on a serious tip
if you meet a girl in a social environment (party, club, bar, etc.) trust me, dont come at her retarded...she's already got it in her head that some douche bag is gonna hit on her...
So come at her honest, and proper. Just walk up to her and say hello..introduce yourself and say your name and tell her with a genuine look on your face (lookin into her eyes):
"I'm sorry but I have to tell you that you are a classy looking girl. I had to let ya know cuz there are so many trashy looking girls around here, but you look very nice. Its nice to see a girl who doesnt feel the need to look like a ho to go out. Just wanted you to know that...."
She'll definitely appreciate the compliment, then you ask her what her name is and ask about her..dont talk about yourself unless she asks...Girls like it when you show a genuine interest in WHO they are and what they're about..sometimes they can go on and on about that
If its in class, or at work, you have to come at it in a different way. Just say hi and introduce yourself and talk about class or work with her at first..ask her some questions on how she feels about it, then go into who she is, what she's about..dont ask her out yet..talk to her a few times in class or work for a while..always say hi etc when you see her...then after a week or two, ask her out or something.
it works trust me..
hope this helps