I think i'm the wrong guy to ask, the girls are the people you should be asking. I would say belmar though. Seaside is full of little kids and old people. I actually never hit the seaside clubs yet but Djais is the hot shit in my opinion.
Like I said ask the girls, supergirl what you think?
Since I have been to both this year...I would have to hand it to seaside......Tempts is so hot this summer....The music has never been better and also now that merge is there and Eddie Baezspins, it is just getting bettter...That is why KTU 103.5 is there every weekend and not in Belmar....