Is it morally wrong to use someone for sex?

[Taps]

Say someone really, really likes you and you just kinda go along with it...just to get some play. How much of a scumbag would that make you? I'm pretty sure it's bad karma, but it's not like you'll be going to hell or anything.

Opinions?

 

[tuc biscuit]

you will get payback with all the whining and harping on that ensues when you tell him/her you are tired of them and never wish to lay eyes on them again

 

[Gymgurl]

I would say that it is wrong if it is not a mutual use. If it is one sided then it makes you a scumbag.

 

[hamstershaver]

always and i repeat ALWAYS hit the kitty any chance you ever get

 

[SoKlueles]

coming from u is not a shock

 

[hamstershaver]

coming from u is not a shock

arent you the one that has a i need a sex buddy thread?????

 

[SoKlueles]

yeah but if i had a partner.....I wouldnt have one but the truckdriver is good looking

 

[westsnoop]

What makes sex different than useing somone for money, power, popularity, etc.? Of course it makes you a scumbag. Pretense to get what you want at the expense of others is corrupt.

 

[SoKlueles]

I think if they know ur using them thats diff.......cuz they are using u too....

 

[pumpithard]

klueles I hope your gonna use me

 

[WODIN]

I wanna be a fuck buddy!! LOL!!

 

[SoKlueles]

we have discussed this!!!!!!!where u been?

 

[WODIN]

LOL!!! Watching football, getting mowed down by my kids, etc....



I only get on AIM on the weekends if I'm lucky.

 

[SoKlueles]

ahhhhhh ok

 

[Gymgurl]

WODIN........show us your package please

 

[SoKlueles]

amen sistah!!!!!!!and a nice one it must be....

 

[Athos]

I use myself for sex.

I feel so cheap.

 

[jubei]

Do you really need to ask? It depends on your own personal moral code.

 

[SoKlueles]

I use myself for sex.

I feel so cheap.

5 dollas? 5 dollas?

 

[tia373]

The guilt you are expressing says how wrong it is. Mean, stupid, I wouldnt want to be in your shoes cause you will get it back threefold. Especially posting the question where femmes can see it.

However if youve got to- then let her know what it is- that it is just to get a good squirt- like going to the bathroom. If she still wants to do it- the onus is likely on her for being a wet noodle.

Say someone really, really likes you and you just kinda go along with it...just to get some play. How much of a scumbag would that make you? I'm pretty sure it's bad karma, but it's not like you'll be going to hell or anything.

Opinions?

 

[tia373]

Would you broaden that to Hamsters as well as kitties?
roosters, sheep?

always and i repeat ALWAYS hit the kitty any chance you ever get

 

[ElvisP]

Ive hooked up plenty when all I wanted was a fuck. I let them know up front. You gotta be honest man.

 

[Taps]

Re: Re: Is it morally wrong to use someone for sex?

The guilt you are expressing says how wrong it is. Mean, stupid, I wouldnt want to be in your shoes cause you will get it back threefold. Especially posting the question where femmes can see it.

However if youve got to- then let her know what it is- that it is just to get a good squirt- like going to the bathroom. If she still wants to do it- the onus is likely on her for being a wet noodle.

I think this is strictly a male issue. I doubt a woman has ever said "I love you" just becuase she's horny and wants to get laid.
And from my strictly male perspective, using someone for sex isn't really all that bad. Every guy I know would love to be used as a sex object.

Anyway, I agree with you -- it's wrong to decieve someone for personal satisfaction. Acutally, I only understand the first paragraph, but I catch the jist of what you're saying. `

thanks for your input