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I need help for my ugly friend

Taps

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Ok, I've got a friend -- probably the best guy I know. Honest, good morals, funny as hell, outgoing, highly intelligent, etc. He's my age (25), and has a great job and all that good stuff. The only problem is...is well, he's not the most attractive guy.

Being unattractive is about 60% his fault. He doesn't work out or watch what he eats, doens't really take care of his skin, etc. The other 40% is just shitty genetics.

He doesn't complain much, but I know he wants a girlfriend, and well...I love the guy, but no halfway decent girl is gonna go near him. His other problem is that his standards are a tad too high, but let's just concentrate on the physical for now. :)

I wanna help him out, but how the heck do I go about it? I keep telling him he should get into the gym, just for healths sake, but that's not motivating him.

As with most less-than-perfect people, he's sensitive about his appearance. I don't want to say flat out "You're gross to look at, and unless you lose 50 lbs and quit being a slob, you're never gonna get a girl".

Ideas?
 
you need to be honest with him, but in a nice way. also it's the way he carries himself, a good portion of broads aren't THAT hung up on looks, attitude and confidence and lets face it income are a big deal to these women. but working out will help his confidence a bit.
 
Well, i'm gorgeous so far be it for me to give advice to an ugly person.

Having said that, he'll find that as he gets older, the age group of the girls he meets will be far more into his intelligence, sense of humour, stimulating conversation etc, than his looks.

Most chicks in their early 20's are just interested in looks. I say, tell him to concentrate on meeting girls who are in their late 20's and he will fare much better.

If that doesn't work a wig and mask can go a long way.
 
Thanks for the replies so far, guys.

Perhaps I wasn't blunt enough though...he's really, really unattractive. 5'7, 210 lbs...all fat. Acne all over his body, bad gyno...you get the idea. I feel like an asshole for saying that, but that's what he looks like.

I think his biggest problem, is that he's never had a girl be attracted to him before...well, not really anyway. He's gone for his whole life without romantic contact, so I guess he thinks there's nothing he can do about it. :(

He can workout and diet if he puts his mind to it. I bet him $20 once that he couldn't do a keto diet for a week. Well, he lasted 7 days and then spent all suday night eating chips and ice cream. Maybe if I pay him enough he'll stay on it for a few weeks. lol

His sister used to be fat and ugly, but she lost a ton of weight and started jogging. Now she's quite pretty with a nice bod....I was hoping that might motivate him, but nope...
 
DNP might not be a bad idea, btw. I could just sprinkle some on his food every day. He'd think he had a fever or something...and presto!..one week later he's down 5% bf!! :lmao:
 
honestly Taps you love sex thats a pleasure for you, for him its chips and icecream...hes happy eating and being fat.
 
yeah sure... you're "friend" is ugly...riiiiiiiiiiiiight
 
HI, he's quite happy, I'll give you that. But he's never known the pleasure that comes from a cute girl saying "I want to fuck your brains out." :) It's not just about sex either...he's gotta start dating if he ever watns to get married (and he really wants to someday). I'm just afraid that he'll end up alone.
 
Tell him about all the girls you meet at the gym. A couple of my friends started going to the gym to see all the girls I'm always talking about.
 
lol at bullit.

hey taps, does you buddy complain to you about his "situation"? if he does, tell him to do something about it. ask him if he knows why he's in his rut. See how honest he is with himself. get HIM to say that his appearance sucks ass and that he needs to change what he's doing with himself and his attitude.
 
NB, he used to complain about it all the time. In recent years however, he's pretty much given up and accepted the way he looks.

That's great adivce though...I'll give it a shot.
 
I don't care for people who complain yet do nothing. that bothers me to no end.

this kid is still young, he can still do something with his physique.

as an alternate route, tell him to get a friggin internet personal ad or something.

in the end though, if all of my excellent advice fails, you're going to probably have to say something to him. And he probably won't like it, but that's what being a friend is about. Sometimes you have to be honest and say shit the other person isn't going to want to hear, because you give a shit. if you can't be honest with the guy, then you're really not a true friend. he may not like it, but he can at least appreciate the fact that you care. Hopefully it won't come to that though.
 
Hey Taps, you're asking the wrong crowd! You need to go find some unattractive people and ask them for dating advice, because they all seem to have signifcant others, all of the time!

Am I the only one who has noticed this trend?
 
tell him to make some money. He can be the ugliest mofo these parts have ever seen, but if he's got money he'll have models begging to fuck him.
sad truth
 
Well - he needs to focus on things like:

Style - clothes, shoes, good haircut
presentation - manners - opening doors
Personality - exude confidence laced with shyness


and he can get ANY chick he wants
 
polarpixie said:
Hey Taps, you're asking the wrong crowd! You need to go find some unattractive people and ask them for dating advice, because they all seem to have signifcant others, all of the time!

Am I the only one who has noticed this trend?
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I'm single. all the time it seems.
 
