is personal info fair game if it is posted for all to see?

[mrplunkey]

i think that a certain group of people should be separated from another certain group of people.

And silver and i should date.

Or frisky.

Or raina.

or rnch.

mo?

 

[manny78]

I think that a certain group of people should be separated from another certain group of people.

And Silver and I should date.

Or Frisky.

Or Raina.

Or Rnch.

 

[Bikini Mod]

imho i didn't relate bino's original post to HH at all. i thought he was talking about bikini mom... that chick posted up her entire life looking for an outlet (like the rest of us do) or some insight. that chick took a beating for a long time. she toughed it out and became mod. like i said in other posts/threads. shit talk helps weed out the good and bad.

Believe it or not I do understand Bino's question and to be honest, I didn't think for a second he was talking about me (for a change LOL). I also believe that Stiletto and BRR did a more than adequate job of answering his question.

Mustang and Ylfiter (Good to see you again Ylifter! How you and the family doing? ) with all due respect because ya'll brought me into this thread I will address the issue.

The interesting twist to MY entire story is that TO THIS DAY I encounter women - professional, boring, ho-hum, non fitness model/bikini model women who had THE SAME THING happen to them (regarding custody and their children) and guess what? NO ONE EVER TELLS ANYBODY BECAUSE OF THE STIGMA OF SHAME... Everyone automatically assumes (just as I did once back in the day) that not even crackwhores lose custody of their kids so SURELY she must have done something pretty heinous in order for her to lose it.

I thought I was alone, that shit like this only happened TO ME. I was hung out to dry like nobody's business all over the web. I think my favorite was those that wished me death before I ever got to see my girls again. Why? To this day, I don't get it. Anyways, all those that made fun of me, called me vile names and outright LAUGHED when I posted up about my family's suffering (yup - my ex's abuse extended to ANY family or friend who was brave enough to TRY to help me) where are they now?... AND WHERE AM I?

People have been to my home. Hell, my husband and I invited the whole damned site here. And those that came saw that my husband and I are very kind, normal, decent human beings. They saw a lot, but I also hid a lot. I am good at pulling it all together to hide my severe depression from others, all except my husband who has remained by my side steadfast and unwaivering. He has waited nearly 2 years for me to finally become the woman that I struggled to be all these years - strong, confident, bright, charismatic, charming yet totally empathetic and approachable.

I hope that this will be the LAST childless weekend that we spend again for a very VERY long time and so does my Old Grump. Everything we do, we do for OUR KIDS.

Now why did we share our story?

1. So that others who came across similar circumstances wouldn't feel so alientated and alone.

2. Others who knew people who were living with such a nightmare could gain perspective.

3. So that I could have a release. I had NO ONE ELSE to talk to. To this day ya'll have NO IDEA (a couple of male board members who have their children kept from them have a great deal, but still they are NOT mothers) what it is like to be forced to live life without your children knowing the whole time they are being abused and you can do NOTHING to protect/save them... now go ahead, put on a happy face and go out into the world!

Bottom line for me is this. I did a LOT of self-modding. Which on the one hand was good. I became less defensive (I was so used to being on the defensive I didn't even realize how far up my back had become). But on the other hand (I feel) because I keep so many of the details of my life hidden (details that everyone else can share without fear of retribution and ridicule) I did feel very alienated from elite for a long time.

The chat board has FINALLY become the place that I had hoped it could become all along. I am pleased to be a part of elite. All those who got off on messing with people and who just SCREAMED negativity (whether obviously or more subtly) are gone or will be gone... and as I have said a thousand times, NO ONE GIVES A FAT RAT'S ASS.

I've nothing more to say about the matter, except that on 26SEP08 my ex will nail his pathetic low-life scurge of the earth abusive piece of shit self to the wall... and my children and I will FINALLY get the peace that we deserve. I fully intend to return from this trip with AT LEAST one of my girls and have ZERO DOUBT that I will have the other three no later than year's end (or shortly thereafter - the holidays slows the process sadly for the kids)... just as soon as the shrink gets a hold of the ex AND the kids. Or who knows? My childsupport money (I pay him double what he EVER paid me which means I HAVE THE BIGGEST COCK) might not be enough to fund another attorney once he realizes "Oh shit, Judge Kieser has been removed and now I actually have to come up with a cohesive arguement and documented evidence to back my allegations"... maybe that money won't be enough to fund another legal battle and he might *just* give up.

Not likely... but hey, a girl can dream can't she? LOL