I had mine pierced until I was fucking ripped one night, and was sucking on a butterscotch hardtak candy piece, and I swallowed the end of it, and just took the fucker out. Im getting too old for that shit. HOWEVER, my old lady LOVED when i would stroke it across her clit really fast. She especially liked it when I would lick her asshole with it. That drove her insane!! She was pissed when I lost it. I had a frenum piercing too once upon a time, and the girls REALLY got off on that as well. It never really healed right though, and was more of an asspain that it was worth, so I took it out too. I think that Women get more pleasure when Oral sex(or sex, if we are talking genital piercing here) than guys ever could.