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Should I....

Should I?

  • delete them

    Votes: 10 83.3%
  • keep them

    Votes: 2 16.7%

  • Total voters
    12

superqt4u2nv

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delete all my emails and text messages from my former flame. I keep looking at them some are so sweet but it is bitter sweet.
 
Dump then girl, holding on to his memory only adds to the trouble and, if you are like the rest of us will onlt go back wen you are down or lonely. it the gym, go on a hike, read a book or take more gallery photos for us to take and keep your mind occupied.
This too shall pass...
 
Archive them in a safe place. But do not place them in plain view. In a few years it might bring back fond memories, without bringing back the feeling of loss and/or pain.
 
I would try to restrain looking at them, if it just brings you hurt because you miss the guy. I suppose its up to you whether you want to delete them or not. Hopefully one day you will be able to look back upon him fondly, without missing him. (If that doesnt seem like a possibility, then i would just delete them now)

Did he dump you, or you dump him, or was it mutual?
 
DELETE THEM.

Trust me on this one....

Only keep the meanest most hurtful one he ever authored. Helps to remind you why it is that you are no longer together. <----- I find this to be most helpful.
 
Do you realize how much effort I put into writhing all that stuff ?

You toss em, I'll toss you !


And I aint talking aboot your salad either..
 
Why on earth would you want to keep them, all they do is hold you back!!! Everytime you read them it's like starting all over again...it sucks!!!
 
Werd said:
DELETE THEM.

Trust me on this one....

Only keep the meanest most hurtful one he ever authored. Helps to remind you why it is that you are no longer together. <----- I find this to be most helpful.
WORD!!!!!!!!!
 
Where's the option for me screwing you into an orgasmic coma?
 
Keep them. keep it all. keep your old love letters mails everything

Will be no use to you these next 5 years

in 50 years however, you may want to remember how you loved back then, when bitterness and jealousy about anything he did will have long died off and you just remember being young in love and happy
 
I would say keep them somewhere, but STOP reading them....

I have things from my first love... many years ago... I never look at them, but I'm glad I didnt just trash everything.
 
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superqt4u2nv said:
Damm most of you think I should delete them I probably should but for some reason I can't


You are holding onto a last shred of hope. Think back over the course of the relationship and weigh the good and the bad. If you know there is a chance to get back together and you have more good than bad, then try to make amends. But usually this is not the case; if you break up once, it was usually for a good reason that will stay. If the two of you don't feel mutual needs to patch things up, then you have to get rid of any evidence of this relationship. It sounds like it could be preventing you from moving on; but only you can decide.
 
delete em'...

SuperQt said:
Miss him like crazy...
I hope you get over him soon...
You're smart, gorgeous, sweet, gorgeous, funny...I mention gorgeous? ;)
You'll find another one even better, I'd bet $ on it :rose:
 
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