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Pinky Girl

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I was wondering how many girls were letting their BF go to the strip clubs. If you are letting them, are they allowed to touch the girls. What do you think about this?

Ang guys, same thing, are you letting your GF go to the male strip clubs?

And what do you think about this: my BF doesnt want to go with me to the strip club to see other girls... Whats wrong with going to those places with your GF??? Any answers?

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OK, my BF wanted me to edit this thread cause the facts arent all there... Sorry, they are to me: you dont want to come to a strip club with me cause youre too shy and are afraid of..... I dont know what...!
"Is this better honey...?!?"
 
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First off, you are not allowed to touch the strippers. They can touch you, but you have to keep your hands off them.

Second... What's the harm in having a little pussy flashed in your face? I mean, it's ridiculous to be in a relationship that has so much jealousy that having a little harmless fun, and getting pussy flashed in your face... or dick for that matter, is even an issue. Why are people so controlling of one's they love or care for? If you love each other, a beautiful pussy or a 10 inch dick doesn't change the way you feel for the other person. It's harmless fun.

I don't see any harm in strip clubs... for either party.
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First off, we CAN touch strippers here :P
lol
And I dont mind if my girl friends would want to go to male strips club, if shes going with her friends to have fun.. but I surely dont want to go there with them!! hehe
But i dont think girls can touch male strippers.... so..
dont know with that..
 
I have nothing against strippers. I just think those who spend 2-3 days a week there are a bit lame. Anyway it can be a nice way to have some fun between guys, especially if you're planning going out somewhere else after..... About a girl going to see other girls at a strip club ? no hay problema senor ! And if you leave with some senorita then its even better ! :p
 
Crazier said:
Second... What's the harm in having a little pussy flashed in your face? I mean, it's ridiculous to be in a relationship that has so much jealousy that having a little harmless fun, and getting pussy flashed in your face... or dick for that matter, is even an issue. Why are people so controlling of one's they love or care for? If you love each other, a beautiful pussy or a 10 inch dick doesn't change the way you feel for the other person. It's harmless fun.

I don't see any harm in strip clubs... for either party.
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That's nice, only guys are responding and of course, they are all for seeing a little naked girl do her show. So if you all (here I'm mostly asking Crazier and manny78) are that open in your relationship, you wouldnt mind if your GF would do the dancing and shove her pussy in other guys face...? Cause if you think it's OK for you to see other pussy, it,s OK for her to show it too..., no?

That's funny cause my BF thinks just like you, but if I just suggest to put my stuff in another guys face (for money$$$, even better...), then it isnt correct to do so.
 
Shake that ass, show me what you got!!
Try the routine at home with your man,
invite him over and do the work baby...
You both might get a kick out of it.....
 
pigginsly said:
Shake that ass, show me what you got!!
Try the routine at home with your man,
invite him over and do the work baby...
You both might get a kick out of it.....
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Oh, I did the routine for him (at home), and his jaw dropped (never got him that hard before...! :p), but he just dont want to see me on stage. Double standards or what...?
 
Nah, I possibly see his point....
If you were a dancer and then met him, then alright, nothing could be said...
It would be awkward for me to see my girl on the stage after we had been dating a while because it would just make you feel uncomfortable...
Thats me though, I love knowing in my mind that I have something that no one else can look at naked or be with unless it was going to be an event that we would both take part in an enjoy it together...
Whatever it is!!!



"I'm a model, you know what I mean and I do my little turn on the catwalk!!!"
If your feeling it then go for it....
Never hold back what you want to do, you might regret it.....
 
pigginsly said:
Nah, I possibly see his point....
If you were a dancer and then met him, then alright, nothing could be said...
It would be awkward for me to see my girl on the stage after we had been dating a while because it would just make you feel uncomfortable...
Thats me though, I love knowing in my mind that I have something that no one else can look at naked or be with unless it was going to be an event that we would both take part in an enjoy it together...
Whatever it is!!!
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Hey, dont put words in my mouth, I'm not saying I want to be a dancer, just saying it would be the same thing if i would put my pussy in another guys face. For the "event that we would both take part in an enjoy it together", well he gets a pussy in his face and I shove mine in another guys face (he enjoy and I enjoy), no...?

