is this the cure for a broken heart....

[satchboogie]

was wondering if i can feel better about our break up if i start dating a lot of girls..

havent been in these shoes for years.

thanks

 

[Code]

Try furious masterbation.
It's always helped Tuc get over it when PoyeBoy cheats on him.

 

[Lestat]

new girls definitely serve as a good distraction.. but can also cause you to reflect on your ex by comparing them to her.. or noticing how they don't know you as well as her...

just staying active and busy with friends, work, hobbies, etc is the best way to dull the pain.

 

[Paulo]

yeah, there is that adage about getting under/getting over. could be some truth to it.

 

[BrandonXJ]

for temporary relief I've found Jack or Jim works best.

 

[SoreArms]

was wondering if i can feel better about our break up if i start dating a lot of girls..

havent been in these shoes for years.

thanks

it's like a bandaid over the wound, but it will not heal it. Only time and a strong mind will help that.

 

[satchboogie]

new girls definitely serve as a good distraction.. but can also cause you to reflect on your ex by comparing them to her.. or noticing how they don't know you as well as her...

just staying active and busy with friends, work, hobbies, etc is the best way to dull the pain.

thanks man.. makes sense.

 

[strongsmartsexy]

was wondering if i can feel better about our break up if i start dating a lot of girls..

havent been in these shoes for years.

thanks

Dude! Spend some time with yourself first. Get used to being with you and feeling in total with yourself. You will have to do it anyway, even if you spend a lot of time roller coastering through a lot of gals, in the end you'll still have to do it.

 

[WODIN]

Massive amounts of hot booty my good man.

 

[chewyxrage]

Dude! Spend some time with yourself first. Get used to being with you and feeling in total with yourself. You will have to do it anyway, even if you spend a lot of time roller coastering through a lot of gals, in the end you'll still have to do it.

that's some good advice

 

[Gambino]

new girls definitely serve as a good distraction.. but can also cause you to reflect on your ex by comparing them to her.. or noticing how they don't know you as well as her...

just staying active and busy with friends, work, hobbies, etc is the best way to dull the pain.

Lestat speaks the truth...I'm kinda heart hurting as well, I went out and shagged some little hotty thinking I would feel better...I felt a lot worse. Personally, I think remaining single for a while is the best way to start anew...

 

[bran987]

yes, when you start dating again is when you'll stop obsessing over an ex.

when you meet someone new and figure out your ex wasn't the cutest, funniest, nicest, most irreplacable girl in the world, you'll realize you're going to be just fine moving on.. just like everyone said even though you didn't believe them

 

[Deleted member 33117]

There is noting like finding a couple of new girls to take your mind off of her. If you were really in love with her, it will take time to get over, but it definately happens faster if you are not alone and dwelling on it.

 

[PIGEON-RAT]

if you think scientifically about it, your attraction to her is based on the release of a chemical in your brain that is associated with her image. you need to associate that chemical with another girl's image to get over it. and the only way you're gonna do that is by goin out and meeting other girls. just keep a cool head about it and don't try all the comparing bullshit. focus on the now and the future and don't let the past interfere.

 

[Buddy_Christ]

for temporary relief I've found Jack or Jim works best.

Drink some Jack then eat some Jill

 

[Spartacus]

for temporary relief I've found Jack or Jim works best.

yeah drinking is a great hobby to have for times such as these

 

[AAP]

was wondering if i can feel better about our break up if i start dating a lot of girls..

havent been in these shoes for years.

thanks

Want to hear the flip side of the coin? It is the WORST thing you can do.

Because you will have many endless and empty dates where you will feel shitty afterwards because you cheapened yourself. Every girl you date will have a flaw you will quickly seize upon it and note to yourself just how badly she "measures up" to your ex and that will make you want your ex back even more. Then you will be in the process of hurting the girls feelings when you don't return calls and shit. Then they come over and want the gifts back they bought you on the second date (at least all mine did). Then they cut your tires...

Time in love x 2 = amount of time it takes to get over your ex.

 

[SoKlueles]

True, I went out on a date with this guy, trying to get over the ex.and everything I saw reminded me of the prick....I dont know, i havent really dated in years.....having to start it now and hating the ex more and more for it too
and no, sex is not a good thing to have...cuz u feel like crap afterwards too

 

[AAP]

True, I went out on a date with this guy, trying to get over the ex.and everything I saw reminded me of the prick....I dont know, i havent really dated in years.....having to start it now and hating the ex more and more for it too
and no, sex is not a good thing to have...cuz u feel like crap afterwards too

True.

The best thing to help me get over an ex is to break some of their things. I usually wait until they are at work and then I drive over and crawl in a window and smash things until I have to start to smile and chuckle. You should see the splinters in my hands from breaking Stickly furniture.

