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ruin an exgirlfriend.
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Bulldog_10
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flex123 said:
Get over it
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Baoh
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Agreed. Live better than her, and treat your next one even better than your last, if that's possible.
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flexygrl said:
I agree...It's weird how something so good, usually ends on such a bad note. Just be thankful for the good times you had together, I'm sure there were alot of them.
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Frackal
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ZKaudio said:
Good post. Sometimes I'd really like to say many truthful things about people in my past...but what good would that do me? It wouldn't help me to sleep any better at night...
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DcupSheepNipples
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Impregnate her mom or marry her dad!
Bulldog_10
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flex123 said:
Nah man...it's always like that at the end. It happens. With time you'll get over it, and move on. Just try to remember the good times, and know that most of the time it ends ugly...that's just life...when good things come to an end, you're not gonna be happy. But for every end there's a new beginning (I know, I'm a fag
), you just gotta look for the new beginning. Look for the next girl...NEXT!Bulldog_10 said:
Nah man...it's always like that at the end. It happens. With time you'll get over it, and move on. Just try to remember the good times, and know that most of the time it ends ugly...that's just life...when good things come to an end, you're not gonna be happy. But for every end there's a new beginning (I know, I'm a fag
Yeah I suppose.
It's that she is telling me that we are done cause I don't care and all. But then she says if I sleep with someone else that there will never be a chance of getting back together.
I hate the fact that Ipost my life on here but hell I'm feeling like total dogshit right now and I need some company.
I'm feeling more anger right now then upset. I'm sure I'll get over it but I can't imagine her or myself with someone else.
Bulldog_10
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flex123 said:
How and why did it end, if you don't mind me asking? I may be in a similar situation...
Bulldog_10 said:
I was a dick basically...She had surgery and I wasn't with her enough.
She had a nose job and the day she got the cast off I was busy with school work to go by and see it that day.
The turth is I'm a lazy bastard that barely leaves the house and my stressful life often has days flying by. By the time I realized how much time had gone by she had had enough.
The relationship was a total of 3 years also.
flexygrl said:
I'm just about 23 and yeah I guess I have doubts about certain things. But I don't have a comparison to compare to how things should really be.
But in honesty she is definatly a girl that would never do me wrong and would always be there for each other. The drawbacks to the relationship were that we didn't have much in common.
She also comes from a tight Jewish family and I came from a rather loose disfunctional family. (this last part might not have much todo with anything
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Bulldog_10
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flex123 said:
Sounds like you might have just taken her for granted a little bit. I did the same thing...you don't really know what you got until you lose it, ya know?
Honestly though, that is nothing to break up over...I'm pretty sure you guys aren't through...seems like something to talk about, maybe argue over, but not something to break up over. I think you just gotta talk to her about it. Maybe write her an email, sometimes it's hard to get all your thoughts out there when talking in person...sometimes it's easier just to write it all down.
I think you got a good chance of getting this girl back bro...like jerry seinfeld said, "Ending a relationship is like knocking over a soda machine. You can't just push it over, you gotta rock it back and forth...THEN knock it over." (Or something like that
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flexygrl said:
While hearing that makes me feel much better, it's not gonna make everything else better
I didn't see her for 6 days and that was her main concern. She told me that I hurt her more than anything by doing that.
I had broken a Femer years ago and she was by my bedside 24/7 and I didn't do the same for her.
Also back to her family upbringing. They are extremely protective people that take the slightest things so serioius.
So with that she told me "If you can't be there for me what would happen if we were married and I was extremely sick? You wouldn't even take care of me!".
Bulldog_10 said:
Sounds like you might have just taken her for granted a little bit. I did the same thing...you don't really know what you got until you lose it, ya know?
Honestly though, that is nothing to break up over...I'm pretty sure you guys aren't through...seems like something to talk about, maybe argue over, but not something to break up over. I think you just gotta talk to her about it. Maybe write her an email, sometimes it's hard to get all your thoughts out there when talking in person...sometimes it's easier just to write it all down.
I think you got a good chance of getting this girl back bro...like jerry seinfeld said, "Ending a relationship is like knocking over a soda machine. You can't just push it over, you gotta rock it back and forth...THEN knock it over." (Or something like that
we talked in person last night and she ended it. We talked on aim for awhile and she still stood her ground of not wanting to be with me. She kept saying that she has relized she doesn't want to be treated like shit anymore. While she said there is still a chance of getting back together, I have no clue.
She only said sorry for doing this to you, and said she is hurting also.
She tells me she loves me but how could someone say they love someone and leave them and push them away when they are trying to make things right.
Everytime I said to come by or something she would say "and talk about it again? why talk about it again, did we reslove anything the last 3 times we talked"
!!!!!All in All I wanna kill someone right now.!!!
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flex123 said:
Some chick really really really pissed me off and now for the 1st time I am thinking about fucking her best friend. That should piss her off and I hope she cries her fucking eyes out. Too bad her sister is only 16. She is a little fucking hottie and she is a jealous of her because she is better looking. If she was 18, I would fuck her too.
So fuck her best friend or friends or sisters. That should piss her off. To top it off buy them nice jewelry they can wear around her.
flexygrl said:Are you jewish? If not, does her family want her to marry a jewish guy?
My husbands friend got his heart broken by a jewish girl. THey got really serious then she had to break it off because her family wanted her to marry a jewish guy.
not to throw in a monkey wrench!
I'm not jewish no. But this is certainly not the case. Her parents never liked me.
her mother had actually told me once when I told her I didn't do that well one semester that me and her daughter shouldn't be together.
Then another time on the phone with my girl I heard her mother say to her "why even waste your time"
Bulldog_10
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flex123 said:
I'm sort of in the same situation, although not as bad as you it seems. Suck, don't it? Oh well, I'm just gonna move on...if we end up getting back together, then so be it. But we're too young to dwell on this shit.
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Baoh
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I agree. You took her for granted, IMO. You can make time, when you want to, for many things. She could have been given some of that made time.
Fix your attitude and go get her. She may be your best chance.
Fix your attitude and go get her. She may be your best chance.
flex123 said:
If you truly did love her, anything "evil" you do to her now will cause you unimaginable pain in the future when you think about it. You will be so ashamed of yourself.
Just chalk it up to life experience and move on... you never know what the future will bring. She could return to you on down the road. But not if you do something bad to her.
If it hurts, then it is because the love you had was real. True love doesn't go away easy. If it did, it wouldn't be true love in the first place.
It is a natural reaction to lash out at what is causing you pain.. just remember at one time this thing causing you pain, also caused you a great deal of happiness.
We have all been there before bro.
It is a natural reaction to lash out at what is causing you pain.. just remember at one time this thing causing you pain, also caused you a great deal of happiness.
We have all been there before bro.
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Frackal
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Also the more you embroil yourself in trying to have some revenge the more emotion you continue to invest and the harder and longer it will be before you're over her
Also the more you embroil yourself in trying to have some revenge the more emotion you continue to invest and the harder and longer it will be before you're over her
Scarlett33
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That is excellent advice.flexygrl said:
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