Ladies!

[anthrax]

I was talking with a friend (female) about dating and she assured me that a lot of women don't rate "physical attraction" as a top priority requirement when looking for a partner.

From a guy point of view it's difficult to imagine (If wee don't find a broad "hot", chances are we're not very interested)

So, what do you think?

Would you date a guy even if you find him just average looking? (and not a gazillionaire driving a Porsche)

 

[feisty11975]

I can't wait to see the answers on this one!!

To answer your question, you have to be physically attracted to someone if you are going to be with them but you also have to find them mentally attractive also...Just because someone is HOT does not mean that there will be any chemistry.

 

[Raina]

I think attraction is part of things but to me what turns me on the most and attracts me to someone goes far beyond anything physical. I mean there has to be some kind of physical attraction but that's such a tiny part of catching my attention.

 

[nycgirl]

There has to be physical attraction. Something that makes my body want to be with him, something that makes me say, "my god my man is fine (according to me)" when I look at his picture. Not just his face, but I also consider body & height. Its the way his clothes fit (his jeans on his legs, shirts on his chest, etc. )

Yes, of course, there's the personality (humor, kindness, intelligence, etc.) and that plays a role as well. But, I'm not sleeping with humor.

I'm not a vain person, at all. But, the visual part of being attracted to someone is the first thing (not all the time, but usually) that occurs when you meet someone, then you find out about their personality. I think it plays a bigger part than some are willing to admit to.

 

[jenscats5]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.....what one finds "hot" is relative to the individual.....I may find a man FINE whilst NYCgirl may not....

So it's all relative....but personality DOES add to the physical attraction IMO.....

 

[slat1]

My gf tells me everything the women at work say after I stop bye to see her. Its scary. I would rather not know. Guys really don't say much in comparison. Nor do they ask for the finer details of things like women do.

 

[hamstershaver]

all chicks care about is money and cock size
i have neither

 

[Frisky]

physical attraction, yes.. but that doesn't seal the deal. There has to be more to it than that.

 

[KillahBee]

It's as simple as this (for most cases) - if you are decent looking but have a great personality (make a girl laugh and she will want to be around you all the time) then you will have no problem gettin poon. You may not be the guy that walks into a bar and has chicks fingerblasting themselves over your rockhardwashboardabs4u2NV, but you will have hot chicks on you no problem. I have never been the guy that pulls girls strictly off looks, but I have had some beyond sexy women completely fall for me because of my personality.

 

[nycgirl]

My gf tells me everything the women at work say after I stop bye to see her. Its scary. I would rather not know. Guys really don't say much in comparison. Nor do they ask for the finer details of things like women do.

Its even worse when the women are your mom's age and they make "sounds" when they look at your S.O.'s picture.

 

[anthrax]

Women are definitely more sophisticated than we are....

 

[nycgirl]

Women are definitely more sophisticated than we are....

What?? I was very honest with my answer.

 

[covergrl80]

good looks are a plus but not all that should be veiwed,there is so much more to a person then what is on the outside.

Look will get you in the door but not always close it.

 

[anthrax]

What?? I was very honest with my answer.

I was not sarcastic

For men it's 80% physical attractions that matters, which is kinda bestial