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Slyder190

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I dated this girl for a month and then she pretty much blew me off for 2 weeks. And then naturally, it was done. This all went down last week and I see her out tonight and she comes to me like, "I know you don't wanna talk to me..." and my answer: I'd like it if you walk away.

Tell me, a girl blows you off for 2 weeks ans then wants me to talk to when she sees me out? Where's the logic??????
 
shit like that happens man. gotta roll with it.
 
Chicks are dumb - logic is intwined with emotion - it will never be right.
 
Slyder190 said:
I dated this girl for a month and then she pretty much blew me off for 2 weeks. And then naturally, it was done. This all went down last week and I see her out tonight and she comes to me like, "I know you don't wanna talk to me..." and my answer: I'd like it if you walk away.

Tell me, a girl blows you off for 2 weeks ans then wants me to talk to when she sees me out? Where's the logic??????
This happened to me once, but with a guy. Where's the logic?
 
Slyder190 said:
I dated this girl for a month and then she pretty much blew me off for 2 weeks. And then naturally, it was done. This all went down last week and I see her out tonight and she comes to me like, "I know you don't wanna talk to me..." and my answer: I'd like it if you walk away.

Tell me, a girl blows you off for 2 weeks ans then wants me to talk to when she sees me out? Where's the logic??????
My bet (sorry in advance to be brutally honest):

She probably decided to play-out some other option that came up. It fell through and she realized you had also lost you in the process. She saw you out, thought "what the hell, he was pretty cool too" and decided to try to get a little something going.

If she hadn't been interested in at least a little something, she would have either 1) avoided chatting with you at all or 2) would have come-up and made really bland conversation.

Just my 2 cents -- it's worth what you paid for it!
 
She s done with ya but was embarassed that she ran into you so she tried to act like she was still interested.....move on
 
Slyder190 said:
I dated this girl for a month and then she pretty much blew me off for 2 weeks. And then naturally, it was done. This all went down last week and I see her out tonight and she comes to me like, "I know you don't wanna talk to me..." and my answer: I'd like it if you walk away.

Tell me, a girl blows you off for 2 weeks ans then wants me to talk to when she sees me out? Where's the logic??????

She just didn't want to dodge the issue all night or have to deal with uncomfortable situations that may have come up. Grabbed the bull by the horns if you will.
 
men do it all the time... Thats what I would call roll reversal
 
pdaddy said:
She just didn't want to dodge the issue all night or have to deal with uncomfortable situations that may have come up. Grabbed the bull by the horns if you will.


I had a dream about a bull... It was scary, but i did grab him by the horns and looked in his beady pink eyes that had no pupil, and growled... and then he said 'Frisky' I will get you ... And I freaking had a panic attack... LOL, that was a weird weird dream. I spent the rest of the night running from an albino bull with no pupil's and the bitch could talk. :worried:
 
Ummmm you went out with her how many times? Was there a spoken commitment? I dont understand why you are sweating this.

If you were interested still then you would have talked to her. As you weren't, you didn't.

No harm, no foul.
 
dude it's very likley that she just wasnt into you enough to keep up with the dates/rekationship and also a good chance something else panned out that was better from her perspective. but - when she saw you out, her inner urges to confirm that you still wanted her forced her to approach you in such a way. it's an ego stroke. especially if she has low self-esteem. even though she doesnt want you, she wants to know YOU're still interested in HER. that fucking whore
 
Smurfy said:
dude it's very likley that she just wasnt into you enough to keep up with the dates/rekationship and also a good chance something else panned out that was better from her perspective. but - when she saw you out, her inner urges to confirm that you still wanted her forced her to approach you in such a way. it's an ego stroke. especially if she has low self-esteem. even though she doesnt want you, she wants to know YOU're still interested in HER. that fucking whore


Womenz are bitchez!
 
She found some other guy she thought was better.

I give you big props for telling her to get the fuck out when she came looking for some attention. Almost all guys would kiss her ass to get her pussy back. She will now want you more.

Just take pleasure in knowing that eventually one of her friends will come sniffing around, and you will get to fuck her.
 
BIKINIMOM said:
Ummmm you went out with her how many times? Was there a spoken commitment? I dont understand why you are sweating this.

If you were interested still then you would have talked to her. As you weren't, you didn't.

No harm, no foul.


We dated for like 4-5 weeks and on many occasions her actions didn't seem to match up to what she said and I told her sraight out if you don't wanna date me, fine tell me and don't waste my time and yours, but of course, no she wanted to date me and see where things could go. Well at the end she started actin like an asshole and we had a it out w-her. She basically blew me off for the most part just prior to that, which is why we had it out. Then she tells me she wants to talk to me in person and talk things out, only to blow me off again. Not sweatin it, but what makes this girl think she can blow me off and then be like, "I know you don't wanna talk to me but..." WHAT THE FUCK IS SHE THINKIN?
And they say guys are dumb?
 
