You want and expect it all—a lasting connection with someone on every level—mental, emotional, sexual, and spiritual.True Romantics like you are pretty rare. You have a good imagination, which allows you to visualize the type of woman you could fall in love with. You can actually see and feel the future happiness the two of you would share. You also have the patience and persistence to search for her.When you finally meet her, the attraction can be instant and overwhelming. True Romantics believe in destiny, but you're also willing to give fate a push in the right direction. If necessary, you'll even make a total fool of yourself to win her over. Romantics know that falling in love often means falling flat on your face.Still, if the two of you can connect, you'll have the capacity to experience the type of love most people only dream about. Specifically, your "style" of loving appears to have these common features:
You're most likely to fall in love with a woman who is independent by nature. She won't expect to merge her life with yours. Keeping separate friends, for example, will just give you more to talk about when you're together.
A good sexual connection is also important, but intense sexual passion tends to wane over time. Eventually, affection and companionship are as (if not more) important as good sex.Both partners have to decide when they're ready to make a commitment. You have to be sensitive to each other's needs. One shouldn't be kept waiting indefinitely, nor should the other feel rushed. The two of you have to agree on the level of commitment that makes sense given your feelings and how long you've been together.
Leaders in Love
Leaders like you are often secret Romantics. You like to be in charge of your life, so the idea of love taking over makes you feel uneasy. Still, your generous spirit and skill at protecting people make you the perfect Prince Charming.
Good and Bad Fits
It's important to be compatible not only in how much you love each other, but also the way the two of you love:
A man who values Romantic love, for example, will be most happy with women who share the same approach or who have a Passionate or Destined love style. However, you'd probably be frustrated trying to connect with women who seek Spontaneous or Careful love, because they're seeking a more casual relationship.
Your Biggest Challenge Is:
How do you protect the ones you love (and yourself) from your intensity?
Just as Leaders instinctively protect the ones they love from outside danger, they occasionally have to protect them from their own intensity. It helps to know your own strength. You probably underestimate your charisma and the impact you have on people. You rarely have to raise your intensity to get their attention.Leaders are very industrious people, but it often comes at a cost to their loved ones. Your family and friends can easily feel neglected. So you have to schedule time and give them at least the same level of priority you'd give an important work issue.You could actually use some of your own protection as well. You need time alone every day to collect your thoughts and relax. You also need affection and TLC, even though you'd rarely ask for it. Perhaps your intensity is a signal that you need to give TLC to yourself in some way.While you're taking care of yourself, you may want to consider looking at these potential areas for improvement:
You hate to be alone. Your challenge is learning the difference between solitude and loneliness. Try scheduling a "date" with yourself. Cook yourself dinner or order take-out and pick out a great movie to watch by yourself. When you spend all your free time with other people, you end up spending your time alone doing chores or dealing with problems. So you have to remind yourself what great company you can be.
You can be very demanding and difficult to be around at times. When people see you're in an irritable mood, they probably head in the opposite direction. They know you're ready to pick a fight. Your challenge is noticing when these moods hit you and learning how to keep your reactions in check or warn others to leave you alone for a while.
You have a workaholic streak. You're constantly taking on new projects at work and home. It's hard for you to say "No." Yet, you have to break the cycle of creating more and more ambitious ways of winning everyone's praise and proving your own worth.
Romantic Stumbling Blocks
Romance presents its own set of challenges. As you search to find the right partner, here are a few to watch out for:
You're such a social animal you can forget the importance of saving time for just you and your partner.
Fitting your relationship into your busy life will always be a challenge. Time with your partner has to be scheduled on the same playing field as all your other commitments.
Relationships are not always fun. So you have to be ready to weather periods when the zest seems to go out of the relationship.
Sometimes you can be too assertive and too successful at getting your way. Your partner's needs can easily get steamrolled.
Finding a Compatible Partner
Finding a compatible partner is one of the biggest challenges in life. You need a woman who is similar enough to understand you, but different enough to keep things interesting.
Leaders like you are usually most comfortable with women who are Champions.
Champions are natural winners and survivors—filled with vitality, charisma, confidence, and courage. She might be tempted to take the path of least resistance, but with her upbeat attitude and passion, she always strives to reach her full potential
Your Personality Type:Leader
Guiding people toward a vision
You are a visionary Leader—strong, self-reliant, and driven to make an impact on the world. People describe you as courageous and a "force to be reckoned with." Indeed, with your imagination, persistence, and versatility, you can do almost anything. You can start a company, run a household, or wage a war (and all at one time if necessary!).Like all true Leaders, you're not afraid to take risks. You thrive on intensity and excitement and gravitate toward other strong-willed people. Your friends, family, and co-workers always look to you to lead the way.You're willing to make unpopular decisions and to go against everyone's advice if you believe it's the right thing to do. You're tough skinned and don't have to please everyone. In the end, you'd rather be respected than liked.Still, most people appreciate your honesty and directness. They always know where they stand with you. Indeed, you're a loyal friend and would do anything to protect the ones you love.
