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Life and Relationships??

wnt2bBeast said:
is it really that complicated to figure out...or do we just love to complicate our lives? discuss
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Its really not all that complicated. Most of the complications come from ourselves.
 
Frisky said:
Its really not all that complicated. Most of the complications come from ourselves.
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Huh? That was too complicated.
 
wnt2bBeast said:
is it really that complicated to figure out...or do we just love to complicate our lives? discuss
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I think analyzing and overanalyzing life and relationships is the problem. Neither one is difficult. With regard to relationships, I just go with my gut and let it ride and see where it goes - no pressure, no analyzing, no thinking. Life is too short.
 
it's all very simple..........women are never satisfied with anything a man does...the end.


:)
 
nycgirl said:
I think analyzing and overanalyzing life and relationships is the problem. Neither one is difficult. With regard to relationships, I just go with my gut and let it ride and see where it goes - no pressure, no analyzing, no thinking. Life is to short.
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i have the same mentality..in fact ive said those very words "lets enjoy the ride and see where it takes us"

how can two people who want to be together not enjoy the ride?
 
wnt2bBeast said:
how can two people who want to be together not enjoy the ride?
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Just because they are on the same ride, doesn't mean they want to go in the same direction or at the same speed. This is where communication is key!
 
wnt2bBeast said:
i agree..but why do we do this to ourselves? do we love to feel gloomy?
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Hate to say it but.. yes. Same reason we sit and dwindle in the past and mourn the dead.

Glass is half empty........ er.. half full... ;)
 
wnt2bBeast said:
how can two people who want to be together not enjoy the ride?
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because women write down the wrong directions and men won't stop to ask for better ones.
 
nycgirl said:
Just because they are on the same ride, doesn't mean they want to go in the same direction or at the same speed. This is where communication is key!
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ahh "speed"..your a very smart lady
what if someone is on fifth and the other person is in 2nd or 3rd but would like to be in fifth one day soon..can it be resolved? 4th is a nice middle of te road gear not to fast not to slow
 
Dial_tone said:
it's all very simple..........women are never satisfied with anything a man does...the end.


:)
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that is till you meet the right man.. or the right woman. ;)
 
Frisky said:
Hate to say it but.. yes. Same reason we sit and dwindle in the past and mourn the dead.

Glass is half empty........ er.. half full... ;)
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what if you break the fuckin glass in your hand? ;)
 
wnt2bBeast said:
i agree..but why do we do this to ourselves? do we love to feel gloomy?
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Because we're brought up to love the underdog. The conquer all evils, beat all odds mentality.

I read the following earlier today in a book I'm reading:

The force of darkness and destruction within us is balanced with a force of light and love...To ignore one is to ignore the other...it is the mythological marraige of Ares (the god of war) and Aphrodite (the goddess of sex) that Harmonia (harmony) is born.
 
Dial_tone said:
because write down the wrong directions and men won't stop to ask for better ones.
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dude stop fucking up my model lol its a 2 seater and it only goes one way you cant go left or right you can only go forward or you fall off the ride and you die :p
 
wnt2bBeast said:
what if you break the fuckin glass in your hand? ;)
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Did I say glass... I meant plastic cup :verygood:
 
Frisky said:
that is till you meet the right man.. or the right woman. ;)
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see i believe that you will fnd fault even in someone you truly love its being able to deal with and overlook those faults and see the better qualities that makes you stay with that person
 
wnt2bBeast said:
dude stop fucking up my model lol its a 2 seater and it only goes one way you cant go left or right you can only go forward or you fall off the ride and you die :p
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Why fall off and die? Ask the passenger that can't make up his or her mind to get off your ride because there is another passenger down the rode waiting.
 
nycgirl said:
Why fall off and die? Ask the passenger that can't make up his or her mind to get off your ride because there is another passenger down the rode waiting.
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so you think that if two people arent going the same speed (they are and want to go in the same direction) that they should make the other choose?
 
wnt2bBeast said:
dude stop fucking up my model lol its a 2 seater and it only goes one way you cant go left or right you can only go forward or you fall off the ride and you die :p
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lol, so the car is really a rollercoaster ride...we both think we're driving but in reality neither of us is.
 
jaded said:
Eh, I think we complicate things unnecessarily at times
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hey its not you,its Jersey being a difficult bitch and not bringing you all the cash he makes,that ungrateful skimming bitch,after all you do for him to
 
TheOak01 said:
hey its not you,its Jersey being a difficult bitch and not bringing you all the cash he makes,that ungrateful skimming bitch,after all you do for him to
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:lmao:

You are absolutely right...JERSEY, get in here, we are going to have a talk!!!

