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Lady Viking
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That´s all.
I´m sad.
I´m sad.
My relationship sucks
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KillahBee
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Then get out of it, L.V. Unless this is just one of the "downs" in your relationship. If not, then get the f out. No use in wasting any more time. There are plenty of dudes out there for ya (not on EF tho - these guys are all losers and their balls are all shrunk up and shit - weird.)
GoldenDelicious
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fixable?
im really sorry to hear that, LV
im really sorry to hear that, LV
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Gambino
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baby i got a stiff 3 inches that will make you feel a lot better
Lady Viking
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I hope that it would be so easy.Dial_tone said:
Lady Viking
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Maybe. But I´m not sure do I wanna try to fix.GoldenDelicious said:
I am sorry to hear that. Out of curiosity, how long have you been dating?
Perhaps it is more of a timing issue - sometimes you can meet great people and the timing isn't exactly right.
If this is a legitimate long-term prospect - i.e. you could marry the guy - then remember the big picture. I've had some positive experiences with g/f's where we had a really mature conversation about feelings, timing, etc., and decided to become friends. If both you and he are mature, then you can respect a friendship. As time passes, timing and personal growth may allow the relationship to rekindle stronger than ever. If not, you can end up with a really good friend, which is also not a terrible outcome.
The other possibility is that you simply misjudged the person, and you've now learned they are not a long term prospect. If you are having these doubts, best to get out of it - clean break - and take some time to get over it.
Some of the biggest breakthroughs I have had in life came post-relationship...both career-wise and personally.
Good luck.
Perhaps it is more of a timing issue - sometimes you can meet great people and the timing isn't exactly right.
If this is a legitimate long-term prospect - i.e. you could marry the guy - then remember the big picture. I've had some positive experiences with g/f's where we had a really mature conversation about feelings, timing, etc., and decided to become friends. If both you and he are mature, then you can respect a friendship. As time passes, timing and personal growth may allow the relationship to rekindle stronger than ever. If not, you can end up with a really good friend, which is also not a terrible outcome.
The other possibility is that you simply misjudged the person, and you've now learned they are not a long term prospect. If you are having these doubts, best to get out of it - clean break - and take some time to get over it.
Some of the biggest breakthroughs I have had in life came post-relationship...both career-wise and personally.
Good luck.
GoldenDelicious
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yuk. even worseLady Viking said:
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UA_Iron
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dump his ass and then move on. If you feel its not fixable then you probably wont give 100% then its doomed to failure.
I'll stop impersonating JerseyArt now
I'll stop impersonating JerseyArt now
Lady Viking
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I´ve been thinking that a lot lately.MrMuscle said:
Lady Viking
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Well, I´m not dating him, we live together. And have 5 months old babyMattTheSkywalker said:
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Just remeber LV, having a baby dosen't make a couple and has been known to tear one apart. Couple it just be the stress of having a baby that is getting you down? Five months is still very new if this is your first one. Your not married remeber. He can still be a dad and you a mom even if you are not together.
Lady Viking
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Combination of all.HumorMe said:
Lady Viking
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Gymgurl said:
Sorry to read that sweetie
I dont know what the problem or difficulty is, if it is inherent or recent, or any other detail fo the relationship.
But I offer my sincerest ebst wishes and hope all works out as it should.
Congrats on the lil one by the way
I dont know what the problem or difficulty is, if it is inherent or recent, or any other detail fo the relationship.
But I offer my sincerest ebst wishes and hope all works out as it should.
Congrats on the lil one by the way
HumorMe
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Lady Viking said:
Tough situation.
Could these things be corrected if you wanted to correct them?
It's up to you what needs to be done. Whatever you choose, I hope it's for the best. Reason everything out before deciding though to make sure because it will probably be permanent.
You don't want to sit around in another year or so and say "what if."
Good luck.
Forge
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MattTheSkywalker said:
One thing I've learned in my 32 years of life is that some of life's greatest lessons are learned from failure.
LV sorry to hear it, a baby makes it more complicated. I hope things get better, but since you two aren't married don't be afraid to leave if you don't think it will work out. Staying in a bad relationship is always worse than being single.
Sorry to hear this VG... Its not an easy decision, believe me i've been there and I have two young children. Just make sure what ever you do, you do for you.
I don't know your issues or your problems, yes some things can be worked out but some things can't. Listen to yourself first, deep down inside you prolly already have your mind made up
I wish you the best of luck and if you need to talk darlin, shoot me a PM anytime.
I don't know your issues or your problems, yes some things can be worked out but some things can't. Listen to yourself first, deep down inside you prolly already have your mind made up
I wish you the best of luck and if you need to talk darlin, shoot me a PM anytime.
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Ulcasterdropout
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Hope things come around...
Lady Viking
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We´re going to counselling, in the matter of fact it´s on Monday. Why am I thinking that why bother to go thereEnderJE said:
Lady Viking said:We´re going to counselling, in the matter of fact it´s on Monday. Why am I thinking that why bother to go there
Honey......I'm sorry that things aren't working out for you.
What further complicates things is that you have a child with this guy you are living with but you aren't married or dating him. I truly hope things work out for you and him in counseling, you've got to lay everything out on the table and DON'T HOLD BACK!!!! DON'T HOLD ANYTHING BACK!!!!!
If it bothers you, whatever it is, SPEAK YOUR MIND ABOUT IT!!!! This is your chance to AIR YOUR COMPLAINTS AND RESERVATIONS ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP.
I sincerely hope thangs work out, honey.
*If you need to talk about anything or need some help or advice, PLEASE don't hesistate to PM me*
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