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marshallmadman
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They always call me. I think it's cuz I make them work to get the number first.
The only guy I've ever called when he gave me his # was my husband. When I worked retail though I got a lot of #'s. I don't see the harm in someone giving out a #....it's a compliment.
Plus the way I see it, what is there to lose? If she doesn't call it wasn't meant to be, if she does, nifty. But it's better to at least give her the # rather than wondering what would have happened if you had a year later.
Plus the way I see it, what is there to lose? If she doesn't call it wasn't meant to be, if she does, nifty. But it's better to at least give her the # rather than wondering what would have happened if you had a year later.
marshallmadman
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ZKaudio said:lol NEVER give out your number... my new thing is giving out my email at bars rofl... 9/10 girls will email you too... it's less intimidating and much more anonymous... then u can ask em for pics so you remember who they are too
Very good advice for all the would-be players around here.
Island Son
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It's happened once in the last 6 months.
It was dark when we xchanged info and I'd been drinking.
Ugh..... woof.
It was dark when we xchanged info and I'd been drinking.
Ugh..... woof.
chesty said:
I don't give them a number the first time, only later when I'm sure they actually have some interest.
If a girl actually asks more than once for your number, she's actually been thinking about it for some time which means she wants to talk.
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slickdadd
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DIVISION said:You never had a girl come out and ask for your number?
Strange.....
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Nope. Never really seen it happen to a friend either. I mean sure, I've had women approach me, come talk to me, what have you, but the actual intiation of contact outside of the bar, club, nursing home, whatever has always been initiated by the guy from my experience.
Razorguns
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I do the body language test.
If she's amenable and appreciative of me having my arm around her, holding her, talking close to her -- and not looking the other way and acting stand-offish -- i'll give her my # (or aol im, or icq, or email or whatever geeky thing i'm into at the time). I'm pretty good at ascertaining whether someone will call me or not.
Before i give her my # though -- i already kinda setup a date beforehand. Gives her a reason to. Like telling her about some cool club or gig coming up, and asking if she wants to go, etc. Then i slip her my #. Nice little catch i add-on, so it doesn't make her feel awkward to call out of the blue. I know how women can get kinda nervous picking up the phone sometimes -- even if they liked the guy.
If she's amenable and appreciative of me having my arm around her, holding her, talking close to her -- and not looking the other way and acting stand-offish -- i'll give her my # (or aol im, or icq, or email or whatever geeky thing i'm into at the time). I'm pretty good at ascertaining whether someone will call me or not.
Before i give her my # though -- i already kinda setup a date beforehand. Gives her a reason to. Like telling her about some cool club or gig coming up, and asking if she wants to go, etc. Then i slip her my #. Nice little catch i add-on, so it doesn't make her feel awkward to call out of the blue. I know how women can get kinda nervous picking up the phone sometimes -- even if they liked the guy.
fistfullofsteel
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many fatties have asked me for my #. nonetheless, i am flattered.
which makes me think, "Does she think she can get me based on her looks because she is asking me for my #, therefore, am i an ugly duckling and don't even know it?"
which makes me think, "Does she think she can get me based on her looks because she is asking me for my #, therefore, am i an ugly duckling and don't even know it?"
I can't recall anyone who didnt call, but maybe I blocked those out of my memory
Seriously though, it's pussy (ish) to have her call you, even if she initiated contact. Guys need to learn how to be more aggressive, and stop being such biatches.
Ive done the email thing, but only when I approached girls in awkward situations (like you meet her in a store, street etc). Its less intimidating, and I make sure to get her email as well.
Seriously though, it's pussy (ish) to have her call you, even if she initiated contact. Guys need to learn how to be more aggressive, and stop being such biatches.
