question for the women

[georgie24]

what are things that men do to absolutlty melt your heart and make you think of him? im asking because i have yet the know how to treat and make a women that i find fall in love with me. or really like me alot for that matter.

whats your melting point ladies?

 

[GinNJuice]

My wife likes it when I send her flowers for no reason.

 

[big_bad_buff]

don't worry about it, if you can't get a chick to fall in love with you for who you are, how long could you keep up acting like someone your not? it should come naturaly. true love comes from the hart, not faking something. if you think your not acting and showing the girl like your in love, maybe your not..... if your in love, showing it should come easy.

 

[big4life]

You can't "make" someone fall in love with you. Be yourself and treat her with respect. If they fall in love, great, if not, move on. If you spend your time being someone you're not, doing things just because you think it will make her care for you, you will be miserable and your relationship will fail.

 

[Bullit]

Yeah.. nothing will make her fall in love.

In fact, depending on how she feels about you, the same act can have opposite impacts.

If she likes you and you send flowers, write notes etc. then she would melt.
If she is unsure and you send flowers, write notes etc. then she will think you are overbearing, clingy and creepy.

 

[georgie24]

im not talking about spending my inheritance on her, just something thoughfull like a card or some shit?

 

[big4life]

im not talking about spending my inheritance on her, just something thoughfull like a card or some shit?

If you want to impress her, give her something from your heart. Don't worry about what worked for this guy or that one. It can be something as simple as a note or elaborate as cooking her dinner. The important thing is that it is something you wanted to do. Not to impress her, but as a show of your love for her.

 

[The Shadow]

Make her feel special....send her a card or e-card for no reason...leave a message on her voice mail and tell her that you are thinking of her.....

 

[georgie24]

If you want to impress her, give her something from your heart. Don't worry about what worked for this guy or that one. It can be something as simple as a note or elaborate as cooking her dinner. The important thing is that it is something you wanted to do. Not to impress her, but as a show of your love for her.

ok cool! when your broke your more imanigitive i can imagine my ass off lol,

 

[biteme]

Tell her that when you masturbate, you are thinking of her. Nothing could flatter her more.

 

[PHATchik]

Little stuff is what really gets me. A phone call just to say hi or good night or good morning. Sending an e-card or even a real one. Voicemails are nice. It doesn't have to be a big gift or anything like that. Maybe giving her a single flower or something. It's jsut stuff that shows he's thinking about me and he cares is as good as it gets.

 

[starfish]

Little stuff is what really gets me. A phone call just to say hi or good night or good morning. Sending an e-card or even a real one. Voicemails are nice. It doesn't have to be a big gift or anything like that. Maybe giving her a single flower or something. It's jsut stuff that shows he's thinking about me and he cares is as good as it gets.

Exactly....


Send her a e-mail and say you are thinking of her or just walk up and give her a long hug

 

[b fold the truth]

When you just speak your mind, your honest thoughts, and your heart..

http://boards.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?threadid=117431

 

[Pamela]

I really like it when I can sit with someone in silence. And
be totally comfortable and not feel like I have to entertain them.

 

[vixenbabe]

I think the best gift is to give one's self and time.

I've got a generous hubby when it comes to wonderful gifts..But... when he takes the time to call and say " I love you", it makes allll the pricey gifts pale in comparison.

Sidenote: I'm not sure how old you are Georgie24....

While dating in College I had a great heart melting gift given to me.( He and I still remain friends too)

I was dating a football player. He came to pick me up for a date holding HANDPICKED wild flowers. It was the nicest gift I has ever gotten at that point in my life. I pictured this big, burly football player picking wild flowers on the side of some road...It melted my heart thinking that this big lug took the time for such a simple, sweet gift.

Yep, I love the gushy "cheap" gifts from the heart...All women do!