our sport and dreams VERSUS peoples life......

[lover-1]

first off all it's hard to get a good body and have (friends-girlfriends) at the same time.i dont know about you maybe it's earer for you than me.

i like my friends and my girl friend but i like bbing more than them cause i used to be thin and i had no chances to get girls befor and they were laughing at me when i was skinny and now when i got a nice body they want me to loss it.i was 100lbs and got to 160lb at 5'5 tall
and want me to loss it no way.

the problem is that they don't tell you quit bbing and they don't mean to make you loss your dreams but they try to tell you come with us to the movie or to the coffee shop and the spend more than 3 hours in there.

to be honest i like to go out when my girl and friends but no one of them like to workout they eat fast food all the time it's hard for me to bring my meals to eat at the same resturant,imagine they eat pizza or pasta so i drink protein shake for sure they gonna say that your sick.


now about spinding the night out...ahhh man what can i say :

they stay out until 2 to 3 am,if i missed one night it's hard for me to go back to my routine i know that sometimes they feel boring also my girl feel so boring but i have to choose one way either my friends and my girl or bodybuilding.


do you guys face the same thing that i face ?

help me out please .................thanks

 

[rgosit]

to an extent... u can have fun and be dedicated to bbing.
i do it all the time.. i bring shakes, egg whites or chicken out with me to eat wile my friends eat fast food.

 

[santo smith]

I am with you bro, I would half to say that my GF has the hardest time with it..

she is a advanced practice nurse and she thinks that i am crazy for what i am doing to my self

 

[barbells79]

bodybuilding is a lifestyle bro, you get bitten by it and cant shake it, ever.(at least for some of us dedicated ones). if you choose to accept this lifestyle, give it all you have and then some, and you will be rewarded most handsomely.
that being said you can still live the bb life and actually have a life too, its a matter of priorities bro.
get up a little earlier to lift, eat what and when you have to, no matter what everyone else is doing............. get my meaning? good luck, and i hope you stick it out.


peace bb79

 

[santo smith]

i am with you bro, have been working hard with this little problem for four years now

 

[barbells79]

santo
my wife loves that i am taking the time to take care of my body. while shes not wild about the a.s. use, she accepts it as part of the life ive chosen. she also helps by cooking the meals she knows i need to have to sustain my growth. i wouldnt trade her for anything, shes been a good and able training partner to me even though she dosent lift at all. you know what i mean?



peace bb79

 

[santo smith]

you got it made bro,
to tell you the truth I just got clearance to go ahead with another cycle from by GF, only under her supervision.... what can you say she just loves me and wants be around for as long as possible..

 

[barbells79]

i think its very cool that she supervises, her being in the health care ranks. got to give you some peace of mind knowing shes monitoring your health. thats just cool as hell bro.


peace bb79

 

[santo smith]

we are two very lucky people

 

[barbells79]

i couldnt agree more bro, i ve been talking with a guy for a while now that just cant get his life together between his bodybuilding efforts and his gf. he says he loves her but is very selfish when it comes to lifting, and she just gets more and more pissed off that he is ignoring her.

you know, the more i think about it the more i think you're right, we are damn lucky bro.


peace bb79