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KAYNE
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I WANT TO HAVE A SON AND NAME HIM FUCKER. I'VE ALWAYS WANTED TO SCREAM OUT "COME HERE FUCKER"!!!
JK....DONT HAVE ANY.
KAYNE
JK....DONT HAVE ANY.
KAYNE
Big Johnson
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I do. Nothing in life seems to have more value than a good marriage and several children.
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madbomber31
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i do.. i'm around them all day... i want a daughter... i'd like a son too, but i'd love to have a daughter.
however, i need to start getting laid far more often or i'll have no children.. and i'll end up with blue balls.
however, i need to start getting laid far more often or i'll have no children.. and i'll end up with blue balls.
Imnotdutch
butler monkey
I don't have any and am not planning too.........I'm not sure that I want to be responsible for bringing a kid into this fucked up world.
c-sharp minor
Well-known member
Imnotdutch said:
I agree with you 100%.
That being said, my g/f has a 13 y/o son.
Taps
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I think it's a huge sign of maturity when you admit you don't want children.
How many kids are born to fucked up parents? Any two idiots out there can make a kid...and many do. Too many.
I know for a fact I'm too immature and too irresponsable to be a father
I have a lot of respect for partents who do their damn job. It just seems to me that so many of them suck...they just shouldn't have kids, period. I'm smart/mature enough to realize I shouldn't procreate; in that reguard I think I'm smarter than most people.
Then again, maybe 5-10 years down the road, I'll feel differently. Doubt it though.
How many kids are born to fucked up parents? Any two idiots out there can make a kid...and many do. Too many.
I know for a fact I'm too immature and too irresponsable to be a father
I have a lot of respect for partents who do their damn job. It just seems to me that so many of them suck...they just shouldn't have kids, period. I'm smart/mature enough to realize I shouldn't procreate; in that reguard I think I'm smarter than most people.
Then again, maybe 5-10 years down the road, I'll feel differently. Doubt it though.
Delinquent
Well-known member
I'm way too selfish right now to divert my time and money to a kid. I have bene out of the southeast maybe twice and haven't even been out of the country at all. There are things that I want to do before being tied down. I'm getting married in May but kids aren't even part of the equation for a long time. I want to get my gym up and running before then. Plus we have three dogs which are enough for us. And with dogs, if they ever fuck up real bad, you can always give them away
Puddles
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I agree that too many people who have kids really shouldn't have had them. It's a huge responsibility. I wish more people would be responsible enough to realize what all it takes before they just do it.
I always wanted kids though...ever since I was a little girl. We only have one and we treasure her. The world is fucked up, but, by raising a child well, teaching them good values, and giving them everything you've got, that just helps to make the world a better place for future generations. For me, being a parent is one of the best things in life.
I always wanted kids though...ever since I was a little girl. We only have one and we treasure her. The world is fucked up, but, by raising a child well, teaching them good values, and giving them everything you've got, that just helps to make the world a better place for future generations. For me, being a parent is one of the best things in life.
Big Johnson said:
Amen.
The other night my mother told me...
"No matter if you win the World's Strongest Man contest someday...it will not mean near as much as the tiniest thing that one of your children do in their life..."
B True
I don't have any kids..
When I was in my early twenties I knew I didn't want any.
I doesn't have anything to do with being selfish.
I realized how much responsibility it was going to be and
I decided it wasn't for me..
People who have children and raise them and do a good job
I applaud you..
Cause I believe it's the hardest job around.
When I was in my early twenties I knew I didn't want any.
I doesn't have anything to do with being selfish.
I realized how much responsibility it was going to be and
I decided it wasn't for me..
People who have children and raise them and do a good job
I applaud you..
Cause I believe it's the hardest job around.
Bigsatan13
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Pamela said:Do you want to have kids when you get married and
settle down?
And If so why?
And if you had kids already why did you have them?
Mrs. Satan and I planned on having children when we got married. We have a great daughter that has exceeded our expectations. When I look at her it's like looking in the mirror, except less facial hair. She has my mannerisms down pact.
Why did we have her? She was made from our love for each other.
Girl(9) and a boy(7), when I get home I sometimes stop by their rooms and watch them sleep and still well up in tears out of love for them. I've wanted kids for as long as I can remember and I had them young. My wife is older and says she's raised 3 kids, I think shes right.
