I am doing THE HAPPY DANCE!!!!

[Werd]

Do you guys ever think about who you want to be when you grow up?

For me the answer is without a doubt:


MY KIDS!!!!

I am afraid to go into too much detail but I have been waiting sooo long for this day.... the beginning of the end of my asshole ex's reign of terror. Not because of the bullshit laws that didnt protect us. Not because my ex *magically* decided one day to be a man and pull his head out of his ass. And not because of me. I have stumbled and flubbered up, made so many mistakes in this whole nightmare that I have a hard time reconciling...

But because of several LITTLE KIDS - they stood up and said

HELLO!!!! WE ARE NOT GOING TO TAKE THIS ANYMORE and made a bunch of BIG DUMB ADULTS SIT UP AND TAKE NOTICE!!!

They stood up to police - "therapists" - administrators. Sometimes I was standing there but I was prevented from even holding onto their hands as it could have been construed as an act of defiance on my part because I made the horrible error of trusting their care to their father and relinquished custody. I could not speak or hug them. I couldn't say a word. They had to do it all by themselves - some pretty scary shizzle for little kids. My oldest not 13, the youngest only 8.

I am so proud of them.... they finally found a way to begin to end this mess.

I have been telling them ever since, "Baby, when I grow up... I wanna be JUST LIKE YOU."

It isn't over - all the shtuff - but now I am getting a quality attorney and my kids have drawn the line in the sand so there isn't much that he can throw into the works to mess shtuff up - THE KIDS ARE FINALLY IN THE DRIVER'S SEAT - NO MORE BULLSHIT. The ex's outrageous acts and hellacious lies are exposed - PERIOD. And I am SQUEAKY CLEAN.... His last attorney actually dumped him for what a total asshole he is - made that attorney look REAL BAD TOO! I dont think he'll be able to find another attorney that can read, that is..

Thanks to all who have been so kind over all this time with your generous support. I mean it.... I genuinely appreciate it.

Thank you.

 

[Dial_tone]

You've been saying it's the beginning of the end for like a year now....kick that man's ass already.

 

[Werd]

No... he had to reregister them in our township after moving them an hour away and changing all of their records,etc from here to there....

Now there is not a fucking thing he can do, the kids have spoken. He doesn't have a fucking chance in hell. He has used up all the lies one can against a parent and played the system for fools worst of all - HE USED HIS OWN KIDS TO DO IT!!

Now it is all about dollars and cents.... damn, he got sloppy trying to hide his income last year because I just flat out gave it all to him... I cant wait to get a forensic accountant to rake his pathetic ass over the coals.

And I STILL wont keep the kids from him. They will live with me and he can see them anytime they want to see him. If they dont want to see him then that is on him and no police will enforce any papers as he lied to our township police and I will never ever make the kids see him or talk to him. He made his own bed and now he can lie in it.

 

[Dakotah]

good for you and the kids
like dialtone said -kick his ass girl!

 

[Werd]

I didnt have to kick his pathetic ass....

The kids already did. That is why I say I want to be them when I grow up. If nothing else good ever comes from this nightmare it will be that I can rest knowing that the cycle ended with me.

 

[onebigab]

Congratulations and best of luck with a new beginning for you and your kids.

 

[jerseyart]

Congrats Sweetie

how much a day can change things

 

[Werd]

Yea... this time last week I thought my whole world was crashing down around me.

Today I feel like the luckiest woman alive...

 

[Werd]

Man was it a scene when I went to pick up the kids. They asked me if they could spend the day with daddy. I said, "Of course you guys can. Get your stuff together and I will pick you up tonight - SCHOOL STARTS TOMORROW!!! "

I show up and he is nowhere - apparently he was dying of pneumonia (Funny he was well enough to take my kids to be psychologically and emotionally baraged by his friends and family all weekend long but now he was dying.). He did NOTHING to help them pack. They have very few necessities at my place. They came to the door with some toys and their backpacks. I was like, "Babies, where are your school clothes and your shoes?" (I forgotten to ask about jackets and raincoats.) They scurried about with some things (always forgetting this or that) in garbage bags, carrying their clothing in their hands and hiding their little underclothes underneath their shirts (Mommy, I dont want the neighbors to see my panties.).

Then I hear what he and his family had been torturing my kids with all weekend long.

"Your daddy fought so hard for you! Your mommy tried to take you away from him. Dont you love him? He did so much for you! Now he might kill himself!"

I WANT TO FUCKING ***^$#((*&)_++(()^&$@!!!!*^&^ EVERY LAST ONE OF THOSE SICK MOTHERFUCKERS!!!!

*deep breath*

Then they went on to call their mother a whore s'more. How I only care about money and how it is sick and disgusting that my boyfriend is so much older than me.

I have to just shake my head...

Then they had to run to the phone to call their father because they *had a vision of him stabbing himself to death*!!!

They were great... put what they had away and we talked about some stuff. I wont lie. It was VERY difficult for me to contain my anger at my ex and the people that he chooses to surround himself with... Soon all of those people will only be a bad memory.

We dont know anything about their school schedules, who their teachers will be, bus schedules - nothing. My job sucks HOWEVER my boss is great and they will do whatever to accomodate my schedule for the kids... one of the reasons why I came to work here.

I am sooooooo looking forward to making Halloween costumes. Actually, helping them make their own! Bringing birthday treats for the class. Everybody's grades getting back to where they should be.... I'll get us all into some excellent counseling next week. We are all going to be ok... Who knows where we will go and what we will do?! I've been calling and emailing all my friends - I am SO PROUD of my kids! But especially my 9 y/o.

ALL OF THIS HAPPENED BECAUSE SHESTOOD UP AND REFUSED TO BE BULLIED BY ANYONE!!!

God but I admire the hell out of her!!!!

 

[ChefWide]

Just to tell you again, this is fantastic, for you and the girls!

The power of children never ceases to amaze and inspire me.

 

[Lady Viking]

Congrats

 

[Pamela]

That's great!!!!

 

[jenscats5]

Good for you & the kids!!