Please explain why it is OK for you (talking about men) to see other girls (if that is your fun) but isnt OK for her to let other guys see her (if that is her fun)?
 
Wo, Wo, Wo!!!
Maybe how I put my comment wasn't so clear....
I was just trying to give you my perspective on your situation and I guess I didn't explain myself clearly...
After all you asked the question...
I'll explain myself anyway, I do not have a judgement on whether a man should be able to go look at pussy and a girl shouldn't go look at dick or vice versa. Having a unique personality and the confidence to do the things that these women do are commendable. Not everyone has the strength or passion to do what some of these ladies love to do...
If you get your kicks from going to see the dancers, then so be it...
If you want to SHOVE your pussy in someone's face for enjoyment, then so be it...
As far as my girlfriend, don't have one.....
I have unique relations with some very genuine people...
I work in the industry and love the whole aura of open-minded
thinking...
All I was stating from your comments, was that I understand how maybe your boyfriend would feel being put in that circumstance...
Instead of some other girl putting her lovehole in front of your man's face, try this...
Have him put his cock in some other women's face and you do your thing... Then I think that it would not be a double standard...
 
All right, this is how it is on our side of things (Pauly and I):

He doesn't really care to go to strip clubs with his buds. He'll go if they want to go, but its nothing exciting for him. NO WAY IN HELL does he touch the girls, never spends money on them (only the beer), he declines lap dances, but he's not rude about it.
I never have been to a male strip club, don't care to. Why go and see a buncha horny guys swingin' their cocks around, wearin' stupid outfits, etc. etc. etc..........when I have it at home for free?? Pauly would dance for me if I asked him to! Seeing male strippers actually turns me off, I'm disgusted. Nothing against male strippers at all, but no other guys can turn me on, its just the way I feel. I could get into a WHOOOOOOOLE other story about me and guys, but thats for another thread!
Anyhoo, we go to female strip clubs together. Usually we end up making fun of half of them anyways, discreetly to ourselves. Whether it be us wondering when we're gonna see a damn stripper fall, or why 90% of the girls' bodies are out of shape! Its fun to walk up in the club with your siginificant other, we just hang out, have a few drinks, and watch whats going on around us.
2 years ago we stayed in downtown Toronto. We ended up going 2 nights in a row to Brass Rail, a pretty koo strip club. Some of the chicks there were actually hot, and I got my first lap dance. She was exotic looking, smelled nice, and she was quite normal; not puttin' on a front, talked a normal conversation. Then we decided it was time for the lap dance..............ended up spending a little too much, but she danced for us as a couple, and we ended up getting turned on! But that was about it. Knowing our confidence level is pretty high, there were other strippers checking us out. Let's just say that we basically could have gotten away with anything we wanted to if we just asked.............
But I'm not into the whole sha-bang on picking up people in bars or clubs, especially strip clubs..........thats just wrong.
 
I used to go to strip clubs a lot when I was younger. They are absolutely harmless. I don't like seeing women there other than dancers and waitresses though, to me this is strictly heterosexual man territory.

Why do women want to come in there and watch and ruin the atmosphere for the guys? A lot of them that would go would gawk at the guys and make fun of their behavior or criticize the girls for what they wear. (Like the men care!) Go to you own male-strip clubs or gay clubs.

As for women going to see male strippers, sure why not? Especially for bachelorette parties or whatever.

Just stay out of the gentlemen's clubs!
 