Ive done the email thing, but only when I approached girls in awkward situations (like you meet her in a store, street etc). Its less intimidating, and I make sure to get her email as well.
wnt2bBeast
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i cant recall a female ever coming up to me...at all and asking for my number etc
guess im ugly or something because i dont stink i shower even with soap
guess im ugly or something because i dont stink i shower even with soap
wnt2bBeast
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jerseyart said:Maybe you shopuld start working out fattie
yeah but even fat guys get attention
some women have a fetish for sumo type guys
I did set up a date thing with the dancing, etc. She asked. I dont think I have ever had them call though.
Her body language was positive. Everytime she walked by me the whole night she would look right at me in my eyes and smile. It's a numbers game. Like saturation or area bombing, sooner or later the target will be hit.
Her body language was positive. Everytime she walked by me the whole night she would look right at me in my eyes and smile. It's a numbers game. Like saturation or area bombing, sooner or later the target will be hit.
slickdadd said:
I didn't ask for hers per say, I asked how to get a hold of her and she asked for my numbers. so in one sense that could be the same as f'off you ain't gettin any of this. However, she works at the place and told me about her schedule so she oughta know that I could just show up and get in touch with her that way too.
wnt2bBeast
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chesty said:
hmm body language..i always fuck that part up..
could have sworn this good looking girl was checking me out at a restaurant the other nite..caught her looking at me more than once smiling..bitch had a ring on her finger oh well
jerseyart said:Hee hee
They get you once in a while
Same thing happened to me, and she was all like "but I'd love to sit and talk" blah blah blah
Translation: free drinks and attention
Said no thanks, and purposely hit on the girl right next to her
So THAT'S why you hit on me
And I thought you really liked me
wnt2bBeast
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jaded said:
do you expect guys to buy you drink if you are sittng and talking?
i dont mind chatting and if i see something i like ill buy a round if it doesnt get returned thats it no more drinks
Bikini Mod
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What are we in, high school?
I would NEVER give my number out when I was younger and lived at home (back in the days before emails and cell phones). I didn't want some potential creep knowing where to find me. So I ALWAYS would take the man's number and call him. And yes, there were times when I was not interested but the guy wouldn't leave me alone when I tried to blow him off nicely. So I would just say, "I dont give out my number (which was true). Let me have yours and I will call you." If I was interested. I called. If I wasn't. I didnt. Where is the mystery with that?
Now I will give out my cell (as you cant find someone that way). If he calls, great. If not, oh well. He got busy or just wasnt that into me... either way - his loss.
Dont take all the dating bullshit personally. Glad to see that you gave the psycho broad the heave-ho.
I would NEVER give my number out when I was younger and lived at home (back in the days before emails and cell phones). I didn't want some potential creep knowing where to find me. So I ALWAYS would take the man's number and call him. And yes, there were times when I was not interested but the guy wouldn't leave me alone when I tried to blow him off nicely. So I would just say, "I dont give out my number (which was true). Let me have yours and I will call you." If I was interested. I called. If I wasn't. I didnt. Where is the mystery with that?
Now I will give out my cell (as you cant find someone that way). If he calls, great. If not, oh well. He got busy or just wasnt that into me... either way - his loss.
Dont take all the dating bullshit personally. Glad to see that you gave the psycho broad the heave-ho.
Yeah, I can only put up with so much! Whatever happened to I am not interested in you so you don't get my number and I ain't asking for yours?
No, seems to be a taboo word these days. ps, cell phone numbers can be used to locate a person. Usually costs like 20 bucks, but it can be done. So be careful on giving out cell numbers too.
No, seems to be a taboo word these days. ps, cell phone numbers can be used to locate a person. Usually costs like 20 bucks, but it can be done. So be careful on giving out cell numbers too.
Bikini Mod
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Nahhhh had the account set up so that the address is in another state!chesty said:
Seriously, some men can be VERY aggressive and just will not take a polite refusal. So I find that it is easier if I just take their number.
As for if they dont call. I dont take it personally. Maybe they got back with an ex. Maybe some stuff went on in their lives that prevented them from starting something new at that time. Whatever, No biggie.
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