What Sets You Apart?
You enjoy being around other people. Time spent with your friends and family energizes and strengthens you. You have a sophisticated way about you. You're witty and savvy about how the world works. You're overly modest at times and tend to sell yourself short. You're a very stable and secure person.
Your Love Style:
Romantic
You want and expect it all—a lasting connection with someone on every level—mental, emotional, sexual, and spiritual.True Romantics like you are pretty rare. You have a good imagination, which allows you to visualize the type of woman you could fall in love with. You can actually see and feel the future happiness the two of you would share. You also have the patience and persistence to search for her.When you finally meet her, the attraction can be instant and overwhelming. True Romantics believe in destiny, but you're also willing to give fate a push in the right direction. If necessary, you'll even make a total fool of yourself to win her over. Romantics know that falling in love often means falling flat on your face.Still, if the two of you can connect, you'll have the capacity to experience the type of love most people only dream about. Specifically, your "style" of loving appears to have these common features:
You're most likely to fall in love with a woman who is independent by nature. She won't expect to merge her life with yours. Keeping separate friends, for example, will just give you more to talk about when you're together.
A good sexual connection is also important, but intense sexual passion tends to wane over time. Eventually, affection and companionship are as (if not more) important as good sex.Both partners have to decide when they're ready to make a commitment. You have to be sensitive to each other's needs. One shouldn't be kept waiting indefinitely, nor should the other feel rushed. The two of you have to agree on the level of commitment that makes sense given your feelings and how long you've been together.
Leaders in Love
Leaders like you are often secret Romantics. You like to be in charge of your life, so the idea of love taking over makes you feel uneasy. Still, your generous spirit and skill at protecting people make you the perfect Prince Charming.
Good and Bad Fits
It's important to be compatible not only in how much you love each other, but also the way the two of you love:
A man who values Romantic love, for example, will be most happy with women who share the same approach or who have a Passionate or Destined love style. However, you'd probably be frustrated trying to connect with women who seek Spontaneous or Careful love, because they're seeking a more casual relationship.
Your Biggest Challenge Is:
How do you protect the ones you love (and yourself) from your intensity?
Just as Leaders instinctively protect the ones they love from outside danger, they occasionally have to protect them from their own intensity. It helps to know your own strength. You probably underestimate your charisma and the impact you have on people. You rarely have to raise your intensity to get their attention.Leaders are very industrious people, but it often comes at a cost to their loved ones. Your family and friends can easily feel neglected. So you have to schedule time and give them at least the same level of priority you'd give an important work issue.You could actually use some of your own protection as well. You need time alone every day to collect your thoughts and relax. You also need affection and TLC, even though you'd rarely ask for it. Perhaps your intensity is a signal that you need to give TLC to yourself in some way.While you're taking care of yourself, you may want to consider looking at these potential areas for improvement:
You hate to be alone. Your challenge is learning the difference between solitude and loneliness. Try scheduling a "date" with yourself. Cook yourself dinner or order take-out and pick out a great movie to watch by yourself. When you spend all your free time with other people, you end up spending your time alone doing chores or dealing with problems. So you have to remind yourself what great company you can be.
You can be very demanding and difficult to be around at times. When people see you're in an irritable mood, they probably head in the opposite direction. They know you're ready to pick a fight. Your challenge is noticing when these moods hit you and learning how to keep your reactions in check or warn others to leave you alone for a while.
You have a workaholic streak. You're constantly taking on new projects at work and home. It's hard for you to say "No." Yet, you have to break the cycle of creating more and more ambitious ways of winning everyone's praise and proving your own worth.
Romantic Stumbling Blocks
Romance presents its own set of challenges. As you search to find the right partner, here are a few to watch out for:
You're such a social animal you can forget the importance of saving time for just you and your partner.
Fitting your relationship into your busy life will always be a challenge. Time with your partner has to be scheduled on the same playing field as all your other commitments.
Relationships are not always fun. So you have to be ready to weather periods when the zest seems to go out of the relationship.
Sometimes you can be too assertive and too successful at getting your way. Your partner's needs can easily get steamrolled.
Finding a Compatible Partner
Finding a compatible partner is one of the biggest challenges in life. You need a woman who is similar enough to understand you, but different enough to keep things interesting.
Leaders like you are usually most comfortable with women who are Champions.
Champions are natural winners and survivors—filled with vitality, charisma, confidence, and courage. She might be tempted to take the path of least resistance, but with her upbeat attitude and passion, she always strives to reach her full potential
