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Initially attractiveness but what about later on.

bible51isonya

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the first thing I notice about a lady is their physical appearance. After a few weeks though this is secondary to their personality.Tell me this isn't just me. when I was younger it was the opposite. Is it age or maturity?
 
Maturity.. But i think alot of ppl can't see past one's looks
 
i agree wit' ya.......seems i can find more things to be attracted to the longer i'm with someone, before, like u said, it was all physical.
 
course it isn't just you

im 18 and already I need some, compatibility in personality....

A truely hot girl who i dont like personality wise, I could not have a relationship with. I might try, motivated by my balls, to keep her, but I would actually be unable.

But I think that's an acquired skill
 
I definitely agree with you. Looks are what initially attract me, but personality and compatability are what keep me interested.
 
bible51isonya said:
the first thing I notice about a lady is their physical appearance. After a few weeks though this is secondary to their personality.Tell me this isn't just me. when I was younger it was the opposite. Is it age or maturity?

I notice a woman's looks first, but there's gotta be more to her in order for me to pursue her. After speaking with her for 5-10min, I can tell exactly what potential there is.......I don't wait a week or weeks to find out where her mind is at.



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DIVISION said:
I notice a woman's looks first, but there's gotta be more to her in order for me to pursue her. After speaking with her for 5-10min, I can tell exactly what potential there is.......I don't wait a week or weeks to find out where her mind is at.



DIV

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very true...


...bd
 
DIVISION said:
I notice a woman's looks first, but there's gotta be more to her in order for me to pursue her. After speaking with her for 5-10min, I can tell exactly what potential there is.......I don't wait a week or weeks to find out where her mind is at.



DIV

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you know, theres something to be said for losing yourself in a haze of ignorant lust ;) :p
 
GoldenDelicious said:
you know, theres something to be said for losing yourself in a haze of ignorant lust ;) :p

When I was younger, yes.....

But nowadays I don't really do that.....she'd have to be like Winona Ryder in a croptop for me to drop down on the spot.

In reality, though.......nah.....I don't think with my dick these dayz.

I've evolved.



DIV

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bible51isonya said:
the first thing I notice about a lady is their physical appearance. After a few weeks though this is secondary to their personality.Tell me this isn't just me. when I was younger it was the opposite. Is it age or maturity?

Definitely maturity. I don't care how good someone looks, if they're an ass or we just don't have much in common (meaning they're an ass/jk), it will not work.
 
When looking to just get some, looks are essentially all the matters.

When looking for a g/f, totally different story. Must have all I want.
 
DIVISION said:
OMFGU!!!

STD free?




DIV

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Well, yeah they have to be STD free. But if you're asking me, I am clean as far as I know. I'm not a major manwhore or anything; I'm somewhat involved with someone (avatar) but she annoys the hell out of me. It's time for a new project.
 
string_bean00 said:
Well, yeah they have to be STD free. But if you're asking me, I am clean as far as I know. I'm not a major manwhore or anything; I'm somewhat involved with someone (avatar) but she annoys the hell out of me. It's time for a new project.

You don't need the stress, String_Bling...

Drop the bitch like a STR8 snitch...



DIV

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string_bean00 said:
Yeah, I'm just going to feel bad when she cries. I know she will.
Fucking conscience.

Don't believe the hype, String_Bling....

Women do that partly as a ploy, don't fall for it.

Do what you need to do and move on; otherwise you'll only have yourself to blame.



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stringbean, what i normally do in your situation is to start being a bit of an asshole and pissing them off...then they break up with you, and think that it was their idea all along

or you could just do what div said...but its a weeeiiirrrdd feeling to ahve a 30 year old act like a little girl when your 21 year old self breaks it off with her :worried: trust me, youll feel like there should be twilight zone music...
 
GoldenDelicious said:
stringbean, what i normally do in your situation is to start being a bit of an asshole and pissing them off...then they break up with you, and think that it was their idea all along

or you could just do what div said...but its a weeeiiirrrdd feeling to ahve a 30 year old act like a little girl when your 21 year old self breaks it off with her :worried: trust me, youll feel like there should be twilight zone music...

I have somewhat tried the asshole move, but she doesn't get it. When she calls me I dick around and don't even pay attention, only responding with "uh-huhs" and "yeah"s. When we hang out I refuse to go anywhere but just chill at her house, things that would have typically gotten me dumped by anyone else. I might have to take it to a whole new level.
 
GoldenDelicious said:
stringbean, what i normally do in your situation is to start being a bit of an asshole and pissing them off...then they break up with you, and think that it was their idea all along

or you could just do what div said...but its a weeeiiirrrdd feeling to ahve a 30 year old act like a little girl when your 21 year old self breaks it off with her :worried: trust me, youll feel like there should be twilight zone music...

I don't believe in your scenario, GoldenAppleNugga......

If your only intent is to break up with her, you need to do it on your own of your own volition. Pissing her off enough to make her do it is a self-defeating behaviour and won't get you anywhere. In addition, when you see her thereafter she'll look down on you and won't have the same respect for you than if you'd grabbed your nutsack and broke it off like a true vet.

In retrospect it's always best to confront and act, not avoid and react.



DIV

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