Ladies, give me an honest opinion...

[Serenity Head]

What is your thought on dating "competitve" bodybuilders, and I am not talking about the male stripper look year long; I am talking about hard core olympia bound muscle heads, Let me explain:

I am engaged to my high school sweet heart. She is the first girl I was ever "with" and will be the last. We met when I was 17, I had just gotten hooked on bodybuilding, I went from a lanky 6' 160lbs to 195 in 6 months. She never knew me before bodybuilding. At that I had the whole natural Frank Sepe playgirl model thing going for me, but of course that was not my goal I wanted to be bigger.

So I introduced her to aas and did not hide anything from her(lies ruin everything). She has always been very supportive and enthusiastic about my goals. I have slowly climbed the latter of success and I plan to continue to do so. I am currently 21 and 260lbs at 9% b.f. I am trying to get to 280 so I can compete at the national level.

The one thing I left out is that she is smoking hot. My problem is that I feel torn between being sexy with her(I loose that sexy GQ look in the off season), or obtaining my dream of a pro card, be it for a day. I have asked that she give me some time, but after this I promise to stay in the kind of shape that every woman cums over....for ever(as long as I am walking).

The weird part is that she always tells me how handsome and gorgeous she thinks I am, but I find it hard to believ because I have seen how I can look. Give me some of your takes on my situation.

Thanks

Serenity

 

[PHATchik]

I don't think you should worry about it. If she understands AAS and your goals and supports you in them, then there is no reason to believe that he ropinion of you or the sport will change. Don't try and find doubts. It won't help. Just accept that she seems to understand and doesn't care. I'm sure she will support you no matter what you do.

 

[Pamela]

If she supports you,
you better hang onto her...

 

[68GT350]

Have a little faith and a lot of appreciation.

 

[Zerxes]

What is your thought on dating "competitve" bodybuilders, and I am not talking about the male stripper look year long; I am talking about hard core olympia bound muscle heads, Let me explain:

I am engaged to my high school sweet heart. She is the first girl I was ever "with" and will be the last. We met when I was 17, I had just gotten hooked on bodybuilding, I went from a lanky 6' 160lbs to 195 in 6 months. She never knew me before bodybuilding. At that I had the whole natural Frank Sepe playgirl model thing going for me, but of course that was not my goal I wanted to be bigger.

So I introduced her to aas and did not hide anything from her(lies ruin everything). She has always been very supportive and enthusiastic about my goals. I have slowly climbed the latter of success and I plan to continue to do so. I am currently 21 and 260lbs at 9% b.f. I am trying to get to 280 so I can compete at the national level.

The one thing I left out is that she is smoking hot. My problem is that I feel torn between being sexy with her(I loose that sexy GQ look in the off season), or obtaining my dream of a pro card, be it for a day. I have asked that she give me some time, but after this I promise to stay in the kind of shape that every woman cums over....for ever(as long as I am walking).

The weird part is that she always tells me how handsome and gorgeous she thinks I am, but I find it hard to believ because I have seen how I can look. Give me some of your takes on my situation.

Thanks

Serenity

She sounds like a good girl brother. I will throw you this piece of advice being the eternal pecimist I am though...WATCH OUT who you share your AAS usage info with! I have heard HORROR STORIES from guys just like you, who in some way spited a girl similar to the one you descibed, and one phone call to the Cops, and one house-raid later, they were sitting in a jail cell. I know that you want to be open & honest with her(I was the same way with most girls I have been with), but you don't need to arm ANYONE with ammo that could come back & haunt you in the future. I have had a girl call my friggin Mom on me once, and tell her that I'm out of my mind on steroids. Try expaining that shit to a panicky Mom, who believes the first negative thing she hears. The Cops would've been easier. Just a piece of advice from a guy who is alot older & wiser than you bro....Hell hath no fury....Be good to that girl!

 

[Serenity Head]

Re: Re: Ladies, give me an honest opinion...

She sounds like a good girl brother. I will throw you this piece of advice being the eternal pecimist I am though...WATCH OUT who you share your AAS usage info with! I have heard HORROR STORIES from guys just like you, who in some way spited a girl similar to the one you descibed, and one phone call to the Cops, and one house-raid later, they were sitting in a jail cell. I know that you want to be open & honest with her(I was the same way with most girls I have been with), but you don't need to arm ANYONE with ammo that could come back & haunt you in the future. I have had a girl call my friggin Mom on me once, and tell her that I'm out of my mind on steroids. Try expaining that shit to a panicky Mom, who believes the first negative thing she hears. The Cops would've been easier. Just a piece of advice from a guy who is alot older & wiser than you bro....Hell hath no fury....Be good to that girl!

I thank God I have her everyday in my life. I try to teat her the best I can...In fact, we have never said goodnight without resolving the problems we have together. I am definetly ine of the lucky ones.

She is also very supportive of my school work, which is very important to me(I am going to medical school), yet with every free moment I have I am always with her.

Thanks guys

Serenity

 

[Bikini Mod]

Serenity... May I just say how JEALOUS I am of you and your girl and the relationship you share?

No, no jealousy is the WRONG WORD...

ADMIRATION, yes, that is more suitable. Honesty is always the best policy when it comes to a close relationship. I hope for all that is good in the universe that you two continue to have a strong relationship.... And IF there ever comes a time that you two part ways - I TTULY HOPE THAT IT WILL BE AS FRIENDS!

 

[TEXgrl]

if she truly loves you, she will support you through it all. love isn't about how you look. its how you feel.

 

[HG Pennypacker]

I would look into wearing a beret. That has always worked well for me.

 

[Serenity Head]

I would look into wearing a beret. That has always worked well for me.