Paternity Test

[tryionlannister]

Here's a brief synopsis of my situation. My wife had been cheating on me for quite some time and I found out in December. We have two children togther: A three year old boy and a little girls who just tuned 1.
I love my kids, but considering my x-wife's past, I have been wondering if my daughter is biologically mine. I'll love her regardless, but I keep wanting to find out if she is truly mine. The guy that I know for certain that my wife was cheating on me with was black, so I know that that rules him out.

However, I keep replaying how after my x-wife found out she was pregnant immediately was depressed and talking about an abortion.

This is obviously something I shouldn't be talking about on an internet message board, but I'm somewhat emabbarrassed to talk about this to anyone who really know me.

So here's the question: would you get a paternity test? I wish I could jusy stop thinking about it.

 

[nangiggles]

are you staying together, is child support involved? I'd probably take one but I wouldnt tell her depending on the circumstances

 

[smurf2]

Does the baby look like you?

 

[zwhit]

wtf are you waiting on. if there was the slightest chance the kid wasn't mine, I'd get the test

 

[zwhit]

i'll probably get one even if I was trying to knock my wife up

 

[tryionlannister]

My girl looks like her mom. Both of my kids look like their mom. The only feature that my daughter has that could be mine are my blue eyes, but shes only one and I think they could still change.
I'll probably get it done. I feel bad for doing it in some ways.
No child support. 50/50 split with her carrying the insurance, so I'll have to pay her for that.

Definitewly not staying together. I still love her, but I can never trust her again. She has ruined any trust I ever had in people in general. I've been dating a girl for four months and she has fallen for me, but I just can't see myself ever marrying again. I just don't wan to go though this bullshit ever.

I knew the guy she was cheating on me with too. Big huge motherfucker (he played football for Louisville). If I ever see him again, he'll kick my fucking ass, but I'm going to blast him as hard as I can in his fucking dick. The guy has a live in girlfriend as well, so I would love to tell her that Kevin's been fucking my wife.

 

[billfred]

Not only would I do it, I would sign up for the Jerry Springer show.

 

[musclemom]

If it's gonna dog you and the results won't change how you feel about the child I'd get the test and move on with life.

BTW, if her eyes were gonna change they usually at least start at about 9 months (that's not written in stone, though, it can rarely happen quite a bit later).

 

[tryionlannister]

Not only would I do it, I would sign up for the Jerry Springer show.

Definitely sounds like a Jerry Springer episode.

 

[billfred]

Definitely sounds like a Jerry Springer episode.

I can see it played out now. First DNA test, you are not the Dad. 2nd DNA test, Black man is not the Dad. 3rd test, hmmm, well there was the next door neighbor - boom.

 

[EarthRider]

that sucks. well the only one that could lost here is your daughter. i am sure the other two dutch bags wont do shit for her. sounds like what needs to happen is a falcon punch to your wife good bro

 

[-SD-]

Shes cheating on you

 

[jdl508]

Sucks man but get the test. I had same issue but my daughter was 13 and even if she isn't mine she's mine. I'm payin for her too

 

[EnderJE]

Hopefully, you get to do the dance of joy:

 

[tryionlannister]

I apprecaite the advice. I think I'll get it done. JDL508 where did you go to get it done? I see them offered oline kits anywhwere from 70-300. That's a huge price variance.

 

[tryionlannister]

I'm still not right over it. I just completely trusted my wife. I will never trust anyone like that again.

 

[dutchman063]

You just gonna get the test for the girl? or all 3?

 

[jdl508]

I did it online was in Iraq at the time
Ordered the kit and got a hair and her to swab her mouth when I was on leave then mailed it out. They emailed me the results. Cost 300 can't think of the site right now but I'm sure I could find it

 

[Hev]

If you are still in the military they will do it for you. Uncle Sam has a thing about paying for kids of soldiers who don't belong to soldiers. Alls you have to do is tell your Doc about it and he will square you away you won't even have to pay for it!! Seen it done many times..... Good luck bro

 

[WoodyO]

Sorry bro. I pulled out. She's just very fertile.

 

[SpyWizard]

My girl looks like her mom. Both of my kids look like their mom. The only feature that my daughter has that could be mine are my blue eyes, but shes only one and I think they could still change.
I'll probably get it done. I feel bad for doing it in some ways.
No child support. 50/50 split with her carrying the insurance, so I'll have to pay her for that.

Definitewly not staying together. I still love her, but I can never trust her again. She has ruined any trust I ever had in people in general. I've been dating a girl for four months and she has fallen for me, but I just can't see myself ever marrying again. I just don't wan to go though this bullshit ever.

I knew the guy she was cheating on me with too. Big huge motherfucker (he played football for Louisville). If I ever see him again, he'll kick my fucking ass, but I'm going to blast him as hard as I can in his fucking dick. The guy has a live in girlfriend as well, so I would love to tell her that Kevin's been fucking my wife.

WHy?? what would that accomplish?? other than you going to jail??

On your kids side of things, why divorce?? there are far worse things than staying together with the wife that cheated for the sake of the kids..

besides you could make her go towards a swingers lifestyle and you could have the sex fun as well, just saying it's all fair isn't it?? or if she wants to stay together you can insist that she participate in group sex parties with you as the middle man.. etc, in the end if you still feel you don't want to stay that's cool, in the mean time you would get to have crazy sex with other women with and without her.. guilt free and keep the kids normal..

 

[AFeedz]

Shouldn't golden hair be enough to prove its yours?

 

[tryionlannister]

Shouldn't golden hair be enough to prove its yours?

Are you a Martin fan? Lol great series.

 

[tryionlannister]

WHy?? what would that accomplish?? other than you going to jail??

On your kids side of things, why divorce?? there are far worse things than staying together with the wife that cheated for the sake of the kids..

besides you could make her go towards a swingers lifestyle and you could have the sex fun as well, just saying it's all fair isn't it?? or if she wants to stay together you can insist that she participate in group sex parties with you as the middle man.. etc, in the end if you still feel you don't want to stay that's cool, in the mean time you would get to have crazy sex with other women with and without her.. guilt free and keep the kids normal..

She has made it clear that she wants nothing to do with me as well. So no chance of staying together. She told me that's it's all her fault and she needs to be alone. However the old adage once you go black, you never go back is true in this case as well... My old hillybilly neighbor Informs me weekly about the men she has at my old home. I've Asked not to tell me anything anymore

 

[C0LUMB0]

I can see it played out now. First DNA test, you are not the Dad. 2nd DNA test, Black man is not the Dad. 3rd test, hmmm, well there was the next door neighbor - boom.

on springer the 3rd test... a transvestite midget is the dad.