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What went wrong?
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ksharp01 said:
So briefly, what are your expectations *cough* demands *cough* in a relationship?
ksharp01
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alien amp pharm said:
Well, in a nutshell....a relationship that is more even. In this one I did ALL the giving and got nothing in return....NOTHING<NADA!!!!
I don't NEED a man but I sure like having one to spend my time with. I paid ALL the bills, me and son did ALL the chores......I had trouble even getting him to put the garbage out once a week...very lazy!!
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ksharp01 said:
that's what a woman and kid are for. don't blame the dude, dude.
and, please, for the love of twinkies, when some asshelmet starts e-flirting with you, just ignore it. he'll stop. and that will make me happy.
and that's all that counts.
btw, can i borrow some money? unemployment check hasn't arrived yet.
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jackangel said:
Now I am not complaining of working myself.....I work full time, bring home the bacon and cook it. That would be fine but I don't even get emotional support.....NOTHING!!!
Our days was starting to consist of me coming home and when I walk in door, see him on tv playing playstation, I throw something in the oven, do some laudry. Feed the fish and dog and just pick up shit that needs to be picked up...if dinner is done then I take it out, make everyone plates and head off to gym. If not done I set the timer and beau would have to pull himself away from game to turn oven off.
Come home from gym, eat if I hadn't yet..take shower. Watch tv and fall asleep alone. Wake up to him allot of times with game on, remote in hand and hearing him snore!
MEN!!! I had given him lots of opportunities to step up to the plate...and he never would.
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blueta2 said:
I think your right!
It's very tough at first but at least I had some prep time to slowly accept it before he was comletely moved.
I am starting to sleep better, eating a little better and even made myself go play poker with the gang. Felt good to get out and be around friends. and I even made it to the final table...didn't place in the money which would of been even better
Going to gym today to get him removed from my account and forward his mail (he would never do it)
I didn't think the gym would do that for me but I offered to renew now with my contract...that's 40.00 bucks off. 40 bucks is 40 bucks!
He only went 1 week anyway!
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ksharp01 said:I think your right!
It's very tough at first but at least I had some prep time to slowly accept it before he was comletely moved.
I am starting to sleep better, eating a little better and even made myself go play poker with the gang. Felt good to get out and be around friends. and I even made it to the final table...didn't place in the money which would of been even better
Going to gym today to get him removed from my account and forward his mail (he would never do it)
I didn't think the gym would do that for me but I offered to renew now with my contract...that's 40.00 bucks off. 40 bucks is 40 bucks!
He only went 1 week anyway!
do his address change online. www.usps.com
Its easy...You can even order him some free magazines to be mailed to his new residence. hahahhaah
feisty11975
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ksharp01 said:I don't know his new address right now so since I already had to go to post office to mail something off I was gonna pick up one of those cards.
Feeling better today?
a lil bit but not completely over it. I am still hurting.
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superdave said:
I was like most women I guess, just hoping he would step up to the plate and do something. I told him I really resent the fact that he can now pay to live on own but couldn't ever seem to help me. He had NEVER helped pay for one bill...some of the extra stuff and groceries but not much.
Things didn't get this bad over night, it was a progression that happened over time...I have decided that I didn't want to wait another 8 years and then do it..the time would have to be now. Lord knows I am not getting any younger and I already knew in my heart that I was just delaying the inevitable
Still Sucks!
jackangel
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ksharp01 said:
holy shit, you *made* everyone plates? do you have a kiln at home? or did you make them out of cardboard, wood? damn, that's a lot of work every single day.
why not just use premade plates? you can buy them in many stores. at the end of the meal, don't break them or throw them away. that should save you lots of time.
or you could even buy cheap paper plates which you *can* throw away.
poor guy, getting the blame just because you were busy making plates.
feisty11975
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jackangel said:
You suck!! smartass!
ksharp01 said:
Sounds like my current marriage ; only difference he makes more money than I do so I suck it up most of the time and just pick up after his lazy ass. Your ex sounds exactly like my hubby at the home.
I get home from work ; he's playing playstation ; he might give me a couple of grunts while not looking away from the TV ; then when he does get away from the tv; he spends most of the time in the garage not working on anything ; smoking cigerettes and watching TV out there! Then I fall asleep ; we dont see each other in the mornings and if I do he is grouchy as hell!!
He makes no effort to get along w/ me and I think he could care less! at least you are not stuck like me haha!!!!
I hope no one I know is reading this because i dont like to say bad things about him to our mutual friends/family.
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superdave said:
I have good and bad moments....I do good as long as I keep myself busy. If I am at home alone it will get to me because I have never said I didn't love him anymore. I just feel like I was selling myself short.
I am just trying to think positive and did some small things around the house to make it feel real....like putting clothes in the dresser he uses...and in the closet he used. lol
Moved some things around to give everything a different "feel"