Cornholio said:
Well - he needs to focus on things like:

Style - clothes, shoes, good haircut
presentation - manners - opening doors
Personality - exude confidence laced with shyness
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Kind of like mutton dressed as lamb hey Corn
 
The Nature Boy said:
I'm single. all the time it seems.
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That's because you're a hottie! Like I said, not too many ugly people are ever single!!! ;) And what happened to that girl you were dating?

vinyl, that's the trend I'm talking about, I rarely ever see single unattractive people out and about by themselves. They always have a lover or two around. Granted it's usually homely looking guy + homely girl...or rich homely guy + hot girl, and rarely ever homely girl + hot guy..but you get the point.
 
yea thats raelly funny actually, I've been noticing that a lot recently! One second you're thinking "oh man, who would wanna date this girl!", the other second she's telling you about her boyfriend! The I pan over to my friends who I'd consider actractive, and they're mostly single!
its truely weird.
its probably because better looking people tend to settle less... i still refuse to ever "settle" for someone. Either I go for her or I don't, but theres never any settling.
 
polarpixie said:


That's because you're a hottie! Like I said, not too many ugly people are ever single!!! ;) And what happened to that girl you were dating?
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aw shucks sweetie, you say the nicest things. I ended things 3 weeks ago, I figured it had been like 5 months, and it wasn't going to lead to anything, so why waste our time. We're still talking which is cool.
 
The Nature Boy said:


aw shucks sweetie, you say the nicest things. I ended things 3 weeks ago, I figured it had been like 5 months, and it wasn't going to lead to anything, so why waste our time. We're still talking which is cool.
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You broke up with frackal :eek2:
 
polarpixie said:


That's because you're a hottie! Like I said, not too many ugly people are ever single!!! ;) And what happened to that girl you were dating?

vinyl, that's the trend I'm talking about, I rarely ever see single unattractive people out and about by themselves. They always have a lover or two around. Granted it's usually homely looking guy + homely girl...or rich homely guy + hot girl, and rarely ever homely girl + hot guy..but you get the point.
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I hear what you're saying and it gives further credence to the argument that there is no such thing as an unattractive person. Everyone is attractive to someone. There are people who don't necessarily fit the steretype of being 'attractive' but there is something attractive in all of us.
 
Polar, you're a smart gal. I'm ugly as sin and I often have sex with 4-5 hot women every week. I swear, I gotta beat 'em off with a sitck. :rolleyes:
 
Taps said:
Polar, you're a smart gal. I'm ugly as sin and I often have sex with 4-5 hot women every week. I swear, I gotta beat 'em off with a sitck. :rolleyes:
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as the guy in your avatar says, Whoooooo Hoooooooo!!!!
 
The Nature Boy said:



yes, its over. besides I never really got over supersizeme. *sobbing* get me a tissue.
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Gay_1.jpg
 
Taps...YOU just need to stop being a lazy ass and get to the gym and eat cleaner and perhaps hit a cycl;e...my 2 cents :D
 
Austin316 said:
Taps...YOU just need to stop being a lazy ass and get to the gym and eat cleaner and perhaps hit a cycl;e...my 2 cents :D
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Actually, you have no idea how right you are. No gym for over a month...plus I've been living off McDonalds for the same amount of time.:o

Bsides, I hear steriods make your penis shrivel up and your hair fall out. :D
 
Taps said:
Ok, I've got a friend -- probably the best guy I know. Honest, good morals, funny as hell, outgoing, highly intelligent, etc. He's my age (25), and has a great job and all that good stuff. The only problem is...is well, he's not the most attractive guy.

Being unattractive is about 60% his fault. He doesn't work out or watch what he eats, doens't really take care of his skin, etc. The other 40% is just shitty genetics.

He doesn't complain much, but I know he wants a girlfriend, and well...I love the guy, but no halfway decent girl is gonna go near him. His other problem is that his standards are a tad too high, but let's just concentrate on the physical for now. :)

I wanna help him out, but how the heck do I go about it? I keep telling him he should get into the gym, just for healths sake, but that's not motivating him.

As with most less-than-perfect people, he's sensitive about his appearance. I don't want to say flat out "You're gross to look at, and unless you lose 50 lbs and quit being a slob, you're never gonna get a girl".

Ideas?
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Dude...will you shut the fuck up? I can find my own women.
 
Taps, yeah right you're ugly as sin. :rolleyes:


vinylgroover said:


I hear what you're saying and it gives further credence to the argument that there is no such thing as an unattractive person. Everyone is attractive to someone. There are people who don't necessarily fit the steretype of being 'attractive' but there is something attractive in all of us.
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Thank God for that!!! ;)
 
Commpletely unrelated, but i thought you might appreciate this piccie Taps.

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Oh, and if he's a good mate, encourage him to come down the gym with you when you start going regularly again.

Stu.
 
I didn't read the above posts, but maybe he needs to kick it with some people on HIS level. what are his hobbies? is he active in a sense where he does something outside of his work, and enjoy it? hence, for us at elite, we obviously like to workout, what is his hobby?
 
food might be a coping strategy

lay it down for him, offer him help in the gym, drag his ass down and try and set him up with female friends of your's. and get him some anti-bacterial facewash/antibiotics
 
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