If you have the slightest doubts, don't do it because you feel you have too.
If you have the slightest doubts, don't do it because you feel you have too.
gimp
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I NEVER wanted children. I cringed at the idea. But, now that I've been very happily married for 5 years now, I want them. Things change when you settle down, I spend alot of time with my niece and I feel like a big kid when I'm around her, she's only 14 months old and I look like a big idiot talking to her in baby talk, I'm all tattooed and about 245 lbs walking around talking to this little girl...LOL
vinylgroover
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Pamela said:
And you would have made such a great mother too........a great example and role model.
I would like to have children........finding a good woman to have them with is the challenge
toga22
SideShow Freak
I don't know if a parent can explain what makes children so special, because it is so hard to describe feelings....
Maybe children are so special because of the way their eyes light up when they are happy, and when they smile it seems as if their whole body is glowing with excitement.
And I don't think any parent can explain the feeling, of coming home from work after a hard day, and having your child race towards you with open arms to give you a hug.
Or the feeling of having a baby/child fall asleep in your arms. Or watching your children play, as they pretend to be just like you...
Parents give their children many things in their lifetime, but I guarntee you that is repaid 10-fold.
Maybe children are so special because of the way their eyes light up when they are happy, and when they smile it seems as if their whole body is glowing with excitement.
And I don't think any parent can explain the feeling, of coming home from work after a hard day, and having your child race towards you with open arms to give you a hug.
Or the feeling of having a baby/child fall asleep in your arms. Or watching your children play, as they pretend to be just like you...
Parents give their children many things in their lifetime, but I guarntee you that is repaid 10-fold.
circusgirl
New member
No.
For ages I thought I really wanted to have kids, 3 of them. I even had thought of names for them.
As it happens, I don't have the option - I'm on fairly strong meds for manic depression, and I'd have to come off them for pregnancy, something which my doc would not advise.
But I've realised I don't want to have kids. I'm crap around them. I'd make a great science teacher in high school. But no-one wants a science teacher for a parent lol. I'd be worried and traumatised every second of the day that they were going to get hurt or something and drive them bats making them wear their helmets when skateboarding. I'd probably not have such a good relationship with them as I'd be a strict parent, rather than a "good buddy".
The stress of not having any time to myself any more would drive me nuts too, and I think I might end up abusive like my dad, and I don't want to risk that. Plus I could pass on my manic depressive genes to my offspring, soemthign I wouldn't wish on anyone... I'd hate to be in "enforcement mode" all the time, having to watch my mouth all the time (I swear a lot, but try not to around kids), etc, I need space to myself, as my job takes a lot of work.
Finally, I know I would have to give up things like martial arts, as it takes so much time, going out with my friends etc. I was very unhappy and ill for 25 years and I'm only now starting to enjoy life as a twentysomething. If in 10 eyars time I change my mind I will go for fostering or adoption of kids from abused homes - I think with my experience of mental illness I could do a lot to help them recover from their experiences... but not for the moment.
For ages I thought I really wanted to have kids, 3 of them. I even had thought of names for them.
As it happens, I don't have the option - I'm on fairly strong meds for manic depression, and I'd have to come off them for pregnancy, something which my doc would not advise.
But I've realised I don't want to have kids. I'm crap around them. I'd make a great science teacher in high school. But no-one wants a science teacher for a parent lol. I'd be worried and traumatised every second of the day that they were going to get hurt or something and drive them bats making them wear their helmets when skateboarding. I'd probably not have such a good relationship with them as I'd be a strict parent, rather than a "good buddy".
The stress of not having any time to myself any more would drive me nuts too, and I think I might end up abusive like my dad, and I don't want to risk that. Plus I could pass on my manic depressive genes to my offspring, soemthign I wouldn't wish on anyone... I'd hate to be in "enforcement mode" all the time, having to watch my mouth all the time (I swear a lot, but try not to around kids), etc, I need space to myself, as my job takes a lot of work.
Finally, I know I would have to give up things like martial arts, as it takes so much time, going out with my friends etc. I was very unhappy and ill for 25 years and I'm only now starting to enjoy life as a twentysomething. If in 10 eyars time I change my mind I will go for fostering or adoption of kids from abused homes - I think with my experience of mental illness I could do a lot to help them recover from their experiences... but not for the moment.