Another thing I like to do is take scissors and cut up all their clothes except the two shirts I bought them. Then they are forced to wear those same two shirts for the next two weeks until payday comes and hear all their friends and co-workers say "hey nice shirt, isn't that the one AAP bought you? How is he by the way?" that usually warms up my little black heart.

ex lovers... sigh... they never really know the type of person I am until we break up....

 

[Deus Ex Machina]

Another thing I like to do is take scissors and cut up all their clothes except the two shirts I bought them. Then they are forced to wear those same two shirts for the next two weeks until payday comes and hear all their friends and co-workers say "hey nice shirt, isn't that the one AAP bought you? How is he by the way?" that usually warms up my little black heart.

ex lovers... sigh... they never really know the type of person I am until we break up....

LOL that's gold.

Does your ex still follow you?

 

[strongsmartsexy]

True.

The best thing to help me get over an ex is to break some of their things. I usually wait until they are at work and then I drive over and crawl in a window and smash things until I have to start to smile and chuckle. You should see the splinters in my hands from breaking Stickly furniture.

Another thing I like to do is take scissors and cut up all their clothes except the two shirts I bought them. Then they are forced to wear those same two shirts for the next two weeks until payday comes and hear all their friends and co-workers say "hey nice shirt, isn't that the one AAP bought you? How is he by the way?" that usually warms up my little black heart.

ex lovers... sigh... they never really know the type of person I am until we break up....

Sick! But VERY damn funny!

 

[PHATchik]

Time my friend. It doesn't happen quickly or easily, but it happens. Don't close any doors and say you don't want to get involved, but don't start looking for anything. That's silly and won't work out. Let it happen naturally. When you stop wallowing in your misery and reliving the relationship (damn hard to do I've discovered), you open up a whole new view of life. ANd trust me, it's not such a bad thing.

 

[AAP]

LOL that's gold.

Does your ex still follow you?

He is still around, but he doesn't make a concentrate effort to be around me anymore. I think he has pretty much resigned himself to the fact that I ain't acknowledging his existence, let alone even talking to him or entertaining (god forbid) the thought of taking him back. I think that in the beginning he was hanging around in the belief that I would have a weak moment and he would handily be "available" for me to take him back. Then I met my current partner and he sort of hung around thinking that it would be a temporary thing and not last, but it has. So he sees that I don't glance backwards in his direction at all so he seems to have dealt with it. If I run into him at the beach, he still stares, but he doesn't do the shit like move over to sit a few feet away from me.

 

[SoKlueles]

so AAP, your gay right? I work with a girl and she is a lesbian and she says she has a "gay radar" she knows when she sees a gay girl.....but the thing that bugs me, she says that i am "bi curious" anyhoo is the gay radar a true thing?

 

[AAP]

so AAP, your gay right? I work with a girl and she is a lesbian and she says she has a "gay radar" she knows when she sees a gay girl.....but the thing that bugs me, she says that i am "bi curious" anyhoo is the gay radar a true thing?

Yes, gaydar exists.

But I ain't gay so I don't really know.

 

[SoKlueles]

lol ok i was just curious cuz i dont wanna be bi sexual

 

[AAP]

lol ok i was just curious cuz i dont wanna be bi sexual

You ain't. Not even a blip on my radar. I pick up queer girls too.

Thing is, I would love to trade my gaydar for an idiotdar. Boy, that would have saved me some pain in the past.

 

[avenirup]

New Pussy!

 

[hamstershaver]

the prick.... and hating the ex more and more

lol

 

[Spartacus]

Want to hear the flip side of the coin? It is the WORST thing you can do.



Time in love x 2 = amount of time it takes to get over your ex.

wrong time in love equals .5 the amonut of time spent in the realtionship,to "get over it"..if the relationship was marriage its .25(e.g. if you wre married 20 years it will supposedly take you 5 years to get over it)..another formula while we are on the subject.thats works well is the youngest women you can date...take your age and divide by 2 and add 7..so a 40 year old such as myslef shouldn't bother with those belowe 26,but hey if they give you their number,go for it...

 

[GoldenDelicious]

dont masturbate, all it will do is make you feel pathetic. think about it. youre at home masturbating, she's out in some new guys apartment fucking.

i am exploding over here, my breakup was months ago, and i have yet to find a girl who i think is hot enough for me to say 'ok, lets do it'

AAP youre a funny bastard i have to say stealing all the colognes except the one you gave them would be a nice add on

 

[c-sharp minor]

Dude! Spend some time with yourself first. Get used to being with you and feeling in total with yourself. You will have to do it anyway, even if you spend a lot of time roller coastering through a lot of gals, in the end you'll still have to do it.

That's my plan. Starting to enjoy being alone, surprisingly enough. Though, I have always been somewhat of a loner by nature.

Good post.