I Need Help!!!!!!!!!! Please Help

[Peyote Killa]

Alright here is the pending situation.
I have been seeing this girl for about a month. We actually dated for like 6 months about a year ago. Well, the other day she thought I made a comment about us having sex, which would have been really disrespectfull. She hung up, and I didn't hear from her for like 3 days. Anyways, I never said what she thought I said, so today I finally talked to her, and we kinda talked through certain things. She still wants "time" to do her thing, and "think"

she tells me to do what ever I want, and she just needs to think. I know for fact that we both like each other. Or at least I thought we did, cuz something like this certainly should not cause such a controversy. Should I be persistant and go after her ( I would like to), or should I forget about her and try to move on (which wouldn't be so bad)

Ladies, what do you think she might be thinking, and guys what would you do, or have any of you been in a similar situation?

 

[JLo]

When I tell a guy that I need time to think and that he should do his own thing, that means I'm not longer interested in him.

If a girl likes you then, in my opinion, she would not be telling you that and risk you meeting soemone else...

I'd forget about her and move on...

 

[Peyote Killa]

When I tell a guy that I need time to think and that he should do his own thing, that means I'm not longer interested in him.

If a girl likes you then, in my opinion, she would not be telling you that and risk you meeting soemone else...

I'd forget about her and move on...

Thankyou for the honesty.
I hate that it's gonna be that way, but I would rather not pass up any thing else

 

[The Shadow]

Alright here is the pending situation.
I have been seeing this girl for about a month. We actually dated for like 6 months about a year ago. Well, the other day she thought I made a comment about us having sex, which would have been really disrespectfull. She hung up, and I didn't hear from her for like 3 days. Anyways, I never said what she thought I said, so today I finally talked to her, and we kinda talked through certain things. She still wants "time" to do her thing, and "think"

she tells me to do what ever I want, and she just needs to think. I know for fact that we both like each other. Or at least I thought we did, cuz something like this certainly should not cause such a controversy. Should I be persistant and go after her ( I would like to), or should I forget about her and try to move on (which wouldn't be so bad)

Ladies, what do you think she might be thinking, and guys what would you do, or have any of you been in a similar situation?

1- Women should just say "Get lost". It would make things SOOO much easier for us.

2 - PK - is there any sexual tension/chemistry between the two of you.....that should answer the question.

 

[havoc]

Means if something better comes along, she will take it, thats what she is suggesting to you as well, if something does not come along she will settle for you, I say move on, or at least try to get in her pantalones. peace

 

[Peyote Killa]

Re: Re: I Need Help!!!!!!!!!! Please Help

1- Women should just say "Get lost". It would make things SOOO much easier for us.

2 - PK - is there any sexual tension/chemistry between the two of you.....that should answer the question.

1 - so true!!!!!!!!!!

2 - No, not at all, we actually have great sex, she wants it more than me most of the time

 

[bigschweeler]

Re: Re: Re: I Need Help!!!!!!!!!! Please Help

2 - No, not at all, we actually have great sex, she wants it more than me most of the time

You, you, LIAR!

 

[AAP]

The bitch needs to be dumped. Go out and find yourself a real woman that is not so insecure that she gets offended by somethings she "thinks" she heard.

It sounds to me that she selectively was perceptive in her hearing and was looking for something along the same lines to use as a distancing tool.

Do you really want to be with someone who wants to play games like this? Is this where you are at your point in life? Or are you looking for someone who is mature and ready to make a longer more meaningful committment?

My advise to you is to dump the bitch BEFORE you meet someone else. People who use othes as a crutch until "something better" comes along are doing nothing but robbing themselves of any personal growth they might have had other wise by themselves. So don't do that. Just dump her and let her know that you would rather be ALONE than with her. Boy will that be a blow to her ego.