Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below i dont belive it bad guys always win ! , just now i got of the phone with my friend jennifer who is gorgous ,shes smart,funny ,cool and she finally told me the name of her mystery bf who she broke up with 3 times and was considering taking him back his name is mark, i know mark , and wanted to vomit whenshe said hisname . he was the guy in high school who was the jock/hottie who beat up the small nerdy kids ( before i got into bodybuilding i was one of them and saw his wrath) i cant believe shes dating him , how come those guys come out winners always ?
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NubianBeauty
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Maybe in the short run puff, but definitely not in the long run. Are you a male? and if so, do you have feelings for this girl? If you do you must tell her, she may only be feeling lonely right now and is taking her friend back because of that. I'm quite sure if you let her know you will be there for her regardless of her decision she will appreciate that very muchnotpuff said:
Sassy69
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I dont' know why it is, but girls really tend to go for the jock/tuff guys. But "winning" is relative. Maybe she just hasn't figured out yet that the guy is a loser..... Maybe next time she calls, you should ask if the guy has changed at all or is he still picking on people smaller than him & does it make him feel like his dick is bigger as a result.
BTW, if she's dumped his ass 3 times, wtf does she think is going to be better the 4th time?? At this point I bet he's just playing her - knowing that she will come back. Maybe in her mind she's "taking him back" when actually he's "letting her come groveling back"... Sounds like a real healthy relationship worth holding onto & making it work
BTW, if she's dumped his ass 3 times, wtf does she think is going to be better the 4th time?? At this point I bet he's just playing her - knowing that she will come back. Maybe in her mind she's "taking him back" when actually he's "letting her come groveling back"... Sounds like a real healthy relationship worth holding onto & making it work
i dont mean a contest im just saying they always excel and suceed these guys are the ones to get the gorgous special wife,drive the nice cars, have the great kids and the guys they beat up in reality might not even get married its not like 1960 anymore where the little guy grows up to be rich now its the oposite mark will be the flashy executive with jennifer on his side true im no longer small or a nerd but it stings cause many of the guyshe bullied never broke out
i dunno why girls always go back to the same asshole over and over again. i was guilty of the same thing for a loooong time. thing is....eventually i think the type of guy she wants will change over time. i think many women go through this twisted phase in their life where she goes after the bad boy that treats her like shit or is just a straight up asshole. i dont know where that attraction comes in but its there. i know for years i stayed with "bay boys" even though they had flaws up the ass... horrible tempers...insecurity problems... the macho type...the putting u down makes me feel better type... cant keep ur pants zipped.... ya know the kind!?!? 
but eventually u WAKE THE FUCK UP and finally see whats going on, dump their sorry asses and move on to the nice guys
sooooooo dont u worry, she'll come around
but eventually u WAKE THE FUCK UP and finally see whats going on, dump their sorry asses and move on to the nice guys sooooooo dont u worry, she'll come around
Sassy69
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Interestingly we are discussing why it is so hard for the good guys to come out ahead..... WHAT ABOUT US GOOD GIRLS?????
GODDAMMIT - I'm educated up the ass, I own a gas grill, have my own house, car is paid for, no debt, I have 34 D's and no artificial limbs. HOW COME I"M SITTING HERE WITH MY CAT???? HE'S THE ONLY MALE IN MY LIFE AND HE DOESN"T EVEN HAVE HIS OWN TESTICLES!!!!!
HOW COME??? WHY GOD?? WHY??? WHY ME?????
OK -- I know, drama queen...
GODDAMMIT - I'm educated up the ass, I own a gas grill, have my own house, car is paid for, no debt, I have 34 D's and no artificial limbs. HOW COME I"M SITTING HERE WITH MY CAT???? HE'S THE ONLY MALE IN MY LIFE AND HE DOESN"T EVEN HAVE HIS OWN TESTICLES!!!!!
HOW COME??? WHY GOD?? WHY??? WHY ME?????
OK -- I know, drama queen...
. im sittin by myself too
and i dont even have my cat to cuddle with!! 
just to let you guys know she officially took him back she told me he sent her the sweatest email which sealed the deal i asked what he said , she sent me the email he sent her all it said was " jennifer i still care about you we can work through this cya mark " i coudlnt belive it, the world is cruel and sassy u sound liek a amazing catch u will get ur mr right soon
Steelplate
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Notpuff.. Its this simple my man.. She has to make her mistakes right now.. Eventually she will figure out this Mark guy isnt what she wants at all.. Have you ever seen that episode of "Friends" where Monica goes out with the "cool" guy from highschool she always dreamed of dating, and finds out he is still living with his parents and working at the movie theatre ??... It is true though.. Women like the bad boys for some reason.. I am 28 now, and mellowed out a lot, but when I was younger I was a Class A dick.. I dated SO many more girls then.. It seemed like they all wanted to break me.. Or fix me.. I used to chock it up to mothering instinct.. Who knows though..
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i know but it just bothers me because if i had jennifer id treat her amazing and for the love of god "jennifer i still care about you we can work through this" that is not so sweat , ya know for her birthday he took her to a fast food joint and a movie but thats not what bothers me he took HIS friends with them ,but she told me she thinks hes the one
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