How should I go about asking my wife for a woman on the side?

[gonelifting]

It would be just a one time thing, that`s it. Just have sex with another woman and never see her again and never even talk about it or ever bring it up again.

My wife definately would not go for it, but if I play it right, who knows... I know I should start out the conversation by saying how much I love her and stuff and gradually start hinting about another woman. or Maybe I should just say it outright and simple enough to get my point across.

Any ideas? This will NOT be a 3-some or anything like that. Just sex for one night with another woman.PERIOD.

Thanks bros. Also, should I ask on a certain day of the week? A holiday? When we`re out to dinner? Any good suggestions would be great.

 

[i-Supplements]

Honestly, it is probably just a bad idea. I'll give you props though for at least wanting to discuss it with your wife rather than just cheating on her.

 

[havoc]

I bring the element H with the two so you owe what's coming when I'm raining on your new parade.

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[DIVISION]

Swervin'....

It would be just a one time thing, that`s it. Just have sex with another woman and never see her again and never even talk about it or ever bring it up again.

My wife definately would not go for it, but if I play it right, who knows... I know I should start out the conversation by saying how much I love her and stuff and gradually start hinting about another woman. or Maybe I should just say it outright and simple enough to get my point across.

Any ideas? This will NOT be a 3-some or anything like that. Just sex for one night with another woman.PERIOD.

Thanks bros. Also, should I ask on a certain day of the week? A holiday? When we`re out to dinner? Any good suggestions would be great.

I don't think it matters when you bring it up. The context of what you say makes all the difference when it comes to you having sex with another woman. I think you gotta come out with it STR8 out, no bullshit. Just tell her that you'd like to have sex with another woman and ask her what she thinks about the idea. Don't pussyfoot around with the shit, just out and tell her you want to and then the ball's in her court. She might tell you to fuck off and like it, or possibly she may value your honesty and let you do it this one time. I for one don't think cheating is the way to go, but honesty is always the best policy, nugga.....

Hope this helps, bro


DIV

 

[bran987]

Thanks bros. Also, should I ask on a certain day of the week? A holiday? When we`re out to dinner? Any good suggestions would be great.

Probably when you're out with your kid at Chuck E Cheese having pizza, playing skee-ball together and your wife is trying to win one of those sylvester the cat stuffed animals you always wanted - like a family - that's when I would ask. Maybe before she or your daughter ask for another 10 bill to go get more tokens, mention it then. People at Chuck E Cheese will do anything for tokens.

 

[i-Supplements]

LOL @ Bran

 

[Subzeero]

Think about how your wife should approach you for a one time thing with another man. Its that easy or hard.

 

[DIVISION]

Think about how your wife should approach you for a one time thing with another man. Its that easy or hard.

Exactly.

If I was married; I for one would never let my wife get dicked down by another guy........it won't happen. So I would expect that she would not let me do same.

Treat others the way you would want to be treated......I think that's appropriate.

DIV

 

[milo hobgoblin]

and is she says "fine then I want another man.. just for sex..." what would you say????

assuming you'd be okay with that.. then she would probably go for it.. assuming she feels secuire with you and yuor relationship..

I dont think there is anythign wrong with it as long as everyone knows and its just about sex..

Does your wife still shwo a lot of iinterest in sex???

 

[gonelifting]

Honestly, it is probably just a bad idea. I'll give you props though for at least wanting to discuss it with your wife rather than just cheating on her.

Bad idea? How can you say that? I would be having sex with another woman and my wife would (if all goes well) approve of it. Everyone goes home happy, end of story.

I`m not taking Bran`s answer seriously re Chuckee Cheese, but I think the rest of you are saying that I just tell her straight out.

The onley thing I`m worried about is, what if it does`nt go well, will our relationship ever be the same? What if she flips out on me for even asking? She might just do that, so I`m thinking the chick I find to do this with better be worth it for one night.

I may be digging myself a hole here.