Pinky Girl said:

That's nice, only guys are responding and of course, they are all for seeing a little naked girl do her show. So if you all (here I'm mostly asking Crazier and manny78) are that open in your relationship, you wouldnt mind if your GF would do the dancing and shove her pussy in other guys face...?
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Apples and oranges sweetheart. I mean, really.

You are comparing going to a club, and looking at foreign pussy to, would it be okay for your girl to be a stripper?!?! Ridiculous comparison Pinky. I didn't say that while I'm at the strip club, it'd be okay to whip out my big ol' dick, nor that she could show her pin stripe at a male review.

All I said, is that sitting there and having dick or pussy flaunted in your face, while out with your friends on a rare occasion, is harmless fun. Why are you so insecure and paranoid about it!?!?
Do you think he might realize it's not supposed to smell like that??? ;)
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i really dont like the idea of my guy going there on his own (with his horny pigman friends) BUT i dont mind if we go together. :) i wanna be there to keep an eye on my guy....and the dancers...:)
 
KBgrl said:
i really dont like the idea of my guy going there on his own (with his horny pigman friends) BUT i dont mind if we go together. :) i wanna be there to keep an eye on my guy....and the dancers...:)
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Hey sweet thaaaaaang!

Do u not trust your man?
Rule #1..................NEVER trust a dancer! <<There are some pretty sneaky, snakey chicks out there!

*Note: Not direct towards anyone in particular, no need to take offense.
 
Pinky Girl said:
I was wondering how many girls were letting their BF go to the strip clubs. If you are letting them, are they allowed to touch the girls. What do you think about this?

Ang guys, same thing, are you letting your GF go to the male strip clubs?

And what do you think about this: my BF doesnt want to go with me to the strip club to see other girls... Whats wrong with going to those places with your GF??? Any answers?

****************************************

OK, my BF wanted me to edit this thread cause the facts arent all there... Sorry, they are to me: you dont want to come to a strip club with me cause youre too shy and are afraid of..... I dont know what...!
"Is this better honey...?!?"
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Ok. I dance. So I know first hand that a guy going in there isn't going to get anything other than what he pays for--a dance or whatever. NO dancer is going to think he is cute, try to talk to him, or give him her # so they can go out or anything like that. Well, most. We really don't care about they guys.
With that said, I let my b/f go....but he never wants to go by himself!!! He is shy in that aspect.....so I will go with him and if he's lucky I'll even buy him a dance. We have a really good time, I'm happy, he's happy, the dancer's happy. End of story. It's about trust and maturity.
 
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alexiarenee said:


Ok. I dance. So I know first hand that a guy going in there isn't going to get anything other than what he pays for--a dance or whatever. NO dancer is going to think he is cute, try to talk to him, or give him her # so they can go out or anything like that. Well, most. We really don't care about they guys.
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ummm...sorry alex - but I have to disagree w/you...that may be the case w/you and some of your friends, but that is definately NOT the case for others
my husband has gone into a strip club - not spent a dime on the girl and taken her home that night and fucked her(before we met of course ;),,,,friend of mine met his current g/f in a strip bar....another girl I know stripped until she met her current "sugar daddy" in the strip bar...I could go on and on about similar situations...Im not saying that this type of behavior includes all strippers and Im not saying that they are less than b/c of this - Im only saying that IT DOES HAPPEN - OFTEN!
If your man is gonna cheat - it wont matter if he's in the strip bar or at church...so quit worrying yourself about it - if you dont trust him than find one you can trust
 
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luvs2workout said:
my husband has gone into a strip club - not spent a dime on the girl and taken her home that night and fucked her
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You might want to get him checked out by a doc
 
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alexiarenee said:


Ok. I dance. So I know first hand that a guy going in there isn't going to get anything other than what he pays for--a dance or whatever. NO dancer is going to think he is cute, try to talk to him, or give him her # so they can go out or anything like that. Well, most. We really don't care about they guys.
With that said, I let my b/f go....but he never wants to go by himself!!! He is shy in that aspect.....so I will go with him and if he's lucky I'll even buy him a dance. We have a really good time, I'm happy, he's happy, the dancer's happy. End of story. It's about trust and maturity.
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Sorry, no offense, but I don't know what club in Houston you dance at, but as a fellow Houstonian - practically every guy I know has been able to get anything he wants at those clubs and every stripper I know, which is just about every other apartment in Houston - will do anything as long as a guy flashes a little bit of money at her. So saying the girls (not saying you...) won't try and talk to him or give him their number is a bunch of bullshit. One friend of ours goes to strip clubs all the time and gets phone number after phone number and takes girl after girl home. Hand jobs/bjs you name it, it happens in Houston at the majority of the clubs. You might be a "trustworthy" dancer,,, but most are not respectable.
 
i personally have been to tons of strip clubs,, and would not mind if my man went to one,, (but i highly doubt he would now that he has me) what is a dance.. he comes home to me..:)
 
bondgirl2217 said:
i personally have been to tons of strip clubs,, and would not mind if my man went to one,, (but i highly doubt he would now that he has me) what is a dance.. he comes home to me..:)
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Actually, I'm not too fond of strip clubs... I take a look at the guys that hang out there, and they are 40 year old fat bastards... it makes me feel a little uncomfortable...

Besides, I can think of 100 places I'd rather be... ONE in particular.... ;)

C
 
A good strip club is one of the greatest forms of entertainment around, kind of like Disneyland for adults. There is one I've been to in Hawaii a few times that is best described as "all-nude, full contact." Wow have I seen some great stuff in there! One night two guys came in with their g/fs and ended up seated ringside. At one point a lovely Hawaiin stripper was giving them the up close & personal and ended up with one female customer sucking on each nipple! The group soon disappeared into the back room for a private show:( :p Another girl let us do the "helicopter" move. We would fold up our dollar bills, put them through her nipple ring, wind them up until she said "stop," them let 'em fly!:angel:

Although they are fun to visit, I wouldn't want my wife performing. Its kind of like the guys who collect the garbage at my curb every week - what a wonderful service to society, but I wouldn't want to see my wife driving the truck every Thursday!

B-Mac
 
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luvs2workout said:


ummm...sorry alex - but I have to disagree w/you...that may be the case w/you and some of your friends, but that is definately NOT the case for others
my husband has gone into a strip club - not spent a dime on the girl and taken her home that night and fucked her(before we met of course ;),,,,friend of mine met his current g/f in a strip bar....another girl I know stripped until she met her current "sugar daddy" in the strip bar...I could go on and on about similar situations...Im not saying that this type of behavior includes all strippers and Im not saying that they are less than b/c of this - Im only saying that IT DOES HAPPEN - OFTEN!
If your man is gonna cheat - it wont matter if he's in the strip bar or at church...so quit worrying yourself about it - if you dont trust him than find one you can trust
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There you go. I think they're 2 categories of strippers. The professional ones: they will sometimes get laid with some clients, they're actually whores by definition. Then you have those "I'm dancing cause I need money to pay my tuition": usually they wont give a shit about the clients. They think the guys hanging there are pigs with no respect. They dont even like there job, but ya know money sometimes......
 
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luvs2workout said:


ummm...sorry alex - but I have to disagree w/you...that may be the case w/you and some of your friends, but that is definately NOT the case for others
my husband has gone into a strip club - not spent a dime on the girl and taken her home that night and fucked her(before we met of course ;),,,,friend of mine met his current g/f in a strip bar....another girl I know stripped until she met her current "sugar daddy" in the strip bar...I could go on and on about similar situations...Im not saying that this type of behavior includes all strippers and Im not saying that they are less than b/c of this - Im only saying that IT DOES HAPPEN - OFTEN!
If your man is gonna cheat - it wont matter if he's in the strip bar or at church...so quit worrying yourself about it - if you dont trust him than find one you can trust
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I believe that this is true, because I do see it happen...but NOT as often as if , say he were at a regular bar...
And as far as the last few lines of your post--RIGHT ON!!!
 
