Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below
napsgear
genezapharmateuticals
domestic-supply
puritysourcelabs
UGL OZ
UGFREAK
napsgeargenezapharmateuticals domestic-supplypuritysourcelabsUGL OZUGFREAK

interracial marraiges and consequences

knight69

Banned
just some personal views, and yes i do oppose interacial dating, marraige,s, along w/affirmative action,busing,ect,,, ect,,,, ect,,,, ect,,,,







For anyone considering marrying a person with different skin color or from a different culture, there are consequences that must be taken into consideration.

First, there will be opposition and condemnation from some people in society.

Secondly, children of interracial marriages are sometimes discriminated against and teased. In fact, if you think about it, many forms we fill out give us the option to note whether we are "Black," "White," "Hispanic," "Asian," and "Other." I guess that if you are the child of an interracial marriage (and therefore, multiracial), you are "Other" (a strange way to label people).

Thirdly, people from differing cultures have unusual differences to overcome. Often, intercultural marriages, more than interracial marriages (for not all people from different cultures differ in the color of their skin), encounter greater difficulties within the relationship. Cultural practice and prejudice is often more difficult to overcome than is skin color.

Finally, as the old saying goes, when you marry the person, you marry the whole family. One must be prepared to encounter familial ostracization and condemnation.

But all of these difficulties have been encountered by Christians for almost two millennia, though often for reasons other than interracial marriage.
 
Knight as you know I am in an interracial marriage, and the only concequences I've faced is a few funny stares every now and again. I love my husband and he loves me, who cares what color our skin is. Also it's not like our heritage is so different. We celebrate all the same holidays etc and we both are Christians. My son gets so many compliments because he is bi-racial. He is GORGEOUS becuase he is both back and white. If I would have turned down my husband just becuase he was another skin color...............well that would have just been one of the biggest mistakes I could have ever made. It's so rare to find someone that love you unconditionally, why would I question it.
 
Bronzed = me :) I'm black hes white. oh and i just had that flag up :)
 
My GF is latin american.

Mestiza actually.

I'm white.

Never really had a problem.

Fonz
 
My gf is Half Filipino half white... But she looks full white with a tan.. HAd 2 ex's who were italian, 1 from Brazil.. Never had anything resembling an odd stare.. Well other than the frequent drooling gaze from other guys..They are all hot as all hell....
 
Wouldn't be a problem if people actually took the time to learn and understand, but instead we don't and therefore we fear things we don't understand.

Unfortunately, as a society, we have become lazy and it's much more convenient to stereotype. The reasons most people choose not to date or marry interacially have more to do with prejudice than it does with any cultural, social or moral values.
 
If you are dating a hot latin chick, you are very lucky man...

Black chicks are cool, I been with a couple....They are a little easier than other races....

Vietamese chicks are freaks, but are too high maintainence.

I got bored with white chicks for a while, but Im digging them again..
 
i adore mixed children...

and black women who are in good shape are absolutely breathtaking...


knight, dude... only the people with the problem are the ones discriminating... and those people are worthless.. i've never attacked you or your wife for the shit you do.. but god damn, open your mind up... you let 8 guys fuck her silly every night and thats ok.. but interracial marriage is wrong?
 
I dont ahve a problem with interracial dating, but I have a problem with dating ethnic women who act the stereotype. I guess if there is too much of a culture difference I wont do it, but it has nothing to do with skin tone per se.
 
I'm not ghetto. I get what you are saying. those type of chick embarrass me. EW!
 
I am anti diversity and pro-unity. My views and ideas aren't politically correct but I think they would create a unique and flurishing culture if put into practice.
 
Knight, how does someone else's marrage affect you? None of the "problems" you listed affect you directly or indirectly in the slightest. So what is your point exactly?

No flame, but for a guy who's as liberated as you are towards sex, you're incredibly close-minded when it comes to race.
 
BronzedGoddess said:
I'm not ghetto. I get what you are saying. those type of chick embarrass me. EW!

