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I had been dating this girl for the past 8 months. About a month ago we broke up. She was hard working, smart, and very beautiful, with a heavenly personality.
We were very close. I introduced her to my parents and my whole extended family. My mother and father loved her like they loved me. She was coming over for dinner once a week with my family. It was a classical relationship. Everything seemed perfect. I never cheated on her. I called her everyday. Never went out without her, etc.
What happened was I was spying on her, and I found out that she was going to this party without me. I asked her in advance if she was going to that party and she kept saying no, no, no. I must have asked her about 20 times, because I knew that she was going. The night of the party I called her to ask her to go to the party, and she said that she had to study for finals. I put the pressure on her, and I told her that she was already on the highway (don't ask my how I knew that), and she confessed. And she said that she wanted to take some time off. I told her no way. You take some time off and we end the relationship. That's when she said that she wants to break up.
I told her that she broke my heart and I hung up. Two weeks later I called her and had this big conversation over the phone, and she still refused to get back together.
These were the issues:
1.) I didn't have a job and she thought that I wasn't taking on enough responsibilities.
I told her that I go to college, and I don't have time for a job. I didn't tell her that my parents give me $30,000 every year for expenses. I never asked her to pay, but she ALWAYS offered to pay when we went out. We go into a few fights over that.
2.) She thought that I was too ambitious
I didn't even want to elaborate on that topic. I told her my plans for the future in the beginning of the relationship. But I decided not to talk about it as time went on.
I really love this girl. It's been a month now and I have dreams about her every night that we are back together. I know she has been with a few guys on a few dates since we broke up. I have also had a few sexual encounters, but I still love her. I was planning to marry her as soon as I graduate next year. But I never told her that.
I want to get back with her. But I don't know how to approach her without looking like a desperate fool. I know she is the one for me, and that she is the one I love and I want to spend the rest of my life with her.
Help me out. I've dated about half a dozen girls since we broke up, and I still can't get my mind off of her. I want her, and her only.
Karma for you all!
We were very close. I introduced her to my parents and my whole extended family. My mother and father loved her like they loved me. She was coming over for dinner once a week with my family. It was a classical relationship. Everything seemed perfect. I never cheated on her. I called her everyday. Never went out without her, etc.
What happened was I was spying on her, and I found out that she was going to this party without me. I asked her in advance if she was going to that party and she kept saying no, no, no. I must have asked her about 20 times, because I knew that she was going. The night of the party I called her to ask her to go to the party, and she said that she had to study for finals. I put the pressure on her, and I told her that she was already on the highway (don't ask my how I knew that), and she confessed. And she said that she wanted to take some time off. I told her no way. You take some time off and we end the relationship. That's when she said that she wants to break up.
I told her that she broke my heart and I hung up. Two weeks later I called her and had this big conversation over the phone, and she still refused to get back together.
These were the issues:
1.) I didn't have a job and she thought that I wasn't taking on enough responsibilities.
I told her that I go to college, and I don't have time for a job. I didn't tell her that my parents give me $30,000 every year for expenses. I never asked her to pay, but she ALWAYS offered to pay when we went out. We go into a few fights over that.
2.) She thought that I was too ambitious
I didn't even want to elaborate on that topic. I told her my plans for the future in the beginning of the relationship. But I decided not to talk about it as time went on.
I really love this girl. It's been a month now and I have dreams about her every night that we are back together. I know she has been with a few guys on a few dates since we broke up. I have also had a few sexual encounters, but I still love her. I was planning to marry her as soon as I graduate next year. But I never told her that.
I want to get back with her. But I don't know how to approach her without looking like a desperate fool. I know she is the one for me, and that she is the one I love and I want to spend the rest of my life with her.
Help me out. I've dated about half a dozen girls since we broke up, and I still can't get my mind off of her. I want her, and her only.
Karma for you all!
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