Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below I am so fucking depressed. I cry in the middle of the day for no reason. I cry when I see something happy, I feel so overwhelmed sometimes. I recently broke up with my gf and got back together with her yesterday. She is a great girl but her job is putting a hole in my heart and I seem so unhappy. I am miserable without her and I am not so happy because of her job with her. I can't do this anymore. I think about her job and want to lose my mind. I really need some help or advice badly. Do I have depression? I just feel like I want to leave and go away and not be around anyone and forget everything. What should I do.
I am depressed. Badly.
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hamstershaver
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dump her ass, shes the reason you are like this, damn man its just kitty
hamstershaver
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shes gotta bebran987 said:is she a stripper?
hamstershaver
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why would you date a stripper if you are so insecure about it?johnny g said:
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From Zero said:
The one reason why i am hanging around is because she made a promise to me. If she breaks that promise then that is a different story. She changed from working nights where she would make ALOT of money to the day. That tells me she cares. She makes less money and she tells me she doesn't want to dance anymore, she wants to save up some money to start school.
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Talk is CHEAP
hamstershaver
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they all say that, do yourself a favor and find another woman, you will be much happierjohnny g said:
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BrothaBill
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Ditch the stripper, she's baggage...not worth it at all and things are not going to improve unless you:
a)leave her
b)she leaves her job PERIOD.
NO way around these two options with the feelings youve already expressed. You can get medications from the doc to help you get through the rough patches, sounds more like anxiety than depression, but they often go hand in hand. The doc can give you stuff that'll help turn your brain down a little so you dont constantly think about things.
There are no good alternatives and strippers well theyre head cases, most of the ones Ive met anyway and if theyre not already the job turns them into selfhating, menhating, nutjobs. Do yourself a favor both in the short run and the long run. You already know what you need to do, thats why youre so tormented. Youre logical mind is fighting with your attachment with her.
a)leave her
b)she leaves her job PERIOD.
NO way around these two options with the feelings youve already expressed. You can get medications from the doc to help you get through the rough patches, sounds more like anxiety than depression, but they often go hand in hand. The doc can give you stuff that'll help turn your brain down a little so you dont constantly think about things.
There are no good alternatives and strippers well theyre head cases, most of the ones Ive met anyway and if theyre not already the job turns them into selfhating, menhating, nutjobs. Do yourself a favor both in the short run and the long run. You already know what you need to do, thats why youre so tormented. Youre logical mind is fighting with your attachment with her.
only you can make you happy.... trust me i know. Seriously dude there is nothing wrong with getting help from therapy. It saved my current relationship thus far. Also depending on what gear you are taking it can affect your mindset. I know a few strippers that are working their way through school and they are not bad people or sluts.... of course for those few there are literally hundreds that have more issues than national geographic. Find out which you have in your life. Chances are if you can't deal now you will never be able to.
mrplunkey
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I'm at a loss! I realize some strippers do "business on the side" (read: prostitution), but if she's one of the ones who doesn't then what would the issue be?
Encourage her to work evenings, where the $$$ will be good, and ask her to do her routines *for* you. Her current job pays well, requires her to be in good shape and immerses her in exotic behavior. I understand that she may be all "tapped out" emotionally/sensually when she gets home, but maybe you could do some things to re-stir the pot!
Encourage her to work evenings, where the $$$ will be good, and ask her to do her routines *for* you. Her current job pays well, requires her to be in good shape and immerses her in exotic behavior. I understand that she may be all "tapped out" emotionally/sensually when she gets home, but maybe you could do some things to re-stir the pot!
Forge
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saint808 said:
Yeah, seriously. If I've learned anything in life it's that sometimes a certain degree of selfishness is a good thing.
You clearly aren't happy with your situation, and it obviously is due to her stripping job, so you have three choices to make yourself happy:
1. Accept her and her occupation for who she is. This seems unlikely given your current mindset.
2. Make her quit. Relationships where one person forces the other to make a drastic change rarely end well, and she will likely choose her job over you.
3. Leave her and move on without her. Find another woman who's job you are comfortable with.
That's it. Choose one (with your own happiness in mind) and run with it. Good luck.
