Sailor Boy Returns

[Sailor_Girl]

Yes, he's back in my life folks. For those of you that have been here for a while you know who I'm talking about. Ever since September Sailor Boy has been emailing me on an almost every day basis and he even called me for the first time in almost a year. It's been really strange. I miss him and still care about him, but I don't know that I can forgive him for just disappearing on me. I worry about him constantly. He's a corpsman and he is with some sort of special forces marines unit and he's been in and out of the middle east for the past 6 months. He's done some pretty fucked up shit and has gone a little nutty in the head. He's not the same person he was when he left. He has me all confused now though. He knows I'm happy with someone else right now, and he's cool with that, but he said he still holds hope that someday we will re-unite. His base is in NC and mine will be in VA so we won't be too far away from eachother and he said he'd drive out there to see me. This is just too much for me to think about right now and it's really frustrating me. My boy knows all about the sailor, so I'm being straight with him. I'm sorry, I really don't know what the point of posting this here is. I just needed to vent a little. I'm so confused. Grrrrrr.

 

[HighIntensity]

some details needed for advice,

how long did you date sailor boy=

What happened=

how long have you been dateing new boy=

do you love new boy=

do you still love sailor boy=

 

[Sailor_Girl]

how long did you date sailor boy= Year and a half

What happened= We met when he was at his A-school in Great Lakes and then he left for North Carolina. After that he was sent to Japan and I hadn't heard from him at all.

how long have you been dateing new boy= 4 months

do you love new boy= Too early to tell, but I feel very strongly about him....I'm crazy about him and could see myself with him for the rest of my life.

do you still love sailor boy= he was the first guy I ever loved.....part of me will always love him

 

[HighIntensity]

ok I can try and help because im a guy and sort of in same situation as sailor boy.

if you have read my posts you will know that I just recently broke up with my girlfriend. We were together three years. I was pretty much her first love (she dated a guy for six months that she loved but he was a clown and it was high school love.)

It had been a month since she just left, so I called her. Now she's with a guy, nothing like me she says it's more she just needs to find out whats in life, but I can tell she still has some feelings for me.

But what are those feeling, and this relates to you sailorgirl. I was her first everything, sure I treated her like a queen. But is she twisted in side because she loves me, or because of what we had.

Sailorboy left you, which always leaves questions. Plus you feel like he is your first love...movies stuff. But if you have a great thing, then be fair to him (which you are). If anything you might need to say goodbye to sailorboy in person. But remember Sailorboy left and hurt you, this guy has done neither. You loyality should go to this guy, unless you meet with sailorboy and realize he is just the one. You probley need some answers.

 

[HighIntensity]

bump

 

[Hugh Gellatts]

I thought we established a long time ago that Sailorboy was May's lover? I am confused. He must be confused too. I am going back to the anabolic forum, where there is order and things make sense to me (not).

 

[Your_Moms_Kneepads]

You are confused in general. And that's not a flame. You are fixated with the Navy and at the same time say you dont like people in your face yelling at you-giving you orders.
You will be eaten alive.

 

[MasterMind]

Love always finds the way....whats meant to be will be

 

[saint808]

Well make sure you do decide before it is too late because you could end up with 3 people hurting.


Rich

 

[WODIN]

RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!!!!

 

[GinNJuice]

Forget about this guy as well as the one you are with now, that is, if you are really going into the Navy.


The Navy is really hard on relationships married or not. It's the separation that kills it.

My advice..... go in single and have fun. Don't get too involved with anyone, because before you know it, you'll be transferred somewhere else where there are plenty more to chose from.

 

[Badkins21]

I don't know, he kind of "forgot" about you (not in a literal sense, but didn't keep in touch, etc.), and that's pretty shitty, IMO.

If you're happier now, than you were then, KEEP IT THAT WAY!!

Good to see ya' postin', how's this year goin'?

 

[METHYL MIKE]

[Bdo you love new boy= Too early to tell, but I feel very strongly about him....I'm crazy about him and could see myself with him for the rest of my life.

do you still love sailor boy= he was the first guy I ever loved.....part of me will always love him [/B]

Lucky bastards.....

 

[john937]

Send him a letter, keep the lines of communication open.
He's a continent away and could use a "letter from home".
You're too young to be thinking about marriage yet anyway.
You can never have too many friends.

 

[BigGuns2]

Does Sailor Boy still have those sexy pictures? LOL. You need to choose which one of the guys you want to be with and drop the other one. You unintentionally may be leading both of them on. Since I am a Virginian, let me welcome you to my state!

 

[PsychoSkitz]

He has me all confused now though. He knows I'm happy with someone else right now, and he's cool with that, but he said he still holds hope that someday we will re-unite.

That's called "les, I suck and couldn't get someone new if I tried." It's pretty much the same in English too