J/K
 
wnt2bBeast said:
so you think that if two people arent going the same speed (they are and want to go in the same direction) that they should make the other choose?
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No one you shouldn't make the other person choose. The person that is confused or whatever should either be patient and enjoy the relationship or move on to find what he/she wants.

If I just want to date and have fun and the person I am seeing wants to have a long-term relationship. I'm not going to make that person wait for something that is not going to happen. This is why communication is important. If things are laid out in the beginning, you will have a smooth ride.
 
nycgirl said:
If I just want to date and have fun and the person I am seeing wants to have a long-term relationship. I'm not going to make that person wait for something that is not going to happen. This is why communication is important. If things are laid out in the beginning, you will have a smooth ride.
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yes i completely agree with that..yeah no sense in playing around while one wnats to only have fun and the other is looking for more..
not the case here though lol :)
 
wnt2bBeast said:
yes i completely agree with that..yeah no sense in playing around while one wnats to only have fun and the other is looking for more..
not the case here though lol :)
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Then state your case.
 
wnt2bBeast said:
see i believe that you will fnd fault even in someone you truly love its being able to deal with and overlook those faults and see the better qualities that makes you stay with that person
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So very true...

Its also accepting that person the way they are, acknowledging each others faults...

Its when you try to change someone that it all goes in the crapper.
 
One who looks for a friend without faults will have none. -- Hasidic Saying
 
nycgirl said:
Then state your case.
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ummm ....
and anyone else no names mentioned in this thread...

i gave you the case minus a few details lol
one person in 5th gear the other person in 3rd
the person in 3rd really thinks that they can get to 5th otherwise they wouldnt waste both peoples time..there are some roadblocks but both parties want to deal with them etc bottom line bothe wanna go to the same place with each other
 
wnt2bBeast said:
ummm ....
and anyone else no names mentioned in this thread...

i gave you the case minus a few details lol
one person in 5th gear the other person in 3rd
the person in 3rd really thinks that they can get to 5th otherwise they wouldnt waste both peoples time..there are some roadblocks but both parties want to deal with them etc bottom line bothe wanna go to the same place with each other
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Then be patient. If you both want the same thing, things will work itself out.
 
wnt2bBeast said:
ummm ....
and anyone else no names mentioned in this thread...

i gave you the case minus a few details lol
one person in 5th gear the other person in 3rd
the person in 3rd really thinks that they can get to 5th otherwise they wouldnt waste both peoples time..there are some roadblocks but both parties want to deal with them etc bottom line bothe wanna go to the same place with each other
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If both roads lead to the same place.. why is there an issue?

Find a happy medium and roll with it. :rose:
 
wnt2bBeast said:
ummm ....
and anyone else no names mentioned in this thread...

i gave you the case minus a few details lol
one person in 5th gear the other person in 3rd
the person in 3rd really thinks that they can get to 5th otherwise they wouldnt waste both peoples time..there are some roadblocks but both parties want to deal with them etc bottom line bothe wanna go to the same place with each other
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let it move at its own pace and eventually, if you both want the same thing, thats what youll get
 
Frisky said:
If both roads lead to the same place.. why is there an issue?

Find a happy medium and roll with it. :rose:
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Sometimes it's not about the destination, but the journey.
 
drop the car altogether and get a tandem bicycle....that way you have to pedal at the same speed.
 
wnt2bBeast said:
i dunno the issue is the 2 different gears..i guess
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Both parties knowing which gear it the right gear .. am I correct?.

No matter how long it takes to get there, or the speed bumps and forks in the road.. they all lead to the same place... its that final destination, its all that matters.

A long talk is what I suggest... don't over think this, its simple. Two people who want the same thing. One is full throttle and the other isn't... This is normal.

all of that being said... I think 4th gear is the place to be. Every relationship has to have some give and some take. This is where it all begins.
 
Frisky said:
Both parties knowing which gear it the right gear .. am I correct?.