You know what I mean. Hispanics can also be ghetto, asian chicks can be waaay to uptight, jewish also. Etc.
 
so let me get this right night69 you are against interaccial or interethnic dating or marriage..... Are 100% a certain ethnicity or your wife??? Cause if you aren't and you disagree with i(nter-mixing) marriages then you should get a divorce... I can't change your opinion but what you believe is ignorance at its best....
 
Well, I dated a Black woman from Somalia and we did get a few stares here and there. But who gives a rats ass man!! One time, we were speaking Italian in the subway -she lived in Florence, Italy for 6 years- and heard a white woman say something like "she's taking away Italian men from us" hahaha. We worked out together and were a stunning couple. She was beautiful and the fucking sex....oh my fuckin' Lord man...the sex was to die for :p
 
my other half was born and raised in vietnam. i'm a white boy.

we've been together six years and the different cultures have really provided a great learning experience for both of us. sure, there are times when we see things from a different perspective, but i think that has helped us both grow as people.

i really wish i SPOKE vietnamese, however, 'cuz family gatherings can leave me feeling "left out" at times when i can't understand some of the discussions.
 
I married outside of my culture, and I must admit, knight69 is absolutely correct. I mean, some cultural differences are just nearly impossible to overcome, and it has been really, really hard on myself, my wife and my kids, especially around the Christmas Holidays. If I could do it over again, who knows?

After 13 years of marriage however, I am happy to say things have gotten much better. I like Poutin now, and celebrate Thanksgiving in October and November. I understand Boxing Day. I am learning to appreciate the game of Hockey and my wife likes American Football. Please guys, think twice, seek counseling before marrying a Canadian!
 
I think it has more to do with socioeconomics. If you have similar backgrounds then I thing evertyhing will work out ok. Knights views are actually very common amongst people who live in trailer parks and other economically depressed areas thereby not so unusual.
 
ttlpkg said:
I married outside of my culture, and I must admit, knight69 is absolutely correct. I mean, some cultural differences are just nearly impossible to overcome, and it has been really, really hard on myself, my wife and my kids, especially around the Christmas Holidays. If I could do it over again, who knows?

After 13 years of marriage however, I am happy to say things have gotten much better. I like Poutin now, and celebrate Thanksgiving in October and November. I understand Boxing Day. I am learning to appreciate the game of Hockey and my wife likes American Football. Please guys, think twice, seek counseling before marrying a Canadian!

LOL, are you really married to a canadian?

I'm italian and my girlfriend is Native American born on a reserve in Saskatchewan. Can't wait for the day i have to head West to meet her family. There's gonna be alot of peace pipe smoking going on.
 
Cure said:

LOL, are you really married to a canadian?


Yep, she's from Ontario and I get to see her family fairly often. As a matter of fact, my mother-in-law is travelling with my wife right now and will spend a few weeks with us after that.

It is nice to be able to summer in Canada and winter in Texas.

Viva La Difference'
 
I have dated women of different races, blacks, Asian, Latino, Middle Eastern, and with everyone I dated there was a connection. I didn't see this color or that color, I saw a desirable woman who I wanted to get to know. Yes their race is a part of who they are, but they are so much more. Maybe other people treated us differently when I was with one of these women, but that says more about these other people than it does about us. If the love is strong enough it will last through other people's ignorance. The sad part is, sometimes that love never gets to grow because of others.
 
Ffactor said:
I think it has more to do with socioeconomics. If you have similar backgrounds then I thing evertyhing will work out ok. Knights views are actually very common amongst people who live in trailer parks and other economically depressed areas thereby not so unusual.

LOL :D

I am ethnically mixed (Polynesian/Eurasian) and my hubby is Caucasian and though we love it each other very much there are cultural problems, like values, family tension, and language... but love does conquer all. :angel: Plus, our kids look like versions of Keanu Reeves which to me is a good thing. :D
 
Top Bottom