I'm gonna help all you nice guys out...

[lonewulf]

I am really disheartened by the number of "I'm a nice guy, and I can't get a girl" threads popping up lately.I was unfortunate enough to be born a nice guy myself. Did you guys ever think since nice guys cant get girls, maybe girls dont like nice guys? So am I saying you should be an asshole? No, but you should straddle the fence. What do I mean by this? Well, first let me tell you that what girls say they want and what they are attracted to is two different things. Girls say they want a nice guy who treats them right and calls them everyday, puts them first, and makes them their life. However, women are attracted to men who are self-confident, have their own life, and aspirations. They dont want to be your mamma. When given the choice of a push-over(nice guy), or an asshole(strong,confident male, that doesnt treat her well), she will choose the asshole every time. So you have to be the" strong confident, independent male" part of the asshole and the" treat her like a gentleman" part of the nice guy to be the ultimate mate. How do you do this? First of all, dont call her all of the time. Even if you dont have a life, let her think you do. Dont let her think that she is the only thing going in your life. Let her wonder what you were doing(or who,he he) Saturday night when you didnt call. Trust me she will want you more if you are a challenge to get. Let me make an example. Lets say you bought two video games, the first one is for a five year old, Muppet Babies or some shit. Its easy as hell, you didnt even have to try and you beat it in ten minutes.You throw this one in the closet, no fun. Now, the second one is much harder. It is a shitload of fun to play, but still hard. You end up getting hooked on this one because of the challenge factor. You guys pickin up what im layin down? Now what should you do when you are with her? First of all make sure you guys have a lot of FUN. This is very important. Keep things light and simple, no heavy stuff. Make her laugh, women love a guy who is fun to be with. This is especially true when you are first starting to see each other. Dont act like you want to marry this girl, act like you just want to have fun with her. You cant rush love by talking about it, let it come about naturally. Next, dont talk too damn much. Dont say "I like you so much", or "I think about you all the time."Nice guys say that kind of shit all the time. You dont want a girl to think you are falling faster than them.Let her think SHE fell in love first and wonder if you feel the same way. Women like to think everything was their idea.Women also like you to LISTEN, but not to try and solve their problems, just let them vent. Also dont touch and invade the space of a girl, especially during the beginning of a relationship. If you dont touch her, she will want to touch you more.I usually let her initiate the touch, then touch back. NEVER ask a girl if you can kiss her, it shows poor self-confidence and weakness. DO go for a kiss at the end of a first date. After you have kept your distance all night leading up to that point, IF she likes you she should really want you to. Dont bring her flowers at the beginning of a relatioship, or she will think you are trying too hard. You DONT want to look like you are trying too hard, maybe hardly trying at some points, like you dont really care and are slightly aloof. If you call a girl and she says she cant do something on a certain night, dont say "How about tomorrow night" like they do on the movies. Let her bring up a night she can do something. If she doesnt she probably doesnt want to do anything. If you sense the relationship going sour DUMP HER FIRST. This will make you feel much better than waiting and being dumped. Remember to treat her nice, open doors, listen and most of all be a fun guy.It took me years of experience and research to find this information. You guys are lucky bastards since I am not even charging for this advise. I would have paid a shitload for it a few years ago. If you have any more questions go to askmen.com and read some of what Doc Love writes, that guy knows his shit too, I agree with almost everything he writes in his articles. For you nice guys out there QUIT WHINING that you cant get the girls and CHANGE. This is your big chance, if you follow what I have written I guarantee a great improvement with the ladies-WULF

 

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[strongchick]

I dumped a guy who behaved this way. Women can smell insincerity a mile away.

I KNOW WHEN YOU MEN ARE WHIPPED BY ME! Bow down to the force that is strongchick or be tossed!

hahahahahhahahaha!

just kidding.

 

[RyanH]

just kidding.

No you're not.....but that's one reason I like you.

Ryan.

 

[Sexual Mustard]

We nice guys shouldn't have to play games or follow "rules" to make a girl like us. If she can't appreciate sincere kindness, then she should have her head beaten and go to hell.

 

[MrMuscle]

right on mustard. it seems that many girls want to be threated badly. so they ave something to cry about to their friends. threat them good and they will leave you because its to boring. go figure.

 

[PinK233]

You can start a Broadway show with all this "acting"....just be yourself

 

[bignate73]

LAYERS!

onions have layers.
ogres have layers.

hehe.

 

[Test boy]

These two methods of seduction are far and away the most effective methods to trigger the mating and nesting instincts in the human female:

1) Show her a balance sheet demonstrating large, positive cash flow.

2) Fuck her throat. Women all really dig this.


After this, they will follow you anywhere.

 

[caiza]

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