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killerass said:


Sorry, no offense, but I don't know what club in Houston you dance at, but as a fellow Houstonian - practically every guy I know has been able to get anything he wants at those clubs and every stripper I know, which is just about every other apartment in Houston - will do anything as long as a guy flashes a little bit of money at her. So saying the girls (not saying you...) won't try and talk to him or give him their number is a bunch of bullshit. One friend of ours goes to strip clubs all the time and gets phone number after phone number and takes girl after girl home. Hand jobs/bjs you name it, it happens in Houston at the majority of the clubs. You might be a "trustworthy" dancer,,, but most are not respectable.
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Well, I am bothered (and yes I say BOTHERED because most men should know that we are not in there to find a date.) by men that dont know how the whole strip club thing works everyday!!
Friday, I danced for this guy, he got 4, didnt want anymore, and I was like "ok, thanks, nice meeting you, blaj blah blah.." And he said "I cant believe you want to leave me" I told him I am here to make as much money as I can in the time I am here, not to sit and talk all day...but in a nicer way...I got up, and right away sat w/another man who gave me 7...anyway...
The day before, at the end of our dance session, this guy pulls out his cell phone (LMAO) and says "so, how do I get in touch with you?" And I say "well, call up here and ask for (my dance name )...!!!" He was like "oh, ok, you all about business.." DUH!!
Very few of my freinds at work give out there phone # , if they do most of the time its because they want the guy to call them when he'll be coming in and giving them $$$...
And VERY VERY few girls ever go home with anyone.......If this is the case, then that girl is just easy to begin with.... And what doen that say about the man???
 
BOTTOM LINE= If you cant trust your man to go out w/ his freinds and behave himself at a strip club, then you need to reevaluate your relationship. If he is going to go home with a stripper, he'll go home with a girl he meets at the mall, too...............
 
alexiarenee said:
BOTTOM LINE= If you cant trust your man to go out w/ his freinds and behave himself at a strip club, then you need to reevaluate your relationship. If he is going to go home with a stripper, he'll go home with a girl he meets at the mall, too...............
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Preach it girl!!!! You hear that Killer????
 
alexiarenee said:
BOTTOM LINE= If you cant trust your man to go out w/ his freinds and behave himself at a strip club, then you need to reevaluate your relationship. If he is going to go home with a stripper, he'll go home with a girl he meets at the mall, too...............
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damn are you doing a major in philosophy ? You're bringing some pretty good points.
 
My post was not about trust or whether or not to "let" your guy go to the clubs. It was merely pointing out the fact that not all of the girls are always all about business. (again, not all) There are many many who do hit on the guys when it was stated that they don't!

***And Jimsbbc, considering on another post you pointed out that strippers are "whores", I would like to know how you would like it if YOUR girl went to a male strip club and had a guy rub his dick and ass all over her face and chest and lap???? Watching is one thing,,, touching and rubbing is another (which is not forbidden at all clubs). If you have an S/O who is not completely comfortable with it for whatever reason, if you love them, then out of RESPECT for how it makes them feel - (guy or girl ) they should not go (whether there is trust or not.) RESPECT on how it makes the other feel should be the priority!
 
Strip clubs are fine for both guys and gals to go to, as long as they come home to their partners!:p Nothing wrong with looking at a bit of beautiful pussy or chicks staring at schlongs! BRING ON THE NUDITY!!!!
 
I have no problem with my husband going to strip clubs with his boys. I trust him and his judgment. I go see the male strippers with my friends-it is fun and harmless. As long as he comes home to me after-I don't care. You can't stop each other from going out and having fun. I think that if you are secure in your relationship and secure with yourself than it should be fine.
 
