Question for the Guys.....

[DIVISION]

How many of you just "SETTLE" for what a woman gives you?

When are you going to realize that you will only get more, when you "EXPECT" more?

Anyone feel me on this, or am I the only one who thinks this way?

I'd hate to think you all are pussywh00ped........but........it sure does seem that way.

 

[VascularRock]

How many of you just "SETTLE" for what a woman gives you?

When are you going to realize that you will only get more, when you "EXPECT" more?

Anyone feel me on this, or am I the only one who thinks this way?

I'd hate to think you all are pussywh00ped........but........it sure does seem that way.

Too high of expectations (like way over the top) can certainly set you up for dissapointments. Bottomline in my marriage is it's a two way street. Some times it can be difficult and a lasting relationship is one that you put hard work into it.

Pussywhipped, not in my case. My wife and I give openly and freely to each other. And we enjoy it 80% of the time. The other 20% we do just cause it's the right thing to do.

 

[DIVISION]

Too high of expectations (like way over the top) can certainly set you up for dissapointments.

In my experience, when I've expected more, I get more.

If you drop your expectations you are at the mercy of a woman...and that is just unsat.

 

[DrunkenKnight]

I have been married a long time ,so my wife tells me what to expect so I never have to "settle" with anything. Damn ....shes good

 

[DIVISION]

Dk

I have been married a long time ,so my wife tells me what to expect so I never have to "settle" with anything. Damn ....shes good

I was speaking mainly to the single guys, not the imprisoned...errrrr....married ones.

 

[TRUEsoldier]

How many of you just "SETTLE" for what a woman gives you?

When are you going to realize that you will only get more, when you "EXPECT" more?

Anyone feel me on this, or am I the only one who thinks this way?

I'd hate to think you all are pussywh00ped........but........it sure does seem that way.

I hear ya bro, and feel ya, but the problem is there are to many "passive" guys out there, that give the wrong impression. What I have learned is that women love to be taken control of, they WANT a man to handle them!!!! And I have never really heard of "asking a woman for something" during sex, you do it, or you dont!!!! she will deffinatly let you know if she doesnt want it, when you try it!!! But that is just my approach on the hole thing

Now when your married totally different story...

 

[gregory]

Hmm, for me sex is a very personal thing between two people and this idea of "expectations" seems to make it very impersonal and more like a chore or "work". Providing that there are no inhibitions that can't be overcome both parties should just relax and have as good a time as they feel like having with neither one pressuring the other. But if you are unsatisfied with your partner after asking them for "more" that you just have to ask yourself if you really like the person and is sex important enough to you to get someone new. And if it is, then you either have problems or the relationship was doomed from the start for other reasons.

 

[jubei]

You will get as little as you will accept.

 

[DIVISION]

I have never really heard of "asking a woman for something" during sex, you do it, or you dont!!!! she will deffinatly let you know if she doesnt want it, when you try it!!!

TRUE ON THAT SHIT!!!!!!!

 

[Robert Jan]

Not me.

I think of what I want and I get it with the girl im with.

 

[TruBalla4Real]

I'm by no means an expert, but most women have inhibitions from the get-go. The only way they are going to let them go is if you give them a little "nudge." This could include playfully mentioning ideas, but letting her know that at the same time you are serious. (I THINK) Women want to do everything you do (if they are into you enough) but don't want to be embarrassed or something??? Anyways, it's always helped if I playfully mention whatever I want to do then one night carry through with it. If your not getting enough ass playfully hint that your not.... then maybe throw in a comment like "I'm going to have to get another woman on the side." (playing around of course).

 

[BobbyJenious]

My expectations with regards to women (look, attitude, intelligence, etc) are through the roof and I keep them this way because there is ALWAYS something better out there. At least until you find you perfect prototype of a girl. However until then I'm going to keep up the rigerous screening process or multiple girls a week.

 

[DIVISION]

eh Bobby....

My expectations with regards to women (look, attitude, intelligence, etc) are through the roof and I keep them this way because there is ALWAYS something better out there. At least until you find you perfect prototype of a girl. However until then I'm going to keep up the rigerous screening process or multiple girls a week.

.......you're a fucking lil' Jenious.......

I feel ya' on this, immensely.