Good way to put it. We got a lil "closure", you could call it today finally. she was and is fucked up. She avoids the things she can't deny. and I never slept with her, but I passed up the chance at the end one night cuz she was drunk and i was not (don't drink often). Name me ONE other guy you can say that about. Yet, according to her, how dare I bring up something so offense to her, how dare I be so rude as to mention it. :rolleyes:
 
Slyder190 said:
We dated for like 4-5 weeks and on many occasions her actions didn't seem to match up to what she said and I told her sraight out if you don't wanna date me, fine tell me and don't waste my time and yours, but of course, no she wanted to date me and see where things could go. Well at the end she started actin like an asshole and we had a it out w-her. She basically blew me off for the most part just prior to that, which is why we had it out. Then she tells me she wants to talk to me in person and talk things out, only to blow me off again. Not sweatin it, but what makes this girl think she can blow me off and then be like, "I know you don't wanna talk to me but..." WHAT THE FUCK IS SHE THINKIN?
And they say guys are dumb?


Darlin DUMB is not gender specific. She enjoyed the attention you were giving her and not necessarily being with you. That has NOTHING to do with you. It is all on her. If she didnt truly enjoy YOUR company then she should not have gone out with you more than twice. There are many people in the world. A few personalities line up at the right place and right time. But most do not.

My only question to you is, why would you WANT a girl that treated you like that?

Learn the lesson, move on and keep being a nice guy. Dont change because of a few dumb cunts. A nice girl will someday see and appreciate you. :)
 
I'd have fucked the hell out of her then pulled out and messed all over her face. The ball pretty much stays in your court after that.
 
BIKINIMOM said:
Darlin DUMB is not gender specific. She enjoyed the attention you were giving her and not necessarily being with you. That has NOTHING to do with you. It is all on her. If she didnt truly enjoy YOUR company then she should not have gone out with you more than twice. There are many people in the world. A few personalities line up at the right place and right time. But most do not.

My only question to you is, why would you WANT a girl that treated you like that?

Learn the lesson, move on and keep being a nice guy. Dont change because of a few dumb cunts. A nice girl will someday see and appreciate you. :)

Thanx. No don't get me wrong, I don't want to be with her. I'm glad is was only a month. Not so bad at all. Just wonder what y'all think sometimes. :)
 
Slyder190 said:
Thanx. No don't get me wrong, I don't want to be with her. I'm glad is was only a month. Not so bad at all. Just wonder what y'all think sometimes. :)

I feel you... been there plenty of times myself. A guy would come out of the starting gate all hot and heavy. I would actually like and want to get to know them (rarely happens because I am so fugging quirky, takes a rare combination to capture my interest), they are down and then *poof* - they fall off the radar. And sex had NOTHING to do with it. Some guys never even touched me while there were others that I couldnt WAIT to get away from once I was done; didnt affect their pursuit of me in the least.

Used to be upsetting at first as I so rarely got excited about meeting anyone new. Then I chilled as I became more experienced dating and realized it wasn't about me at all... was about them.

Up until recently, I still was missing the hell out of a great guy that I started to fall for back in Jan. It is SO DIFFICULT to find someone that you really REALLY like anymore, especially as you get older and more quirky. :)
 
BIKINIMOM said:
I feel you... been there plenty of times myself. A guy would come out of the starting gate all hot and heavy. I would actually like and want to get to know them (rarely happens because I am so fugging quirky, takes a rare combination to capture my interest), they are down and then *poof* - they fall off the radar. And sex had NOTHING to do with it. Some guys never even touched me while there were others that I couldnt WAIT to get away from once I was done; didnt affect their pursuit of me in the least.

Used to be upsetting at first as I so rarely got excited about meeting anyone new. Then I chilled as I became more experienced dating and realized it wasn't about me at all... was about them.

Up until recently, I still was missing the hell out of a great guy that I started to fall for back in Jan. It is SO DIFFICULT to find someone that you really REALLY like anymore, especially as you get older and more quirky. :)

Can you clarify what it is your saying in your first paragraph?
 
mrplunkey said:
My bet (sorry in advance to be brutally honest):

She probably decided to play-out some other option that came up. It fell through and she realized you had also lost you in the process. She saw you out, thought "what the hell, he was pretty cool too" and decided to try to get a little something going.

If she hadn't been interested in at least a little something, she would have either 1) avoided chatting with you at all or 2) would have come-up and made really bland conversation.

Just my 2 cents -- it's worth what you paid for it!

I was going to post the same thing ..... :)
 
Slyder190 said:
I dated this girl for a month and then she pretty much blew me off for 2 weeks. And then naturally, it was done. This all went down last week and I see her out tonight and she comes to me like, "I know you don't wanna talk to me..." and my answer: I'd like it if you walk away.

Tell me, a girl blows you off for 2 weeks ans then wants me to talk to when she sees me out? Where's the logic??????

She doesn't dislike you, just didn't want to get too close for whatever reason. Still wants to be friends maybe. Guys do the same thing.
 
Frisky said:
I had a dream about a bull... It was scary, but i did grab him by the horns and looked in his beady pink eyes that had no pupil, and growled... and then he said 'Frisky' I will get you ... And I freaking had a panic attack... LOL, that was a weird weird dream. I spent the rest of the night running from an albino bull with no pupil's and the bitch could talk. :worried:

You crack me up woman. :)
 
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