I have no problem with hubby going....

with me or without me....as mentioned above....if u have to be with your significant other 24/7 because you don't trust them...then u have a problem with your relationship....

if he's gonna cheat....then he will....doesn't matter about it being a stripper or not....more likely someone he knows from work, gym...ect...cheating isn't always about sex...maybe when you're young...but older guys are looking for attention and someone who will listen or make them feel special again....

as for me and my man....we like to go together....i luv to get my own lap dances! plus i get ideas to use at home.....:D
 
Pinky, from what you've said I think you have a good point about it seeming hypocritical.

Personally, I don't care for strip clubs. Nothing against anyone, but if a girl doesn't want to strip for me of her own freewill then I don't want her to do it. That's part of the fun of it. :)

I'd prefer if my g/f didn't go to a male strip club too, but if she didn't I wouldn't sweat it as long as it wasn't like a weekly thing.
 
Shane12 said:
Pinky, from what you've said I think you have a good point about it seeming hypocritical.

Personally, I don't care for strip clubs. Nothing against anyone, but if a girl doesn't want to strip for me of her own freewill then I don't want her to do it. That's part of the fun of it. :)

I'd prefer if my g/f didn't go to a male strip club too, but if she didn't I wouldn't sweat it as long as it wasn't like a weekly thing.
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Thanks for seeing my point Shane12 :)

But you know, it's not really a thing of "Is he going home with the stripper (cause he is too shy for that and I trust him)", it's more a thing of "I want to be unique". For the time that we have been together, he didnt went (as far as I know...) to strip clubs. So I was the only one who dance/strip for him (well, he never told me about other girls who did), first who swallowed him, first with who he experienced anal sex, ... I dont know, is it so crazy to want to be unique in that way also (not only for who you are but also for what you can/have offer your partner)?
 
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I agree with alex.........not in Indiana strippers don't do this...they can't even wear a thong out on the floor, only on stage and tits must be covered!

killerass said:


Sorry, no offense, but I don't know what club in Houston you dance at, but as a fellow Houstonian - practically every guy I know has been able to get anything he wants at those clubs and every stripper I know, which is just about every other apartment in Houston - will do anything as long as a guy flashes a little bit of money at her. So saying the girls (not saying you...) won't try and talk to him or give him their number is a bunch of bullshit. One friend of ours goes to strip clubs all the time and gets phone number after phone number and takes girl after girl home. Hand jobs/bjs you name it, it happens in Houston at the majority of the clubs. You might be a "trustworthy" dancer,,, but most are not respectable.
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alexiarenee said:

Well, I am bothered (and yes I say BOTHERED because most men should know that we are not in there to find a date.) by men that dont know how the whole strip club thing works everyday!!
Friday, I danced for this guy, he got 4, didnt want anymore, and I was like "ok, thanks, nice meeting you, blaj blah blah.." And he said "I cant believe you want to leave me" I told him I am here to make as much money as I can in the time I am here, not to sit and talk all day...but in a nicer way...I got up, and right away sat w/another man who gave me 7...anyway...
The day before, at the end of our dance session, this guy pulls out his cell phone (LMAO) and says "so, how do I get in touch with you?" And I say "well, call up here and ask for (my dance name )...!!!" He was like "oh, ok, you all about business.." DUH!!
Very few of my freinds at work give out there phone # , if they do most of the time its because they want the guy to call them when he'll be coming in and giving them $$$...
And VERY VERY few girls ever go home with anyone.......If this is the case, then that girl is just easy to begin with.... And what doen that say about the man???
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Right on! I agree girl!
 
Philly Clubs

I want to go to one in Philly or Baltimore with my boyfriend. I want to see the girls swing on the poles. Any good ones anyone can suggest?
 
Went yesterday with my GF. Was kindda funny even if the place sucked. Half of the girls were good looking, the rest shit. One thing that was worth the price: the lesbien show :p As for the rest, it can be fun to go there sometimes but there's no big deal.....
 
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