serious topic... how would you take it if????

[madbomber31]

put yourself in this position and tell me how you would take the following scenario...

you move in with someone and an already somewhat rocky relationship hits rock bottom... BUT...............

the two of you overcome the shitty start and become happy again.

and then at the end of your current lease (things are still good and all are happy) the person you moved in with buys a condo or house FOR THEMSELVES.

why do they do this if things were going well?

how would you take this?

this is a hypothetical situation but i am very curious to see if i am the only one that would feel offended and hurt and completely humiliated and not good enough.

you tell me.

 

[smallmovesal]

you would wonder why the parties wouldn't have discussed it... but yeah i think i'd be hurt

 

[the nature boy]

If I was allowed to move in it would be cool.

If not...... BREAK OUT THE TUX BECAUSE IT'S PARTY TIME... I"M SINGLE AGAIN!!! I'M BACK IN BUSINESS BABY!!!!

 

[FarBeyondDriven]

I think I remember your first post about this chick. Drop here and move on is what I would say. She is not sure what she wants, and if she is she just wants to play games. Some women, trying to be nice, are very devious and out for themselves, will walk on however many guys they can to get ahead. I almost married one like this, she's been married 3 times since then (6 years)

 

[HamsterHider]

HARRY POTTER,
MAYBE THIS PERSON REALIZED WHAT A WASTE OF MONEY RENTING WAS. MAYBE THEY DECIDED THEY NEEDED TO DO SOMETHING FOR THEMSELVES IN CASE THE FUTURE DID NOT WORK OUT, MAYBE THEY THINK THEY WANT TO CONTINUE THE RELATIONSHIP BUT SPACE IS THE KEY TO ITS CONTINUED SUCCESS FOR NOW. MAYBE I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT. HEY HAVE THE KIDS LET THE SNAKE LOOSE YET?

 

[madbomber31]

snakes locked up nice and tight.

 

[DcupSheepNipples]

serious topic... how would you take it if????

You my friend now have a fuck buddy! They don't want to live with you but they will still let you bang them. Now you can be on the prowl again and roam the local meat markets! But if that fails, just visit your fuck buddy!

 

[madbomber31]

you seem to have nailed it as of now... we talked a little and decided for now we will have a physical relationship and make the best of it and if some way we decide on taking steps forward together then so be it... but if not then we seem to have an understanding on that as well...

i love her, i wont lie... but myself as well as her need to keep up a little bit of a wall for the heart.

 

[Godly1]

yes i would be hurt. but there is the possibility that she moved out thinking that if she didn't do it on her own that you would kick her out eventually. even if things are going well in your opinion she could still be scared about the way things will turn out. or maybe she just thinks that even though things are good, that because of past problems it would be best to back off a little then give living together another try later on.

 

[madbomber31]

well, in this hypothetical situation SHE makes more money... so i'd be the one who'd have a hard time making it on my own.

 

[Milhouse]

Honestly man you are more lucky you did not shack up in a place together that you both owned.

Then you would know the true meaning of the word Fucked.