No matter how long it takes to get there, or the speed bumps and forks in the road.. they all lead to the same place... its that final destination, its all that matters.

A long talk is what I suggest... don't over think this, its simple. Two people who want the same thing. One is full throttle and the other isn't... This is normal.

all of that being said... I think 4th gear is the place to be. Every relationship has to have some give and some take. This is where it all begins.
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right on baby!!! :rose:
screew Dr Phil i want Dr frisky and have cheffy make us appetizers lol
:)
 
wnt2bBeast said:
right on baby!!! :rose:
screew Dr Phil i want Dr frisky and have cheffy make us appetizers lol
:)
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Hee hee

Will be hooking up for Wings and Guiness I predict in the near future :p
 
wnt2bBeast said:
good..i really hope its a foursome
:)
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I am willing to bet aliens life on it.. that it will be ;)
 
wnt2bBeast said:
hmm whats he like?
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Hard to sum up what he's like without sounding like a silly school girl... :)
Although, he is quite different from the other body builders that I've dated in the past...but then again no two men are the same.
 
Lickin LollyPops said:
Hard to sum up what he's like without sounding like a silly school girl... :)
Although, he is quite different from the other body builders that I've dated in the past...but then again no two men are the same.
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i see so how did he react when you told him you loved him?
if you scared him he wouldnt still be with you..ever think of that?
 
wnt2bBeast said:
i see so how did he react when you told him you loved him?
if you scared him he wouldnt still be with you..ever think of that?
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Well actually I didn't tell him. What happened was we were just talking about nothing and everything and as I was looking at him, it almost just came out....it's like I can't get enough of him.
 
Lickin LollyPops said:
Well actually I didn't tell him. What happened was we were just talking about nothing and everything and as I was looking at him, it almost just came out....it's like I can't get enough of him.
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well you should he may not run away like you think
:)
 
Lickin LollyPops said:
Well actually I didn't tell him. What happened was we were just talking about nothing and everything and as I was looking at him, it almost just came out....it's like I can't get enough of him.
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If you feel that way then you should tell him.
 
Lickin LollyPops said:
Ever dated someone for a few months and felt like telling them you love them...just cause it just felt so right to say?
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Hell, I've told them that after a few days before

j/k

No I'm not :worried:
 
Lickin LollyPops said:
Well actually I didn't tell him. What happened was we were just talking about nothing and everything and as I was looking at him, it almost just came out....it's like I can't get enough of him.
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I say easy there cowgirl.

That is not a word to be thrown around.
 
nycgirl said:
Just because they are on the same ride, doesn't mean they want to go in the same direction or at the same speed. This is where communication is key!
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You HIT the Nail on the HEAD, i very very much agree with you
 
get a room already! :)
 
Neither are complicated. Just what they are.

Life may seem complicated at times when things just aren't going your way. That's life, it's going to happen. When things do go your way though, we tend to not realize it and keep going on. But the instant something is messed up in our lives, we notice it immediately.

The same for relationships, they are not always going to work out perfectly. That is why you have to work at them, which usually makes them stronger. It just depends on how commited each individual is to making the relationship work.

Whiskey
 
patsfan1379 said:
That is not a word to be thrown around.
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True. She probably shouldn't drop the word too fast, but she could tell him that she has stronger feelings than previously indicated.
 
I have had guys say it within a week or so and some that will say it and you won't hear it again for a couple months.....The ones that say it fast scare me
 
Lickin LollyPops said:
Ever dated someone for a few months and felt like telling them you love them...just cause it just felt so right to say?
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Yep, a girl did about ten years ago. First date, I went over to her place, stuff happened, she rolled over and told me.

We have two kids now... ;)
 
fun & lust: having fun, clicking, it feeling "right" overall happiness and a smooth ride.

love: knowing you can talk about the giant shit you took this morning and still having her kiss you on the cheek on your way to work.

you won't have the slightest idea what "love" is until things get rough.
 
EnderJE said:
Yep, a girl did about ten years ago. First date, I went over to her place, stuff happened, she rolled over and told me.

We have two kids now... ;)
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She's cheating on you ;)
 
Frisky said:
Its really not all that complicated. Most of the complications come from ourselves.
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it is complicated if you are ugly, and cant see yourself settling for a girl that you arent physically attracted to.
 
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